She felt that it seemed stingy to always mind such things, but her boyfriend didn't pay attention to it at all. She felt that she was not cared about at all and didn't know how to deal with this situation.

Before discussing this issue, I would like to talk to you about "Is there such a thing as pure friendship between opposite sexes?" Although this topic is considered a commonplace, it still appears again and again in various submissions on love issues.

Many people say that there is no pure friendship between opposite sexes, which is a bit too absolute. There are always two genders in this world: men and women. The word friend has never been limited to people of the same sex. Who stipulates that only friends of the same sex should be selected when making friends? Friends of the opposite sex are friends first, and then friends of the opposite sex.

So if you have a partner, you can’t play with friends of the opposite sex? That’s not necessarily the case.

Facing the human need for friendship, can women only be used as sexual carriers? They also have their own emotions, thoughts and shining points, and boys are the same. Listen to me, communicating with the opposite sex on an equal footing can really enrich your thinking perspectives.

One situation that may make you feel more at ease is that if your partner’s friend of the opposite sex is gay or lesbian, then there is basically no big problem.

A man and a woman whose orientations are both opposite sex can also have friendship, but the way to get along depends on the degree.

I grew up as a straight boy, and my parents have known each other for a long time. We have been playing together since childhood, and we can say that we have a very good relationship.

Normally we don’t chat very intimately all day long. We talk about things on WeChat. Occasionally when the other person is sad or frustrated, we help analyze the problem and give some suggestions of our own. . If you have time, you can get together to eat and chat. Most likely, a large group of people will act together, and there are not many opportunities for two people to meet alone.

Even if you really don’t take the other person’s gender seriously at ordinary times, it will be different once one party has a partner.

There is a very tacit understanding between the two of us, that is, when one party falls in love, the other party will automatically stay away or disappear, and when we go out to play, we will take the person with us.

This kind of measured and discerning way of getting along with each other allowed me and him to never cause misunderstandings because of our relationship during our respective relationships. On the contrary, we got along well. More harmonious. So much so that he played well with several of my exes, and one of them is still in contact with him.

This is an ideal situation. It does not mean that you must become friends with your boyfriend’s friends of the opposite sex, but there is no need to not allow him to associate with friends of the opposite sex just because he is in love. Of course, the premise is that Socialize within normal limits on the table.

But there is also a part where they occupy each other's time in the name of friends of the opposite sex, which is used as an excuse for ambiguity and an excuse for irresponsibility. In fact, one or both parties have some small ideas in mind, but due to various reasons, they have never broken through this double-window paper.

Going back to the first private message, the boy in it may not really have any problems with his friend of the opposite sex, but he does have no sense of boundaries.

It is understandable to socialize within the normal range. Moreover, friends of the opposite sex with some principles should consciously keep an appropriate distance from their friends after they fall in love and actively avoid suspicion. As a girlfriend, if you feel uncomfortable, it means they have crossed the line. You should bring it up and clearly express your attitude and bottom line.

You can also try to solve it from other angles, such as taking up more of your boyfriend's time, increasing the interaction with your boyfriend, and using this method to reduce the contact between your boyfriend and friends of the opposite sex. If the other party remains the same, there may be a problem.

This problem may be a problem between them, or it may be a problem between you. In short, it is not a good sign for this relationship.

If you are the one who has a friend of the opposite sex and your partner becomes jealous or dissatisfied because of this, don’t think he is being petty.

The prerequisite for continuing to associate with friends of the opposite sex is that you must not be coy or ambiguous, keep a distance based on whether the other person will be unhappy if I do this, and do not ignore the feelings of the other half.

The most important thing is, don’t seek comfort from friends of the opposite sex as soon as you quarrel with your partner. Keeping this in mind and implementing this may prevent many misunderstandings.