Socialize more. The more afraid we are, the more we do it. Sometimes what we are afraid of is actually not that thing, but our own heart. Because I can't overcome my heart, I make myself timid and have countless fears in my heart.
I remember one of my college classmates. Because he was too weak to accept himself, he began to look down on himself. For example, when a girl talks to him, he doesn't dare to leave, and he doesn't dare to say a word when he is dragged. He just lowers his head. In fact, girls think his songs are good, so let him sing a few words. But he was so introverted that he didn't say a word when he got there, and he blushed like a cooked hairy crab.
Seeing him not singing for a long time, a group of girls shouted at KTV ... singing at sixes and sevens.
And he, as always, is indifferent. Red face, low head, silent.
How to change it? One day in class, he turned to ask me. This surprised me, because in my impression, he should be the kind of person who doesn't even have the courage to ask others questions, but it's not like this, such as this time.
Because of his situation, I think he is really introverted and honest, and he is not the kind of love rat who is troubled by his heart, so I told him that if you go to socialize more, there may be great changes, but how much you change depends on your personal feelings and your courage.
After listening to my words, he said thank you politely, nodded vaguely, as if to carry out what I said next, and then left. Then, I silently looked at everything he showed.
At the class's New Year's party, his singing of Xu Wei's song "Ordinary Road" shocked everyone in the class!
Almost original tunes, almost perfect tunes, and the songs that everyone usually sings in KTV are not at the same level! Moreover, his voice didn't tremble at all, and there was no tone change at all, only a calm face. He looked like an old singer, not only sophisticated, but also sophisticated.
How did you practice like this? Afterwards, I asked him after singing. He said that after listening to my er words, he did a lot of socializing, chatted with others and made friends every day, so that he didn't feel the slightest excitement when he sang on the stage. On the contrary, he is calm inside.
I have witnessed a person's personality change, that is, through social interaction. I hope you can do the same. In addition, whether timid personality can be called introverted convergence, cowardice also has the advantages of cowardice. Change slowly, and just accept it happily before changing.