Interpersonal relationship is an important part of our life. If we don't have good interpersonal relationships, it will have a bad influence on our work, life and mental health. Here's how I can make more friends for you. Welcome to read!
First, how can we make friends?
First of all, be open-minded and be good at accepting others and yourself. Don't waste time praising others. But you should be careful not to exaggerate blindly, which will give people a false feeling and lose others' trust in you.
Secondly, we should master the skills of conversation. When talking with people, pay attention to what he says and give appropriate feedback. Attentive listening represents understanding and acceptance, and it is a bridge connecting the soul. Pay attention to being subtle, humorous, concise and vivid when expressing ideas. Implicit not only shows your elegance and self-cultivation, but also plays a role in avoiding differences, explaining opinions and not hurting relationships. When commenting and pointing out others' mistakes, we should pay attention to the occasion and use peaceful words to avoid hurting others' self-esteem and causing resistance. Humor is the spice of language, which can make conversation lively and interesting. Conciseness requires that when talking with people, you should master what you should say and not say what you shouldn't. When talking with people, you should have your own emotional input, so that you can impress people with your feelings. This is called vividness. Of course, to master the skills of expressing yourself, you need to practice constantly, increase your cultural confusion and broaden your horizons.
Third, organize political parties to expand relations. The husband of a family has her husband's friends, the wife has her friends, and the children have children's friends. If everyone's friends bring friends to get together, they can expand social relations many times, develop friendship with their families, increase the topic of * * *, and create human resources that they can talk to when something happens.
Finally, it is also a good way to cultivate your various interests and make friends with people who have interests. In addition, exchanging information and learning from your own experience can coordinate interpersonal relationships. Good interpersonal relationship is an art. All people need constant study and practice to master it. I hope I can make a self-analysis according to my own specific situation, so as to break through the barriers of self-enclosure, open my mind and establish harmonious interpersonal relationships.
We should make friends widely and cherish rare friends, especially those who are sincere to you and tell you everything, because they will give you positive energy in life.
Second, what should I pay attention to when making friends?
1, fair-weather friends are not friends, they are just a combination of interests, because you can bring him benefits, so you are good friends. When one day you don't drink and eat meat with him, and you can't bring him benefits and enjoyment, your relationship is over, so don't see how heavy the friendship at the dinner table is, it's only temporary.
There are not so many rules between friends. Since two people are good friends, there is nothing between them. You don't need to go to a friend's house for this. Pay attention to this. What kind of friend is that? It's better to be casual between friends.
When a friend is in trouble, as a friend, you should stand up and share the worries for your friend, not stand by and watch. If you choose to watch when your friend is in trouble, then I don't think anyone wants to make friends with you, because no one wants to have a friend who doesn't help when he is in trouble.
A friend is the kind of person who will give you advice before you do something wrong. Although he knows that his opposition may make you unhappy, he will still put forward his own views and give you advice so that you can know what you are doing and not make mistakes. These are all things that true friends should do.
5. When you cry, friends will cry with you; When you laugh, friends will laugh with you. As a friend, he won't ignore you when you are unhappy. He will be the person you talk to and the person you face. And when you have achievements, I will share them with you and won't be jealous of you.
Expansion: How to educate children to make more friends?
1. Create an environment for children to make friends.
Inviting children to be guests at home can be the first step. Take children to entertain their friends enthusiastically and encourage them to share their candy and toys with their partners. Parents should gradually let their children find their own partners to play with, and also educate their children to greet, approach and help their peers when they are in contact with them. When going out to play, let the children walk with their classmates.
It is very important to set a good example.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. Parents should influence their children with sincere feelings for their neighbors and comrades around them, and often take their children to their neighbors and friends' homes to make them realize that it is a pleasant thing to associate with others.
3, educate children to learn to share, not afraid of loss.
Parents should educate their children to give books and toys to other children. When their children have top-notch performance, they should be inspired and educated to listen to their partners. When children quarrel with their partners, they should not be partial to them and mediate. When their children show generosity and understanding to their partners, they should be affirmed and praised. In short, let your children know that they should be equal to their peers.
In this way, children will gradually make friends in their study and life, learn to live independently, and develop their initial social skills, so as to obtain all-round psychological development and form a good personality bud.
How to teach children to make friends on their own initiative
Nowadays, most children generally live in cities, which are relatively less free than those in the countryside! If so, our children must have little contact with other children! Our children will naturally form some bad habits and life will naturally become lonely! Our parents must pay attention! This is not good for children's future growth, nor for adults! Therefore, as parents, we must guide our children well!
1. As a child's parents, I think the most important thing is to give the child a complete, harmonious, harmonious and happy home!
Now the society is very open, and everything feels quite casual! There will inevitably be small quarrels between husband and wife, but not in front of the children! Don't mention divorce, separation, etc To each other. People who have children are still like children. Also consider the child's feelings. Children's self-esteem is particularly strong! Parents should understand each other, be tolerant and considerate, and handle things well between husband and wife. Of course, our children will have a healthy, harmonious, happy and complete home!
2. Parents should be friends with their children first!
Having children means more responsibilities! As parents, we have the responsibility to take good care of our children before they reach adulthood and do our parents' parenting duties! No matter how busy we are at work, we should take time out to take care of our children. He needs you to play with him, even like a child! The work can't be finished. If a child's wonderful childhood is lost, it's hopeless! No matter how naughty a child is, parents can't beat him. Now society does not support violence education! There is an old saying in China: Gao Tu was born under a stick, which is a wrong education method, but a way for children to vent their anger on their children if they don't want to succeed! Parents should be strict, but there is no need to fight. There are many ways to educate children! It is very rare to associate with children as friends. If children regard you as a friend, it is not difficult to educate them!
Children should learn to respect other children before making friends!
The most important thing between friends is mutual respect. Teach your children to respect their friends! Children respect their friends, and our children will be respected by other children! Well, I think parents should first make their children feel that their parents will respect them! Parents are children's first teachers, and our every move, children may see, and are likely to imitate!
Friends should treat each other with courtesy, and children are no exception!
Parents should set an example, and we should be polite people! As mentioned above, children have strong imitation ability, so we should always be honest and polite to others! Children should also be taught manners at ordinary times. Call uncle when you see uncle, and call aunt when you see aunt! We can teach children some common polite expressions, such as: good morning, thank you, you're welcome, I'm sorry, etc.
We should educate our children to be honest and trustworthy to their friends!
Even for children, our parents can be honest and trustworthy when they get along with their children at ordinary times! I think parents' behavior is the most important in this respect, and we can teach them as we want. If parents are dishonest and dishonest to their children, then everything they do is in vain!
6. At home, always exercise your child's self-confidence!
When you want to meet new friends, you must have confidence. Nothing can be done without self-confidence! Parents can praise their children more when they are free at home, so that children have a sense of accomplishment! For example, when I was reading a book, suddenly the child knew a word, so he pretended not to know it and asked the child! Ask him: Mingming, how do you pronounce this word? Of course, he can definitely answer this word! Then he answered! Then he said: Yao Ming is really smart, I can't even write, but my family can! He must be very happy and confident! We don't deny that children make mistakes, but we should be strict with them. We can't ignore children just because we say we want to cultivate their self-confidence!
When our children have a good family environment; When children learn to respect others; When children learn to be polite; When children learn how to be honest and trustworthy; When the child is full of confidence! Let's encourage children to make more friends! Take part in more extracurricular activities! Talk to the children you want to know!
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