The famous poems and verses about making friends are introduced as follows:
Old poems:
1. Gao Shi, "Farewell to Dongda", thousands of miles of yellow clouds, white sun, north wind The geese are blowing and the snow is falling. Don't worry, there will be no friends in the future. No one in the world will know you.
2. Du Fu, "Poverty and Friendship", turning his hands to make clouds and rain, they are all frivolous, so there is no need to count them. Don't you see, if you pay attention to Bao when he is poor, this way is abandoned by today's people like dirt.
3. Li Bai, "Send Off a Friend", green mountains stretch across Beiguo, and white water surrounds the east city. This place is a different place, and I can conquer thousands of miles alone. The wandering clouds convey the love of an old friend. I waved my hand and went away, and the horses roared.
Five allusions to idioms:
1. "Eight worships": "Eight worships" originally refers to the etiquette in ancient times when children of family friends meet their elders, and later refers to the relationship between brothers and sisters who are friends who meet to worship their elders.
Nodding acquaintances: Refers to friends who do not have a deep friendship and only nod their heads when meeting, also known as "first-time acquaintances".
2. Commoner friends: friends made by ordinary people. "Historical Records·Biographies of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru" contains: "I thought that a friend of commoners would not deceive each other, how could it be a big country?" . There is a sentence in "The Biography of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru": "The relationship between the dead and the happy is the acquaintance of cutting off the neck." "The acquaintance of cutting off one's neck" can also be described as the "acquaintance of life and death".
4. Inseparable friends: It means that each other has the same mind and likes each other. "Zhuangzi·The Great Master": "The three of them looked at each other and smiled, and they never rebelled against each other, so they became friends."
5. Friends who have forgotten the past: the age difference is huge, the generations are different, but the friendship is deep. friends. "The Biography of He Xun in Southern History": "If the crown is weak, the state will promote talents. Nanxiang Fan Yun's countermeasures will be greatly appreciated. Because of the relationship, we will forget the years and make friends."
Famous aphorisms:
He You may forget someone you laughed with, but you will never forget someone you cried with.
——Kahlil Gibran
He who has neither friends nor enemies is just an ordinary person.
——Rafat
Treat everyone equally, treat a few people sincerely, and do not be indebted to anyone.
——Shakespeare
Among all kinds of loneliness, people are most afraid of spiritual loneliness.
——Balzac
Where one person may perish alone, two people together may be saved.
——Balzac
The most beneficial thing to friends is often not money or any material assistance, but those kind attitudes, cheerful conversations, and sympathetic feelings. Outpouring and unadulterated praise.