I hope that no matter what happens, you can pull yourself out to see the problem. If you always regard yourself as the protagonist of this story, I think you will never see the essence of the matter and the solution to the problem. The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. If you can separate yourself from your own story and sit in the audience and watch your own story, I think you will understand it better! You must know what you should do now. In fact, love is a messy fate. In your own love, only you know the ins and outs of things best. Other people's answers can only be used as your reference, and the final decision is up to you. You should never take other people's answers as the standard to solve your own problems, because who knows your own things better than you? You chose love, that is, you also chose the ups and downs in love. Maybe one day you will break up from the beginning. Since we have chosen a process from beginning to end, we must face this process of love. It is not difficult to face it, because two people are together for happiness. If separation gives each other more space to find their own happiness, what is there to be sad about? Happiness is a day, so is unhappiness. We don't have the courage to escape from this world. We still have to live every day. Since you choose to live, why not live every day? Make yourself happy every day? Please be kind to yourself and love yourself once before you really intend to love others! Think about it, how much do you love yourself? Isn't it? With a calm mind, in the face of everything happening around you, you will explore a peaceful life! Have fun! A new relationship is the best solution to forget the pain caused by the last love. "This sentence is right, but it is so easy to fall in love with another person? Before you fall in love with someone else, what you need to do is to minimize the pain that love brings you. For example, look down on him, make him no longer the most important thing in your heart, make him sad and make him unhappy. One day, you can take it lightly, and maybe it will be fine. 1. Don't forget it intentionally. Deliberately forgetting will only make you remember better. 2. Try to keep yourself busy, enrich your life and be too busy to miss. 3. Try to expand your circle of friends and meet as many people as possible. Maybe there's your Mr. Right in it. When you have to contact him, try to treat him as an ordinary friend with a normal heart. 5. Try to find your hobbies, do something you like, and play the role of empathy. 6. Give yourself a big smile every day and tell yourself, "Tomorrow is another day. "I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of him again, your heart will no longer hurt. Unconsciously, he has become "the man". "If you really love each other, you can only forget, not forget. The more I want to forget, the more I can't forget. You always ask yourself if you forgot. In fact, that will only remind myself not to forget. On the contrary. . . Think more about how to live, find friends to play with, get to know more friends of the opposite sex, don't think too much, go out for a walk, find your own happiness, and then you can forget it slowly. It is still possible to get back together. As long as you are sure that the other person once loved you deeply, he can't forget it so soon after breaking up. If we are separated for too long, it is impossible. If you just broke up with him, no matter how unhappy you are and how much you miss him, don't bother him by phone, but give both sides some space. Also, keep self-confidence, firmly believe that it is his loss to leave you, let yourself start over and find your own happiness, and don't always live in sadness. When you are mature, that is, meet again for a period of time, you will no longer feel embarrassed and regard each other as your closest friend. Greet each other in a friendly way when you meet. You don't need to say too much, just show that you have had a good, fulfilling and happy life since you left him. (If both parties have changed their new numbers, tell him or ask him for it) Keep a happy smile, and humorous chatting is more effective. Don't mention the past to him. It doesn't matter if we just meet briefly. If he leads a normal life after leaving you, he will think of a lot of happiness with you when he returns, and he will begin to miss the past with you. You can contact him by phone or message at an appropriate time, and you can't casually mention your unpleasant things and past events (this is a big taboo), so you can stand on the side of friends. I believe you also know what to do next! He will probably fall in love with you again because of your change now! In fact, it is very simple, that is, change yourself and become what he likes. The important thing is to be happy. I hope you can get the happiness you want. Jingjing wishes you well here! After being lovelorn, we always ask, "How can we forget him? I really want to forget him, but I just can't forget him. "If you can't forget him, then don't forget him. Why is it so painful to forget someone? Time will naturally make you forget him. Now, I ask you not to think about a pink elephant. Excuse me, what do you have in mind? You will immediately think of a huge pink elephant. The harder you try to forget, the less you can forget. It is natural that you still love him and can't forget him. Don't be ashamed. Some people can't forget it, but they deceive themselves and say, "I have forgotten him." "But, as long as others mention him, he can't help himself. One day, you will forget him. True forgetfulness requires no effort. One day, you come out of the bathroom, turn on the record player and listen to your favorite music. It suddenly occurred to me that you once loved someone. Ah, it seems that you loved this person a long time ago, and you didn't feel anything. This is forgetting. One day, someone mentioned so-and-so, and you suddenly remembered that you loved this person, but now you can't remember it. This is forgetting. If time can't make you forget those people you shouldn't remember, what's the point of our lost years? ! 1! ! ! You should know how to do it now ~ Come on! Do we have to forget? The past is gone, but what remains is the best memory. Why do you want to forget it? Although you can't be together, you have good memories! ! I believe he will always cherish your good memories in his heart. Love a person is to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want, happiness and misfortune are in your heart. When time goes by and you find your other half, you will keep your memories in your heart and bring your blessings to him with them. Let bygones be bygones. Short-term heartache is inevitable, but don't deliberately let yourself forget anything, it will be more painful. As long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy. Don't try to forget someone deliberately, so it's not easy to forget, not to worry about someone, but to laugh it off. Over time, you won't think of someone and then sigh your success. It is not so easy to forget someone in your heart, let alone forget it completely. At most, you just reduce the number of times you miss someone, that's all, so when you miss someone, you can miss them as much as you like and tell yourself that you can be happy now, not sad. Besides, you can also find something you like to do to make yourself happy and release your mind. Time is therapy. It's even harder to forget someone you love the most. What is forgetting? After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and have no other thoughts in your heart. But it's hard to do, especially to forget the person you love. Time will take everything away ... everything will pass ... and get better gradually ... After all, we always have to grow up ... learn to be brave ... One must learn to be strong ... believe in oneself ... Happiness will come to you ... There is no right or wrong in love ... Only those who don't cherish it ... Love just goes with the flow .. There is no need to force it ... It will always be a memory ... I wish you happiness ..