If a classmate with a stupid mouth is too "straightforward" and doesn't know how to avoid twists and turns in daily conversations, it will obviously give people the impression that he doesn't understand the world. Maybe this conclusion is a bit arbitrary, but the lack of humor in life is really not popular with girls. And if you can add a little "boy-warming" skills to your chat, I believe girls will not refuse to make friends with you.

However, humor ≠ "funny", everyone must remember it. If you borrow other people's bad jokes, if it is in an inappropriate environment or with an inappropriate person, it will obviously not only be embarrassing but also disgusting, especially girls. If you laugh, you will feel stupid. If you don't laugh, you will feel sorry for your hard work. "That's a joke.

Humor is not simple. It depends on the specific chat context.

Introduce yourself skillfully

Students with low emotional intelligence have a problem: they like to ask all kinds of questions about girls they have just met. In fact, he has no idea that such an approach will make girls dislike him very much. Firstly, everyone is not familiar with you to a certain extent, so this is equivalent to "checking the household registration"; secondly, girls are more willing to get to know you first. If you don't know how to express yourself, Often the relationship falls through.

It is actually very important to introduce yourself skillfully! For example, you say that you are a stupid person and usually don't like to talk, but you always like to say interesting things. After saying this, girls will think: Huh? Although I consider myself an honest person who can't talk, at least I know how not to talk nonsense, and I know how to tell my own advantages from my self-introduction: "Always say interesting things."

You can understand this kind of boy.

Reasonable expression is important!

He is straightforward and clumsy, and often offends people and girls. This is a complete minefield in the process of communication! The structure of men and women is inherently different. Maybe you didn't mean that, but what you said seemed to be expressing your sarcasm - at least how girls might think it.

For example, if a girl posts a photo in Moments, you originally just wanted to express that "she seems a bit unlike herself", or you may even want to express that you feel that she is more beautiful in this state. , but because of his uprightness and stupidity, he ended up saying something like this. But wouldn't it be better if you changed it to this: "You don't look like you, but I like you very much, and I'm glad to meet you!" At least the other party will not misunderstand what you mean, or even think that you are... Compliment her as well.

Increase the sense of identification

When chatting with the person we like, we need to learn to look for the other person’s keywords, and even identify with the other person’s interests and hobbies, so as to bring you closer. Distance, even if you are not interested. After all, everyone knows the principle of loving a house and a bird, right? Make her hobbies belong to both of you, and this will create a buzz.

For example, if a girl says that she likes reading, you can answer her this way: I also like reading. I used to eat, travel, and walk around alone. I also read, write, and talk to myself. Talking heart-to-heart, but in the future it can become "eating, traveling, walking around with you, reading books together, writing letters to each other, and having heart-to-heart conversations with each other."

You will find that, This kind of inadvertently catering to each other's topics suddenly makes the distance between them closer.

Some things are not static, such as speaking skills and natural integrity. As long as you make up your mind, obviously none of this will be a problem. In fact, the above scenarios and conversation skills all have a "tool man" at work - it is the newly added AI chat-assisted function of Baidu Input Method.

Enter what you want to express, and the AI ??chat-aiding function of Baidu Input Method will perform "intelligent prediction" to understand what you are thinking and only complete the sentence. This not only improves input efficiency, but also allows you to find Sentences that express your meaning more accurately and with high emotional intelligence.

And if you want to express your good mood or small luck, Baidu Input Method’s AI chat assistant function’s “Intelligent Writing Help” will start to work, helping you write your mood, emotions and even words with one click. With various expressions of meaning and three different styles of sentences, you can always find the meaning that is most reasonable and in line with your mood.

"Intelligent Writing Help" and "Intelligent Prediction" are very smart. The completion of some sentences can even be used as classic copywriting for you to post to your circle of friends, thus making your circle of friends "wonderful" and you can Can you imagine some sentences that are more suitable for expressing your mood appearing in your circle of friends and getting you countless likes? Yes! Baidu input method AI chat function can do this.

In order to type faster when chatting, we sometimes enter one or two wrong words. If we are chatting between friends, it may not matter. When chatting with elders or girls we like, sometimes The wrong word may mean the opposite. However, if you turn on the AI ??chat assistance function of Baidu Input Method, it will not allow you to have such a problem - because "intelligent error correction" will remind you to correct it as soon as you finish typing. If It cannot be detected for a while, but after you finish typing the context, it can also help you "correct errors" more accurately, so that your expression will not be used as a negative teaching material!

Summary:

We always say that we are born straight and dumb, and sometimes we always feel that we have no idea what to do. But if you use the AI ??chat function of Baidu Input Method, I believe you can find endless fun in it, and even greatly improve your emotional intelligence and your chat skills. It simply allows you to attract the girl you like, and it will be more profound. is to make your life smooth sailing! Can you believe it?