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How to chat with girls online and how to ask them out.
How can I meet the girls I met online? I believe that when you meet a girl online, you don't just want to chat, but you want to have some stories with her. The most important thing for a story is to invite people to meet, so how to chat? How to date a girl you meet online?

1. Interesting interaction

Good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million. Humor, novelty and fun are the most attractive qualities for girls. Some brothers are too straight and like to talk to girls about work and study. Actually, women are not interested in you. Instead, talk to her about your experiences, talk about your lives, and provide more interesting emotions, so that her affection for you will continue to increase.

For example, I just saw a girl who looks like you, and I bumped into a telephone pole. I woke you up on a white horse. Handsome guy just got home. What is the beautiful one doing?

In fact, the purpose of chatting with girls is the same for all of us. Let's make an appointment to have fun. But when I was in surgery, I couldn't make an appointment anyway. I used to be like this, extremely depressed. However, I was lucky enough to see ~ "Love between Jiang Han", a collection of chasing girls. From then on, I understand that a girl will have a follow-up development only if she is attracted to you, otherwise everything you do will be in vain, just because she is not interested in you. Then I follow the inside method to enhance my attraction. Sure enough, in the subsequent process of picking up girls, I found that everything became easy, which is the charm of attraction. Your single brothers can go and have a look. There are e-books on the Internet. Only by enhancing one's own value and attracting talents is king.

2. Sufficient sense of security

Girls who meet online are generally insecure because there is no social relationship between them. Therefore, girls who want to successfully invite online chat must have enough sense of security. Don't talk to strangers, don't meet strangers, this is the principle of childhood education.

To make a girl feel safe, we need to make her feel that we are living in reality. Sharing your timetable, your information, your hobbies and your three views will help to cultivate mutual trust and security quickly.

3. Vague invitation

With attraction and enough security, you can consider inviting girls. It should be noted that don't set the date too dead at the beginning, which is too easy to be rejected. On the one hand, the invitation requires the girls to have enough interest in you, on the other hand, it also requires the other party to have the conditions to go to the appointment.

Before formally confirming the invitation, you can try to make a vague invitation to test the overall interest of girls. If the other party is interested, we will further confirm; If the other person is not interested, forget it.

For example, a friend opened a hot pot restaurant and will take you to try it another day; It's hard for you to get together for a drink. You are an interesting girl. When you are free and I am free, we can go together.

Confirm the invitation

In order to improve the success rate of invitation as much as possible, it is necessary to confirm the logistics information of girls in order to make a more suitable invitation time and place.

The so-called logistics information refers to the geographical location of both parties, girls' schedules, access control, vacation time and so on. With this information, we can make a more reasonable invitation plan, such as where and when to meet, whether to stay up late, the general arrangement of dating items and so on.

With the logistics information, you can further try to finalize the specific invitation letter. For example, tomorrow we will go shopping together and take you to eat my favorite barbecue. If girls are willing, logistics conditions permit, they can be further finalized; If the girl's logistics doesn't allow you, you can try to change a more suitable time. For example, if you are not free tomorrow, what are your plans for the weekend?