I don’t know if you watch Taiwanese dramas. I suggest you watch a Taiwanese drama called "I May Not Love You" or check the plot. In it, the male and female protagonists are "best friends" that are annoying...

First of all, I think he and the woman have a relationship that is definitely not an ordinary heterosexual friend.

I have several very good friends of the opposite sex. We can talk easily but never get involved, have no feelings for each other, and communicate openly. But there was a friend of the opposite sex who fell in love with me and pursued me relentlessly. I didn’t like him, so I regretfully and decisively disappeared from his sight, because only in this way can I be worthy of my boyfriend and his future girlfriend, otherwise I would be with him. If I continue to make friends, my own relationship will be in danger. Just thinking about it will make my boyfriend and his future girlfriend uncomfortable, ambiguous, and painful. This is my opinion, I don't know what you think.

So coming back to the issue of your boyfriend and that girl, I think it is impossible for your boyfriend to be with her, because when people reach a certain point, they find that even if they can’t let go in their hearts, in reality He has never been able to make a bold breakthrough, but he can't let it go. The lingering ambiguity has caused you long nights and many dreams, but sometimes you have to think clearly, we have lived for so many years, without you When we appear in his life, we cannot require that his previous life be blank. We must take a good look at his past. There is no way around it.

So, I also believe that he loves you very much, even more than you love him. I feel that people’s hearts really don’t just love one person and ignore all others. That is just an ideal. For that person , he has some complicated feelings and cannot let go completely. If you openly communicate your thoughts with him, everyone will understand your discomfort with that girl, let alone him who loves you; then when you express your unhappiness with that girl, you also express your understanding that you can't let go of him. , saying that you can give him time to fade away slowly, and express your love, understanding and tolerance for him in a timely manner. I think he will love you deeper and work harder to manage your relationship!