The secret of knowing people

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1. People with bad teeth generally have good tempers. On the contrary, a person with sharp teeth has a bad temper. Zhang Fei is an example.

2． When asking for help from someone, those who agree immediately will generally not get the job done. Beware that such people may be liars. For example, after the college entrance examination, parents promise to provide financial support for those who go to school at the entrance of the university. Young people who have just entered the officialdom should choose as their teachers those who are honest and serious. "The feathers in the sky are light and weak, and the stones hitting the ground have their own sound."

3. In adversity, be careful of "well-meaning people" who keep saying things to persuade you. Such as Lin Chong's friend Lu Qian in "Water Margin".

4. When learning English, those who are good at speaking are generally poor at grammar. People who are nearsighted have good hearing.

5. For those who are leaders, the so-called claims of professionalism and knowledge must not be taken at all. People with leadership qualities are unlikely to devote themselves to academics at the same time.

6． Most people who don't smoke and drink are people who have strict requirements on themselves. Generally, it can be trusted for life. Anyone who is obsessed with "wine, sex, wealth and smoke" must be careful.

7. People who flatter you are most likely to betray you. The person who hurts you the most must be the person you love the most. Seventy percent of homicides occur between acquaintances. "You can still get close to a tiger when you are born, but you can't get close to an acquaintance."

9. There are twice as many left-handed college students as other people, and the average life expectancy is 6 years shorter than other people.

10. The most beloved child of the parents in the family is generally useless.

11. Young people in rural areas generally like to be officials, while most children in cities like to play. The proportion of corrupt officials in rural areas is higher. Beijing's government agencies and universities have a higher proportion of non-locals.

12． Everyone in a class wears down jackets, and there is one person who wears a cotton-padded jacket, who usually comes first in study. Wealth cannot last more than three generations, and adversity produces talents. "A filial son comes from a poor family, and a loyal minister is recognized by the country."

13. Timid boys usually achieve great things. He who thinks before and after fighting is a handsome man. A man who cries must have love. Indecision is a virtue.

14． People who love to curse are afraid inside. Animals with horns are not carnivores. The quietest person in a group is often the most powerful. "Move like fire, immovable like a mountain."

15. Small and talented people, beware of inheriting serious diseases. People whose parents died early must do their best to take care of themselves after middle age!

16. The girl who betrays you and insults you again will lose her life. Evil will be punished. How many of the "class beauties and school beauties" in their early years will be happy in their later years? "Don't let the fierce tiger lie down in the road, the trapped dragon will also rise to the sky."

17. It is difficult for a person who values ??love to have the happiness of love. When you say the word love, you are passive. The true meaning of love is "play hard to get", and most flowers are stuck on cow dung. "A horse often carries a foolish man on his back; a clever girl often sleeps with a foolish man."

18. Those who design their lives will be burdened throughout their lives and rarely end well. "There is no grass for cattle to live in, but there is surplus food for hamsters."

19. Many workers who build buildings do not have houses to live in; many workers who build cars do not have cars to drive. "Those who are covered with silkworms are not sericulture people."

20． People who often see doctors usually don’t have serious illnesses. Sun Simiao, the king of medicine, lived to be 110 years old. He was often sick in his youth. The writer Xie Bingxin vomited blood as soon as she could vomit milk, and lived to be more than ninety years old. People who boast about their parents’ good health often don’t live long. "The mind is leisurely and has few desires, the mind is peaceful but not fearful, the body is tired but not tired, the breath is obedient, everyone follows their desires, and everyone gets what they want." Devotees live long.

The quotations of Du Yuesheng, the old Shanghai boss, are worth reading

1. Don’t be afraid of being used by others. If others use you, it shows that you are still useful.

2. Eat is In practice, gambling is a hedge, and whoring is a failure.

3. Spending one penny to get the effect of ten pence, this is the person who spends money.

4. Be careful in doing things. Make sure that both sides of the tofu are smooth.

5. There are three bowls of noodles that are the most unpalatable to a human being: human face\scene\human face.

6. You must be sincere to others, even if someone deceives you For a moment, I can always impress him with the word "sincerity" and make him sincerely convinced. My way of doing things is all in one word: sincerity. Only by drawing inferences from one example can we start making friends.

7. Mr. Du once said to an educated friend: You turned out to be a carp, and you have become a spiritual practitioner. After 500 years of practice, I jumped over the dragon gate and became a dragon. I was originally a loach. I practiced for 1,000 years and became a carp. Then I jumped over the dragon gate after practicing for 500 years. If we both failed, you would still be a carp and I would still be a carp. But I turned into a loach and you said, how can I be careless in doing things?

8. The first-class people have ability but have no temper; the second-class people have ability but have temper; the bottom-class people have no ability and have a bad temper.

9. Du Yuesheng has a saying that he always talks about: Be careful and win the world, but be careless and lose Jingzhou.

10. People need two things to live in the world, courage and wisdom.

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11. Let others do the icing on the cake, I only do things that provide help when needed.

12. When you run out of money, you will run out of friendship. So when others save money, I save friendship. No matter how much money you save, there is no more money than mountains of gold and silver; spending money on friendship is like heaven and earth!

