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Is cp online dating realistic?
The question of whether online dating is right or wrong actually does not belong to the category of psychological counseling. But since many friends on the Internet have consulted me about this question, I will talk about it here. But this is just my opinion, there are not many psychological theories to analyze! Personally, I think there is no right or wrong in online dating. This is just a form of our love. This is the same as telephone calls, letters and other ways of expressing love or communication. In short, our love is realistic.

Of course, when online dating comes to us, we should also correctly recognize some of its essence and harm. Why do so many people engage in online dating? Its essence lies in the illusion of the network, which is also its charm. Psychologically speaking, we will idealize the object of online dating, which will also cause our understanding of each other to be objective and incomplete, which is harmful. As a very hidden way of communication, the difference between people and the opposite sex is that you can see, hear and get in touch with each other's people and things in other ways, but you can't have an objective understanding of each other online, so many people with moral decay will dabble in the internet and many friends will be affected. Here, we must be aware of such problems, that is, the concealment, deception, degeneration, hypocrisy and so on of the network. So I suggest that the Internet is just a channel for making friends, and a deeper understanding should be carried out in real life.

The network also has certain benefits. It can break the narrow interpersonal circle and expand the choice of love and even marriage through the internet. The network is not necessarily fake, but it also has some authenticity. For example, some thoughts and behaviors when we surf the Internet may make it easier for us to put down our masks and truly show ourselves through the Internet. Moreover, online dating can make our communication more natural and relaxed, without shyness and shyness in real life, and make our performance more chic, and so on.

In short, online dating is the same as all problems. There is no distinction between good and bad. The most important thing is how to grasp this degree. As long as you grasp the degree, you will be happy!