1, I'd rather swallow the dross with good people than have a feast with bad people. -Thomas Fuller 2. The real measure of friends is behavior, not words; Those who say good things on the surface are actually far from this standard. Washington 3. Friendship based on business is better than business based on friendship. Rockefeller iv. Cheated friendship is a painful wound, while hypocritical sympathy is a sharp poison arrow. Lenin 5. In good times, you will only visit if you are invited. In bad times, those who come uninvited are true friends. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others-something that takes time, effort, consideration and dedication. -Carnegie 7. I won't feel my existence with people who are too strong. Making friends is not to let us choose the perfect with our eyes, but to attract like-minded people. -Roland 8. Building interpersonal relationships is a process of digging wells. What you pay is a little sweat, and what you get is a steady stream of wealth. Harvey mckay 9. The greatest wealth in life is personal connections, because it can open every door for you, enable you to acquire the abilities you need, enable you to grow constantly and make contributions to society. -Anthony Robbins 10 A concept that has achieved the highest performance in the sales field is the concept of "cash cow". Online sales is a process of spreading branches and leaves, blossoming and bearing fruit. -Born Tracy 1, communication is an inevitable companion of human beings. -Marx's Selected Works of Marx and Engels? Talking with people once is often more enlightening than working behind closed doors for many years. Ideas must be produced in communication with people, but processed and expressed in loneliness. -lev tolstoy 3. Heart-to-heart conversation is a display of the soul. -Wen 4. Everyone needs someone to talk to him openly. Although a person can be brave, he can also be lonely. -Hemingway 5. Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves. Dale Carnegie VI. Everyone knows that listening is very important for communication. ..... but few organizations will seriously listen to the opinions of employees and customers. -William Nichols 7. Some people have communication barriers in real life because they don't understand and forget an important principle: to make others feel important. Dale Carnegie is 8 years old. The most unbearable loneliness is the lack of true friendship. Bacon 9. Understanding is definitely the soil that breeds all the fruits of friendship. -Wilson 10, the best thing in life is his friendship with others. Lincoln 1 1 Oh, my friend, this is from the bottom of my heart. Because of you, the blue sky is vast; Because of you, roses are red and gorgeous. -Emerson 12. Friendship is as valuable to people as alchemy often says that their gems are to people. -bacon 13, not a true friend, no matter how heavy the gift, it can't knock the heart. -Christopher Bacon 14. Making a friend who can read thousands of books is more evil than making a friend who can't read. -Jin Ying 15. The best way to keep friendship is not to betray your friends. -Mizneil 16, you usually find yourself talking more when you are with people who have nothing to say. -Papisa 17. Friendship is a wish for freedom and happiness, and natural sympathy is always harmonious, surpassing lust, interest, competition and chance. -Aaron tried his best for others and finally tried his best for himself. -(British) Ruskin is so strong that I win with softness; People use art, and I feel it with my heart; People make people angry, so I reason with them. -Jin Ying Good things are often because they are sincere. -Roland, a fence, three piles, a hero, three gangs. Everyone gathers firewood and the flames are high. A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts in June. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you-The Analects of Confucius must love itself, and later people love others; People should respect themselves, and then people should respect themselves. -Han's "A Gentleman with Eyes on the Law" is a shame to those who don't respect themselves, and it is asking for trouble to those who don't respect themselves. -Shen Qing Han Yu's "Peace of mind phrase" means that you don't have to own yourself, you don't have to own people. -Zhang Mingjuzheng's Preface to Xu Xianggong's 70th Birthday in Shao Shi Village House. If they are combined, they will have both advantages and disadvantages. -"Zhouyi" We were born in a network of relationships, such as parent-child relationship, husband-wife relationship, classmate relationship, colleague relationship, friend relationship, male-female relationship, kinship relationship, affiliation relationship, debt relationship and supply-demand relationship. We are just fish in the net, and we can never swim out or even enjoy one of them. The higher his inner quality, the more indifferent and exclusive he is to relationships and interpersonal communication. Among the resilience of most people, there are not many qualities worthy of our appreciation. On the other hand, the opposite quality is everywhere. Relationships and interpersonal communication are a channel. With these channels, people's inner juices can gush out unscrupulously. If we look at the relationship from this angle, it is just a sewage pipe of human nature. Finally, if you find that telling the truth is easy to make mistakes, don't talk. When you find that anger, contempt and pride will affect interpersonal relationships, you will omit expressions. When you find that dancing will affect your image, you will stop doing any exaggerated movements. You have finally become an anthropological code of conduct, removing expressions and hiding emotions without a trace of popularity, and become a rubber man. Life is not black and white. In either case, most of the time, it just means that things are in a natural state. If you are looking for a perfect job, you may never find it. At the same time, others are not as good as they look. If you pursue the perfect interpersonal relationship, you may be lonely all your life. Really considerate, you don't realize that gratitude and thoughtfulness are mostly means to buy people's hearts. The most considerate person will give you a choice, which is not good for you. Excessive enthusiasm is also a kind of pressure, so true feelings often put on a coat of' indifference'. Moderate cold is precisely the most suitable temperature in interpersonal relationships. I just want three real friends. Really rich friends give me material help, truly powerful friends give me extensive interpersonal relationships, and truly intimate friends give me spiritual comfort. The first two have fair-weather friends, which are unreliable but can be used for a while. Aristotle said that if there are no women in this world, all the money in this world is meaningless. Social research shows that women have great advantages over men in interpersonal relationships, which shows that public relations has always been women. People's traditional advantages For interpersonal relationships, I gradually summed up a principle that is most in line with my temperament, that is, mutual respect for relatives and friends. I believe that all good friendships are naturally formed. I'm not asking for it. I also think that even good friends should have a distance. Too lively friendship is often empty, giving up temporary passion or temporary gains and losses. If we tolerate external pressure, we will get more people who know how to tolerate it. We will not destroy the interpersonal network we have built because of temporary passion and temporary gains and losses. It's free to be with friends. Don't lend money to your friends. If you lend money to others, just like Mr. Hu Shi. When borrowing, we don't need money. People exchange, and our interpersonal relationship is more successful. Those who are strong inside will play a few tricks and gag in interpersonal relationships. That's just cleverness, and the grade is extremely low. Moderate cleverness is to understand the laws of people's hearts and be familiar with the rules of social games. To stay away from disaster, wisdom is to follow heaven and think about the universe. 65,438+05% A person's success depends on his professional knowledge, and 85% depends on his interpersonal relationship. Therefore, for a boy, good social skills are not only an important part of his own development, but also an important obstacle to his future foothold in society. Social and interpersonal relationships are very efficient in creating external and material values, but in creating internal and spiritual values. People who are quiet and alone, more constructive and kinder are those who have the least friction with the world, and they are easy to become happy people. Children who are not harsh will be more comfortable when they grow up, have more harmonious interpersonal relationships or get more help and opportunities to make friends. The more people you know, the better, but you should be familiar with this circle and try to be the link between these circles. This kind of person has the greatest interpersonal value.