Even the sun, some people think it is dazzling

Yesterday I was scolded for the first time when I made a public account

I am a person who is very afraid of rejection and fear of others. I feel like I can't curse others, and I don't want others to affect my mood. However, when I treat others with kindness, I get bad words from others.

In fact, the thing is very simple. When we were helping each other read, one person didn't want me to send him a message. He said an rude word, which caught me off guard. Why does this person have to give his emotions to strangers? Should strangers be your punching bag?

Actually, this incident did not have much impact on me. It's just a matter of blocking complaints and having his account banned. But because of this animal, I may no longer have the same casualness and tacit understanding with friends who also have public accounts in the future. I will be more cooperative and polite, so that our relationship will stop at being an insider.

I have always been a pleaser since I was a child. I don’t want to be said to be unsociable and difficult to get along with. For people who don't like me, I'm even nicer to them than to my friends. This kind of mentality seems really abnormal. But why should I do this now? Why should I win everyone's favor? Even the sun is disliked by some for its dazzling appearance!

I really like to make friends.

When I made a public account, I met a very nice sister from Suzhou, a calligrapher brother from Jiangxi, half a fellow Shanxi fellow who went to college at Central Media, and a junior who was the same age as me. , and even younger brothers and sisters born in the 2000s.

But because I am a public account, I have experienced a lot of things that I shouldn’t have experienced, and encountered a lot of grievances that I shouldn’t have encountered. There are many people who don’t like me, don’t like me disturbing them every day, don’t like the articles I write, and even complain about me and block me.

But what does it matter? I was born to live for myself. The relationship between us is limited to the other side of the screen. After deleting each other's friends, we will see each other again. Why leave any grudges?

Those who love me, understand me, and understand me are regarded as close friends

Those who hate me, blame me, and despise me are regarded as ants or mantises

What the sun wants to do is shine brightly

Only those in the dark will find it dazzling and piercing