No matter in life or online, everyone will have friends. What is a friend? Friends are people who have friendship with each other and are good friends with each other. Friendship is the purest, noblest, simplest and most ordinary emotion, and it is also the most romantic, moving, solid and eternal emotion. Everyone is inseparable from friendship. Life is inseparable from friends, and their friendship and support are indispensable. However, the world is a mixed bag of fish and dragons, and friends have gains and losses. The ancients warned us that "a gentleman should choose his face before making friends, and a villain should choose his face before making friends, so it is rare for a gentleman to complain about a villain" and "you should not make friends carelessly if you lose your horse". It can be seen that how to know and choose friends is a very important topic in life. What's the best friend to make? The ancients said, "The winner has three friends, and the loser has three friends. Friends are straightforward, friends are tolerant, and friends are more knowledgeable and benefit more; Friends are withdrawn, friendly and soft, and friends are hurt. " In other words, making friends with honest, trustworthy and knowledgeable people will benefit a lot; It is harmful to make friends with flattering, insincere and flashy people. This still inspires us how to choose and make friends today. Generally speaking, in real life, we should make the following friends. Best friend. Refers to friends who are sincere and live by feelings and principles. Fear of friends means being able to "balance morality with negligence". In other words, it refers to people who dare to speak out against each other, criticize others directly, and actively carry out criticism and self-criticism. Fear of friends can be like a mirror, reflecting the dust and stains on each other's faces, so as to find and correct them in time. Close friends. It is to be able to "prioritize * *, and life and death can be entrusted." In other words, close friends with strong feelings can share joys and sorrows with themselves. A friend who is diligent in learning or knowledgeable. Making friends can increase your knowledge, broaden your horizons, cooperate with each other, learn from each other's strengths, promote each other and spur each other. Be honest with each other. From the heart, from the heart. I am most afraid of insincerity, emptiness and dealing with friends. Friends are allowed to have their own privacy, but there is no doubt that whether or not to "hide" and how much to "hide" are the signs to measure friendship. Keep your promises and trust each other. "Faithfulness" was regarded by the ancients as one of the unchangeable virtues in treating people. Confucius said, "Make friends and keep promises". Faith, first of all, is credit. You keep your word and keep your word. Secondly, trust, trust friends, and don't doubt for no reason. An untrustworthy person can't make friends, and a person who always doubts others rarely makes friends with you. A hedge between keeps friendship green. & lt& lt Zhuangzi Elder >> There is a saying in China, "A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, but a friendship between villains is as sweet as water". True friendship depends on sincere sympathy, not sweet words or heavy gifts. As for the exchange of materials, disgusting flattery, mutual use and even deception should be thrown into the garbage. The friendship between gentlemen should stand the test of time and external environment.