Xinyang blind date always goes to the matchmaker first, and then brings the woman to the door, which is what we call "housekeeping" there. First of all, know your family situation. If the woman thinks it's okay, set a date. Find an auspicious day and ask relatives of both sides for a bride price. According to your family's situation, if the woman is flexible, it is generally 20 thousand yuan (almost) But if they talk about it themselves, my brother will choose a bride price of more than 30 thousand when he gets married. After that, they can marry a daughter-in-law