What are the top ten taboos of interpersonal communication in the workplace?
In this complicated workplace, every successful person has his own way to survive. In the workplace, we should not only deal with all kinds of things flexibly, but also face all kinds of people. Ability is important, but if you don't know the rules of survival in the workplace and how to avoid workplace taboos, you will fall down one day. Here are 10 workplace taboos to share with you. Don't violate them easily, otherwise it will affect the promotion and salary increase in a small scale and directly affect your work in a large scale. 1, pulling out one's teeth, arguing with leaders about right and wrong. In the workplace, there are always some people who think they are very clever, like to challenge their leaders and openly confront their bosses! As we all know, "at home, reasoning with your wife depends on emotional intelligence;" In the company, the right or wrong with the boss is an IQ problem. " The number one taboo in the workplace is "pulling your teeth out of the tiger's mouth and arguing with the leader for right and wrong"! Those who can climb into leadership positions will not be good in the workplace. No matter how gentle and harmless he is on the surface, he is essentially a latent "tiger". Don't treat the tiger as hello Kitty. Don't try to challenge his limits and authority. Those "smart people" who desperately pull out their teeth are playing with fire and setting themselves on fire. Only children can distinguish right from wrong, and adults can only distinguish between good and bad. No matter who is right or wrong, don't go against the leader easily unless you don't want to mix up. 2. Gossip, curiosity kills the cat. In the workplace, there are always people who get together after dinner to gossip. What's more, listening to the wind means that the rain is out of thin air, and watching the excitement is not so big as to fan the flames, which seems to be afraid of chaos in the world. The workplace itself is a place of right and wrong. No matter on what occasion and who you talk to, "love gossip" itself is a big taboo. Whether it is gossiping about leaders or ordinary staff, it will leave a bad mark on you. Gossip, gossip and rumors are all "dead holes" in the workplace. Once the leader knows, it will hinder your own development and make a scene, which will lead to "curiosity kills the cat". 3, fall into the hole, bully the tiger and fall into Pingyang "Longyou shallow water was beaten by shrimp, and the tiger fell into Pingyang and was bullied by dogs." In the workplace, there are always people who have no vision, or to please the "new leader", when one party loses power, they stand up and "beat Reservoir Dogs". As we all know, thin camels are bigger than horses. Even if the tiger falls in Pingyang and the dragon swims in shallow water, it's not like you can offend and bully. It is easier for them to crush you than to crush an ant. Even if the other party doesn't have the strength to fight back at the moment, you have an enemy virtually. Don't take chances, don't pose for fun, don't take the initiative to cause trouble, there are many things you don't know in the workplace. Things are impermanent, whether it is completely cold or temporarily out of power, even if it can't be done in time, don't make it worse. 4, complaints, such as Xianglinsao's possession, many people will sneer at this article, take it for granted: what is this taboo, I am surrounded by people complaining every day. Don't believe it. Sister Xianglin's complaint has a great influence in the workplace. Criticize and scold, and pack up and leave. When leaders arrange their work, they either complain bitterly or talk about conditions from three obstacles; Colleagues are promoted and raised, complaining about unfairness in the workplace and suspecting that related households are operating behind the scenes; Chatting with colleagues and complaining, the company's welfare treatment is poor, and the system process is not perfect. ....................................................................................................................................................... ...........................'s complaining can't solve any problems, and spitting can't improve any current situation, but it will affect the morale of the whole team. Once it reaches the ears of leaders, it will ruin your future. 5. The key to being a temper is to meet some people in the workplace, always keep the "naive" ignorance and bring the "naive" side into full play. The lighter is not organized, and the heavier is temper. Once criticized, directly lose face to the leader and pat your ass and leave! Such people, no matter where you go, no matter how talented you are, will not be popular, let alone appreciated by the leaders. You must know that the workplace is not your mother, and no one will spoil you easily! Don't lose your temper and get emotional at work, or society will teach you how to turn over a new leaf in minutes. 6. Being silly and sweet without opening the door is the most common taboo in the workplace. People who have dinner with you twice and say a few more words will become sisters and friends who can dig out their hearts. I know everything from company secrets to leaders' private affairs, so I don't have to say anything. But forget, the workplace is an interest field, not a place for you to make friends. There is no need to harm people, and there is no need to prevent people. There are many villains in the workplace and many old drivers who are good at camouflage. Don't talk simply, and accidentally reveal company secrets, leaders' private affairs and your own privacy to colleagues. Otherwise, once you fall into someone else's trap, you don't know how to die. 7. Be proud of your merits, pursue fame and gain, and forget your roots. At the beginning of the company's business, I accompanied the leaders to work hard for the country. In the rising period of the company, the "veterans" who fought together to open up territory in all directions often made a big mistake: taking credit. I am proud of myself by relying on "from the dragon's work" and "being famous outside" In daily work, especially the expansion of the heart, the pursuit of fame and fortune is triumphant. But I forgot that it is not uncommon for Gao Zhen to be the master and the butcher hero since ancient times. Don't drift away just because of meritorious service. If something goes wrong, you will be kicked out! Especially in the workplace, no one is truly irreplaceable; If there is, that person can only be the boss. An open gun is easier to hide than an open arrow, but it is impossible to prevent. High-profile work and low-key life are the most basic qualities of everyone in the workplace. 8, peach scandal, promiscuous relationship between men and women, with a little beauty, just tick three and take four, and the woman is superior; With some rights, he promiscuous, promiscuous; These two kinds of people in the workplace, thieves and prostitutes, may be happy for a while, but they often end up miserable. Office sex scandals, the "hidden rules" of higher and lower levels in the workplace, are common in any unit, and even more prohibited. There are always people in the world, desperate to find shortcuts. Maybe they can get a temporary "smooth sailing". But if you want to go far and walk steadily, this is absolutely taboo. If virtue is not in place, there will be disaster; People who don't deserve money will lose something. It's not that you don't report it, it's not the right time. Down-to-earth is the key 9. Stealing tricks, love to wipe the company's oil and water. There are always some people who like to be clever and glib in some jobs, thinking that leaders and colleagues around them will not find out. An American organization made a survey and found that 52% of the professionals pretended to be sick, 64% of the professionals fished during working hours, some white-collar workers did private work during working hours, and what's more, they took advantage of their positions to make money from the company. No leader or colleague in ..................................................................................................... was a fool. You can save face if you don't expose it. Once a bad influence is formed, once the work is full of loopholes, it will go into battle lightly and go to jail. 10, lonely, lonely, lonely in the workplace! Otherwise it's easy to capsize in the gutter! As "loners" in the workplace, they are very capable. No matter what they do, they like to be alone and never join other people's groups. On the one hand, I am withdrawn, on the other hand, I am proud of my talent, so I am incompatible with the team. So when everyone was happy, he was gone; Therefore, when colleagues were promoted in succession, they all missed him very much. Is it unfair? Not wronged! This is an era of teamwork, and few jobs can be done alone. No matter how good a person's ability is, it is difficult to do a thing beautifully without everyone's unity and cooperation. Don't isolate yourself with arrogance. Cooperation is far more important than you think. After all, no matter how powerful the Monkey King is, no one can get the scriptures.