We must first understand why rebellion occurs:

1. Children grow up day by day, and their bodies and minds change. However, parents' bodies have grown old, and if their minds do not learn and make corresponding educational adjustments as their children change, conflicts and dissatisfaction will arise.

2. Children's understanding of the world and their own perspective on problems will change from period to period. If parents' perspective on problems remains unchanged and cannot tolerate different opinions, conflicts will arise.

3. Inability to understand each other. As children, we need to understand the painstaking efforts of our parents. Raising children is not easy. Parents’ educational concepts and perspectives on problems remain unchanged. We should first understand that no matter which party it is, the first person to make adjustments is ourselves.

What to do:

Rebellion will create a generation gap. The generation gap means a lack of communication. We need to do more communication at ordinary times. The principles are equality and respect (parents, don’t always hold that I am in charge of you). , I can suppress your attitude. Parents and children have a hierarchy in ethics, but they are equal in personality. Parents can also make friends with their children. Why are children very accepting of friends in society? Because they understand them. There is a saying that "people with the same disease have sympathy"), exchange ideas and perspectives of both parties to achieve mutual understanding.