True friends are not only found in books, but also exist in reality.
Mr. Lu Xun once wrote a couplet to Qu Qiubai, saying: It is enough to have a confidant in life, and the world should treat him with sympathy. A true friend is a close friend who understands you and appreciates you.
We all say that a true friend is a confidant. Real friends are those who have similar personalities and consistent views. As the saying goes, "People with different views cannot work together." A person who dislikes you and is picky and picky cannot be a friend.
A true friend understands your needs, knows when you need help, knows when you need comfort, knows when not to disturb you, knows your strengths and your pettiness, and can tolerate you. , inspire you, criticize you, and warn you.
A true friend is more about appreciating your talents and merits. Everyone is willing to be respected, praised, and appreciated. But only a true friend will sincerely admire you, rather than being hypocritical. Pretend to perfunctory you, jealous of you, hurt you.
Mr. Lu Xun and Qu Qiubai, one is a literary giant and the other is an early leader of the Communist Party. Before they met, they admired each other and formed a literary friendship through correspondence. Appreciate each other.
On December 25, 1931, Qu Qiubai wrote in a letter to Mr. Lu Xun: "We are such close people, we are such close people even when we don't meet."
In At that time, Shanghai was shrouded in white, and Lu Xun was in a difficult situation, but he ignored his personal safety and received Qu Qiubai and his wife four times to take refuge at home, in 1932 and 1933.
After Qu Qiubai was killed in June 1935, Mr. Lu Xun fell ill and collected, copied, arranged, and proofread Qu Qiubai's translations, and edited them into "The Forest Above the Sea" as a gift in memory of Qu Qiubai.
A true friend is as gentle as water between gentlemen. True friends can have a mutual financial friendship without competing for interests. When you are in trouble, your friends will be the first to help you instead of avoiding you. When you get rich, your friends will congratulate you instead of jealous of you or hating you. Friends are the ones who will never leave you and push you. People who move forward.
For a true friend, it is enough to meet one in a lifetime.