If you want to be red, you must cultivate yourself. What kind of person you are essentially determines who you can associate with. So when you are alone, you must be strict with yourself and try to polish your character.
Sosoig
Use sports, music, calligraphy and other ways to enhance their spirit. The temperament revealed in a person's bones can't be covered, and his positive energy will inevitably attract the attention of others. Yun Yilong, Feng Yihu, respond in unison, with the same spirit. Pay attention to your self-cultivation and lay a solid foundation for your popularity.
Second, be good at getting along with others and be tolerant of others.
Test yourself in the crowd! Tolerance and humility are always the best way for you to communicate with others. To be lenient with others is not to tolerate others' mistakes blindly, but to be able to put yourself in others' shoes.
What you don't want to do, others may not want to do. What you want to do, others may not want to. Therefore, we should learn to seek common ground while reserving differences and communicate with others with a tolerant attitude. Good luck always comes uninvited.
Sosoig
There are four truths: don't eat people, don't talk about people's losses, don't talk about people's mistakes, and don't make people think.
Third, look at the end, the word is in the middle.
Be good at detecting changes in people's minds. Communicate with people sincerely and neutrally. Doing things rashly will always lead to more misunderstandings. Many entanglements start with trivial things, and if you are not careful, it will be like a snowball effect.
Starting from small things, people's popularity is accumulated bit by bit, and the most feared thing is never to start. The mentality of broken pots and broken falls will only make people more lonely.
Fourth, be ready to help others and keep your promise.
When others need you most, it's easier to get a good impression by helping them. Being good at keeping promises makes it easier to maintain popularity. The road is bumpy, draw your sword to help. People who help others are always helped by others.
Sosoig
Don't hang up just because things have nothing to do with you, and don't wait until you need help, and so do others! Promise, we must constantly check whether it is fulfilled. Complete your responsibilities, and others will recognize your character.
Generally, such people are cheerful and lively, and naturally they are familiar. As long as they are here, they are not afraid of chatting or sudden silence.
Be sincere when you are with others. Never speak insincerely to others, it is very comfortable to get along with.
People who can talk are popular, are good at taking part in accidental amusement, are good at grasping people's hearts, can change innuendo and enliven the crowd atmosphere. Everyone likes to relax, and people who can talk are likable.