13. How many zeros you add to your monthly savings does not count as how much money you have, only how much you spend is how much money you have.

14. Think about yourself in the first half of the night, and think about others in the second half of the night.

15. I am not afraid of gentlemen, and I will not mess with thieves!

16. Don’t do anything absolutely, leave room for it.

These words are for those who understand

1 Don’t hit women with anything. Once beaten, you will have no excuses.

2 Don’t hurt your lover’s heart no matter what. If you get injured, you really have no chance.

3 Don’t use the number of girlfriends to show your charm. You can use your career and being a good family man to show your excellence.

4 Learn to help women with housework. A man who just lies on the sofa and waits for his wife to serve dinner when he comes home will make his married life tasteless than boiled water.

5 If you love someone, please care for them tenderly; if you don’t love someone, just say so. Women are very stupid. From the moment she falls in love with you, she will give up both physically and mentally.

6 Buy gifts for your loved ones. What do you make money for? Moreover, a person who truly loves you will not waste your money.

7 Don’t really think that what you can’t get is the best. It is better to cherish what you have now.

8 No matter how busy you are at work, remember to call your loved one. It won’t cost you too much time and money. Because she is waiting, don't let her down.

9 Women are meant for pain. If you are not sure about making a woman happy, but instead keep giving her pain and sorrow, please remember that this is not loving her.

10 Don’t think that every woman loves money as much as her life. It's hard for you to make money, but there are many women in this world who can support themselves.

11 Remember to call her home instead of her urging you to call. This old man will marry you the daughter he has raised for decades. That is a great blessing for you.

12 Remember her birthday, otherwise she may spend the next birthday with someone else.

13 Don’t think that sending flowers on Valentine’s Day is a boring act. It’s not like I have to give it to you every day, so why are you looking for such a boring excuse?

14. Spend a fixed amount of time with her.

You work for a living, so she should be the most important part of your life.

15 held her hand and walked. Two people walk, not for others to see, but for two people to feel happy. Because holding fingers together is happiness.

16 No matter where you are in the world, be sure to be with your wife when she is giving birth.

17When you miss her, tell her. If you love her, say it. She also loves you the same after hearing this.

18 Love life or marriage life belongs to two people, so don’t be too self-centered and think more about and pay more for each other.

19 Surprise each other occasionally. Love may not always be the pinnacle of passion, but you can learn to create romance. Don't let love become empty and tasteless.

20 If there is a conflict, resolve it immediately. Otherwise, resentment will be like a bottomless pit, swallowing up your feelings and making it difficult to reunite.

21 Let’s go to the movies together. You may not remember all the plots, but she will remember you watching the movie with her long, long time later.

22 Go out with her to relax and deepen your relationship. What men say when women like to relax.

23 When eating, don’t ask stupidly: Do you want to eat? Don't eat everything immediately after the other person says he doesn't want to eat. That's selfish.

24 If someone is pursuing her, it means she is very attractive. Don’t get angry or jealous because of it. Don't misunderstand, but love better.

Strategy for dealing with things

1. See through but don't tell. For many things, as long as you know them in your heart, there is no need to say them out loud.

2. If you are happy, just smile and let everyone know. If you are sad, just pretend that nothing happened

3. As long as it does not violate your principles, be tolerant to others and help if you can. Never push people to death or leave a way out for them. ...

4. Happiness is the most important thing. Who, what, and what makes you happy, you should be with them. If something makes you unhappy, leave him. If there are no conditions, you will leave him even if you create conditions.

5. Don’t always talk about your difficulties in front of others and expose your vulnerability

6. There is no perfect thing and no perfect person. The key is to know what you want. To get what you want, you will definitely lose another part. If you want everything, you will get nothing.

7. I like what a friend said, "Forgetfulness is a good thing."

8. When two people make mistakes at the same time, the one who stands up and takes responsibility is called Tolerance means that the debt owed by the other party must be repaid sooner or later.

9. If you don't like someone, you can respond with a silent smile; if you like someone, just do whatever you want, because your love will be revealed unstoppably.

10. Don’t be a hedgehog. Don’t make enemies with others if you can. Don’t be with anyone for the rest of your life. There are some things that you don’t need to keep in mind.

11. Learn to compromise. At the same time, you must also adhere to your most basic principles

12. Don’t stop learning. No matter what you study, languages, cooking, various skills

13. Money is very important, but you cannot rely on men or parents. You must maintain a certain ability to make money...

14 .Don’t overestimate your power in the collective, because when you choose to leave, you will find that the sun still rises even without you....

15. Don’t forget the past, But you must let it go

16. Even if you lose everything, don’t lose your smile...

17. No matter what choice you make, don’t regret it, because regrets are useless. No help

18. Don’t say extreme things out of impulse.

19. Don’t make promises easily. A promise you can’t make is more hateful than not making one.

20. Don’t think that love can exist even if you don’t understand. When we don't understand, we just like but cannot reach love.

When each other's shortcomings are exposed, the love will end in many cases

21. You can be very direct when speaking and be straightforward, which is better than hypocrisy.

22. Be kind to yourself. When you are in a bad mood, don’t think about anything and just eat what you like. But don’t drink.

Just don’t make sincere friends. Example: Lin Chong’s good friend Lu