"Swallow the ocean of Wan Li, how magnificent! But it is always so modest and always puts itself very low, so it can accommodate the water flow of hundreds of rivers and absorb the rain and snow of the earth. "

Because the sea has lowered its posture, it will accommodate more water sources. If the sea remains high, how can thousands of streams merge into the sea?

If a person wants to succeed, he should also gather all the streams in the world like the sea and make himself a better person.

People who know how to keep a low profile when socializing, like the sea, are not simple and should not be underestimated.

No matter this person is nobody or this person has made a name for himself, such a person will have a better future, as calm as the sea, but it will also sound like the sea of Wan Li.

Life is a kind of wisdom. People who know how to live will always have their own wisdom and use it to shape themselves and open up their own world.

Sometimes lowering a posture contains a lot of truth and will have a far-reaching impact on your future.

Perhaps in the eyes of ordinary people, this person lowers his posture because he has no position, but only unusual people know the meaning of lowering his posture.

Ge Hong said:

"If you humble yourself, you will depend on others; If you are arrogant again, more people will go. "

If that person is modest and keeps a low profile when interacting with others, this person will appear more approachable, and many people also like to make friends with this person.

"One more friend, one more road" is a cliche.

Some people will make many new friends in the social process, and this kind of social interaction will be more meaningful. However, some people just eat and drink there, with a high profile.

Even when you are socializing, you should have a purpose. Every time you socialize, you should have your own value. You should make more friends. In this case, your future road will be wider and wider.

Sometimes lowering your posture doesn't mean lowering your status, but it's a very friendly performance.

You can put yourself in others' shoes. If you meet a person who is not very talkative and has been in a cold state, then you don't want to get close to this person yourself.

But if the other person takes the initiative to talk to you and propose a toast to you, then in this case, you will soon become good friends with the other person.

The purpose of socializing is to broaden one's circle of friends, not to have a meal.

Great people understand this truth, so they always put a low profile and make more friends when socializing, so that they will be more capable in the future.

In social situations, people who are good at making friends are not simple people, and such people have always had a lot of contacts.

Sometimes putting a low profile is just a kind of respect from others.

Now people in society still take respect seriously. There are many people who can't be friends with others because they can't get respect from others.

I watched a video like this some time ago:

A boss is talking with a man about business, and the business is done. When signing the contract, something happened. The boss toasted the businessman, and the man casually picked up the glass and touched the boss. After this incident, the boss suddenly stopped filling in this order.

In fact, there are some small moves that can tell whether you are willing to get close to others. I can also see your disrespect for others.

When the boss toasts you, you should know how to clink glasses. Modest people always lower their glasses, which is a kind of respect for others. However, if you act casually, it means that you don't care much about this matter and don't take each other seriously. Many people still care about this now, so you will be popular if you keep respect.

People who pay more attention to everything when socializing will respect everyone. This kind of person is really not simple, because a person is thoughtful and has omissions, but this kind of person has always maintained respect for others, which shows that they are prepared.

As the saying goes:

"Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared", so every time you socialize, you should pay attention to some details, know how to respect others and keep a low profile. In this way, you will meet more people and have more opportunities.

The higher the position, the more respect people have.

As the great writer Lu Yao said:

"This is a full one, and the more humble she is."

When the wheat is immature, it will always stand up straight, but when the wheat is ripe, it will hang its head.

So do people. A mature person, even in a high position and great success, will know how to respect others.

When you are young, people always try to save face. When people are not famous, people will do something to save face, and they always think that doing so is to lower their posture.

But when a person has everything, you will find that this person will lower his posture instead. In fact, sometimes face is unreliable, and sometimes you have a respect for others, which does not prove that you have lost face.

Therefore, the higher the status in life, the more humble people know, and such people will have more and more opportunities to win everyone's respect and love.

Maybe you will say that there are many successful people around you, but they don't know how to respect others. In fact, if a person is successful, but does not know how to respect others, it can only show that this person can only have this state. If he wants to go further in the future, he still needs to be more capable and cultured.

Even if a person succeeds, if you don't know how to be modest and respect others, then you will lose many opportunities.

Those who remain modest and prudent after success are usually great people. Such people will make their life better and better, make their wealth more and more, and make themselves lucky again and again, just like snowballing.

Because such people are worthy of being close and sincere in everyone's eyes, everyone trusts such people and is willing to deal with them.

Edison said:

"Modesty is not only an ornament, but also a guardian of virtue."

People who keep a low profile when socializing are modest. The higher the position, the more modest, and the more you know how to do it, so you will be virtuous.