As the old saying goes, if you are powerful, you can help the world, but if you are poor, you can only take care of yourself. When you have no money, in addition to the time necessary for life, devote your limited time every day to self-improvement, such as mastering a skill, improving your academic qualifications, etc. This is to build a foundation for your future. If you know you are poor but don't think about making progress and waste your time, your life will only get worse and worse.
There is a big difference in business culture between the South and the North. Some of the bosses I know in the North are very heavy drinkers, and all the relevant leaders will be drunk on his table. The same goes for their careers. Green light all the way, in Chinese human relations, this is indispensable!
My business friends and I spend most of our time together drinking tea, and we are learning each other’s ideas, approaches, and models!
Brother Tie’s family is just a pickle and he can still have a good time drinking and talking. There is no need to invite anyone who is idle, and it is definitely not unnecessary for those who have interests.
As for people being poor, it is not necessary, so the result goes without saying
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"No please The necessary people need to eat." I agree with this point of view! ! !
Treating guests to dinner is a very common behavior in life. Not only can it bring each other closer, but it can also help you get to know more like-minded people through this medium. In daily life, you can invite those who have helped you in your work and life and are worthy of your learning and communication. First, it can promote emotional exchanges, and second, it can compensate for your own gratitude.
You have to remember that if you don’t invite others, others will think you are very good, and you will definitely be able to connect with each other. Compared with those friends who don't usually have much contact with each other, if you are too enthusiastic and rashly invite people to dinner, others will be uneasy. They will doubt your intentions, and may not even accept your favor. Some people are very hypocritical, and they never surrender their sincerity to others. No matter how much you pay, you can't get back the trust of these people in you. Even if they eat and drink together, they will only treat you as a free prey. The human heart is sometimes extremely complicated. There is no need to do something that costs you money and is thankless.
So I think, whether you have money or not, don’t invite unnecessary people to dinner! There is no need to pay unnecessarily for some unnecessary people! Isn't it?
The poorer a person is, the more generous he should be. Inviting people to dinner also depends on fate. If you meet a noble person, it will be a turning point in your life. As the saying goes, one more friend means one more path. When you are in trouble, you should make more friends. If you are already poor and have nothing to do with anything, you can only eat and wait to die.
This is how society is. When you have the skills, ability, and money, you will slowly start to pay more and more. This is the way to do business and be a human being, and do what you should do for better development. Things
I don’t agree with this statement. I think "when a person is poor, he should invite some people to eat. As for whether they come or not, we don't have to worry about it." When a person is poor, he should find connections, find ways, and invite people to eat.
This is also a very real problem. If a person is poor, he usually invites others to come for dinner, but they will not come. Because you are not in the same circle.
There is an idiom "It's hard to refuse hospitality." Since you are already poor, have no identity or status, you should be thicker-skinned. Treat people to dinner with your true feelings, and they will definitely be moved.
The premise is that what you ask for from others must be legal and reasonable. No one is willing to do things that violate principles. If you want to change the status quo, you have to find some connections and find some ways. Inviting people to dinner, to put it bluntly, means taking advantage of each other and helping each other.
I also want to invite some respectable, status, and powerful people to dinner. The most important thing is, can you be used by them? Can you meet the requirements and skills he puts forward? Do you have that talent or skill?
Human interaction is actually to create value. No one wants to spend a lot of time doing some boring entertainment. No matter how poor you are, if you have good ideas and good plans to invite someone to dinner, they will definitely come. Because who wouldn’t come if you have money to make? What are you good at? What will you do? It's best to invite everyone in this circle to dinner.
When people mix in society, of course they have many friends and many paths. We are friends from all over the world! If we can get together to have a meal, it is fate.
But everyone has their own life and their own social circle. If you don't fit in that circle, if you invite others to dinner, of course they won't come. Why bother asking for trouble?
In short, when people are poor, they should invite some necessary people to eat. Everyone has difficulties, and everyone has times when they need help. Show your sincerity. As long as you have talent and skills, the people you want to invite will definitely come.
There is no shame in inviting people to dinner, make sincere friends, and make trustworthy friends! It’s one of the great pleasures in life!
Not to mention when people are poor, there is no need to treat others to dinner when they are rich. Most human behaviors are purposeful. As the saying goes, there is no free lunch. The ancients said that people must ask for something when they are polite.
In my limited experience, I have never seen anyone entertain others for no reason. Of course, these guys are pretty good. Get together to make some side dishes and have a glass of wine. This is common. But it is also necessary. Just being able to integrate the feelings of my buddies.
People who have been truly poor never need to consider this issue!
It’s not about whether it’s necessary to invite someone, but it’s about not being able to afford it! !
Imagine that a poor person only has 300 yuan. According to current consumption standards, he can consume all his money in one meal. Do you think you still need to ask this question? It’s not whether it’s necessary to invite people to dinner, but it’s that you can’t afford it! Because I have to eat, rent a house, provide for my parents, buy daily necessities, and pay off my credit card! People who have been truly poor never consider this issue! !
I very much agree with this point of view
When people are poor, you will see a very human side. There is a saying that goes, "If you are poor in the busy city, no one will ask you. "Wealth in the mountains has distant relatives", this is the social reality. In the past, everyone was busy working for food and clothing, but now that living conditions are slightly better, everyone is busy working for profit.
When you are poor, don’t invite unnecessary people to dinner.
The first person will not remember your kindness, nor can it give you practical help. It cannot change your economic and living conditions, it will only make you poorer and poorer. When one day you Maybe people will leave you when you can no longer afford to treat them to dinner.
Secondly, you should focus your energy on how to change the current situation. Although what I said is very realistic, it is like this in life. For example, if you are in business, you treat people to dinner because you want to keep the business going, make money, and really help your development. Only in this way is it worthwhile for you to treat people to dinner.
Thirdly, we have to be grateful to those who have helped you, so I think it is necessary to maintain support even when people are poor, and it is necessary to treat others to meals if conditions permit.
In short, even when people are poor, we must distinguish between what is necessary and what is unnecessary.
Since you are an unnecessary person, you don’t need to treat yourself to a meal no matter you are rich or poor. In daily life, we sometimes invite people to dinner for something, to achieve a certain wish, or to express something, and achieve what we want through communication at the dinner table. During Chinese New Year and festivals, we also invite relatives and friends to have dinner together.
Whether the economic conditions are good or not, whether you should treat guests or not sometimes depends on the actual situation, and there are no certain rules. Since there are no guests who need to be entertained, it is not necessary. I think it has nothing to do with whether you are rich or poor.
Don’t talk to others when you are poor, and don’t join the group when the circle knows you are poor! Don’t ask relatives to help you borrow money, they will only laugh at you and look down on you. Don’t lose confidence! Think carefully and summarize the reasons for failure, then make plans for the next few years, and follow these steps slowly! I believe that in the near future you will make people who look down on you envious and jealous!