Active and talkative; Talk to others boldly, and casually find some topics that resonate with them or have something to say, preferably neutral topics, which make people feel that you are easy-going and generous and can give you high marks in your mind. Understand the potential curiosity of others; A large part of the chat consists of questions and answers, and the questions come from the curiosity of both sides. Desire and curiosity about others are very important in chatting, otherwise the next communication will be aimless and disorganized, and it is very likely to fall into an embarrassing or silent state. First of all, the opening remarks can start with understanding the other person's most basic living habits, work, hobbies, horoscopes and recent events.
Collect her information, find the intersection with her, and show it at the right time; For example, look at a girl's friends, see what she likes, do her homework in advance, and then choose the right time to show it, just waiting for her to exclaim, how do you know this, remember the beating of time when chatting; Talking about the future from the past, it is easy to give each other an illusion of time. You seem to have experienced her past, and you want to participate in her future. Pay attention here, when talking about the future, talk about the beautiful emotional life in the future as much as possible. Talk to girls about friends around them; If you have a * * * friend, you might as well take this friend as the opening topic, because chatting with friends around you will not only increase girls' familiarity with you, but also constantly put down their guard against you during the conversation. If your friend has a good personality and all aspects, girls will also use this standard to measure you, which will unconsciously increase your bad impression. In the future chat, the atmosphere will get better and better.
Talk to girls about the newly released movies; It is also a good topic to chat with the girls you like and talk about the newly released movies, but remember that ordinary girls don't like science fiction movies very much. For them, urban romantic movies or funny movies will attract her more, so when choosing to talk about movies, we should also pay attention to the types. If there happens to be a star she likes in the movie, maybe the conversation between you will be smoother. Chatting with girls and meeting interesting things; In fact, you can talk about any topic with girls, but if you want girls to participate, it is best to talk to girls at night. At this time, you can talk about the interesting things you have encountered by chatting with her. Tell a joke to girls before going to bed and relax. She'll like you better.