The popularization of social culture makes it easier for us to obtain fresh information and make it easier to contact friends from all over the world. I also learned a lot in the community.

Whether it is a paid or free community, we must have some goals before joining the group. It may be to learn knowledge, to increase our knowledge, or to make friends.

Of course, what I am talking about here does not include those who join certain groups simply for the purpose of posting advertisements.

Through summary, I feel that learning in the community has brought me the following gains:

1. Only by deeply participating in it can you truly gain something

The sense of participation is such a magical thing. When you participate, you will feel that you have found a sense of belonging. On the contrary, you will feel like watching others carnival. Many people say they want to build their own personal brand and strengthen their influence.

In fact, it is a good way to show yourself in the community. When you provide value to everyone or enliven the atmosphere, everyone will naturally remember you.

2. Different people’s opinions are the key to opening our horizons

Many people who participate in study group meetings only pay attention to the teacher’s remarks, but tend to ignore the remarks of other group members. Ignore it. In fact, many times, this is a good opportunity for us to broaden our horizons. When you look at all kinds of people making different remarks, you will realize that there are still such people, and it turns out that you can still do things like this.

Each of us only has a short life and cannot experience multiple lives. In addition to reading and watching movies, observing what other people say is a different experience. And those remarks that trigger our thinking may lead to some new ideas.

3. Today’s friends are your tomorrow’s connections

We all know the importance of connections in life, but friends on WeChat are not friends in the true sense. It's just a weak connection between us. But data shows that people's greatest achievements often come from the influence of weak connections, so don't underestimate every friend you add now, maybe one day you will cooperate with each other on something. Of course, you should also pay more attention to the people who are on the same page as you in the community. Only with the same topic can there be further communication.

4. The wisdom of the crowd is an important source of inspiration

Many friends who have just started writing will say that they don’t know how to find inspiration. In fact, searching in the community is also a good way. You may not be involved in the topics everyone is talking about, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have your own thoughts.

When others talk about a certain topic, contact your own reality and think about your own experience, and you can easily generate writing materials. And if we can discover some good sentences and methods, and save and collect them in time, they can also be used as a good source of knowledge for us.

5. Be part of it, but don’t get stuck in it

We say that a community is actually an ecological environment. If you find that your values ??are inconsistent with the atmosphere in the group, It's better to quit early. And if you have found a belonging in a group, and it has even become a part of your life, you might as well withdraw in time and look at the outside world.

Because you stay in an environment for a long time, it is easy for you to judge your life by the values ????of that environment. Over time, it is easy for yourself to feel that the world is like this.

As long as you think about your parents’ circle of friends, you can clearly understand this problem. Those chicken soup, health care, and fake news that are going viral are because people in their circles think that they are true.

6. Understand your own energy and do everything according to your ability

Nowadays, there are countless study groups and training camps. Many friends who love to learn will shuttle between different groups as if they are rushing to attend. among. However, due to my limited energy, the quality of learning in each group was not very high in the end. Even climbing stairs feels tiring. So we have to do what we can according to our own energy. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, and don't participate in too many groups with task requirements at the same time.

In the final analysis, communities are actually a way for us to learn. We should join some communities selectively after establishing our own learning goals.

If you already feel that social information has become a burden in your life, you might as well streamline it appropriately.

Choose only those communities that are truly important and allow you to continue to grow. Proper use of community resources can also be a good asset on our growth journey.

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