No matter in life or online, everyone will have friends. What is a friend? Friends are people who have friendship with each other and are good friends with each other. Friendship is the purest, noblest, simplest and most ordinary emotion, and it is also the most romantic, moving, solid and eternal emotion. Everyone is inseparable from friendship.
You can live without love, but you can never live without friendship. Once there is no friendship, there will be no happy harmony in life, and it will be a stagnant pool; Friendship is everywhere. She is with you, pestering you, and spending her life with you.
The world is full of red dust. It is really fate that friends can meet, get together, get to know each other, know each other and get close. It can be said that it is a kind of luck to meet, get together and meet in the life journey of people coming and going, gathering and parting, on their different life trajectories and in the hearts of different experiences. Fate is not always there, so we should cherish the hard-won fate.
Getting along between friends is a process of mutual recognition, admiration, appreciation and perception. The advantages, strong points, bright spots and aesthetic feeling of the other person will be reflected in your mind, and even a little value of friends will become your upward energy and become the driving force and source of your lifelong benefit. The wisdom, knowledge, ability and passion of friends are the magnetic force and strength that attract you close. At the same time, everything about you is also a process for friends to know and perceive you.
Friends are a kind of telepathy, a kind of tacit understanding. A gesture, a smile, a word and deed, even a look, an action, a back, a look back, your friends will understand, and they don't need to explain to each other, say anything, or make public, so they will be soul mates. It is the gentlest, most comfortable, most carefree and most beautiful artistic conception.
Friends are people who help each other, inherit each other, accompany each other and help each other on the long road of life. She is your heart-to-heart or shouting when you are bored, your laughter when you are lonely, your ecstasy when you are happy, and a pot of cold water when you are proud. Feel the affection of friends in conversation and listening, shake hands and be grateful in communication and contact.
In ancient times, the so-called "neck and neck" was too high for people to reach. Damon and Pythias, for example, live and die together, which is probably just a fable. Even if the standard of friendship is lowered, it is very rare to become a true friend. Imagine how many friends you can trust if the money is handled. How many friends are willing to visit you when you are frustrated or sick, or even give timely help? How many people are willing to take care of your weak wife and daughter-in-law when you are not at home, but not too many? To say the least, I have always reciprocated, never against my will. How many people can last longer than failing? If there is no special interest to keep turning, I'm afraid it will be hard not to be a passerby in a few years. Franklin said: "There are three kinds of friends who are the most faithful and reliable-an old wife, an old dog and cash." The wonderful thing is that none of these three friends are friends. But Aristotle's sentence is the simplest: "My friends! There are no friends in the world. " This sentence borders on cynicism. In fact, there are still friends in the world, but although you don't have to find them with lanterns, it's like searching for gold in the sand, which takes a long time to refine. Once friendship is forged, it will be rock-solid and never look back.
People who share the same interests in groups can always think it over. Making friends also pays attention to the correct relationship, although it is not as strict as Jiupin Zhong Zheng, and naturally there is a boundary. "Students and teenagers are not cheap, and Wuling horses are light and fat." Can you swim in the old days without moving your eyebrows after being "light and fat"? Han Guangwu asked Yan Ziling to put his thigh on his stomach, which was magnanimous, but it was especially wise for Yan Ziling to resolutely retreat to Fuchun Mountain. Zhu Hongwu wrote a letter to one of his friends, saying, "When Zhu Yuanzhang became emperor, Zhu Yuanzhang was still Zhu Yuanzhang ..." The words were beautifully written, and it would hurt to watch the heroes he later slaughtered. People's physical and psychological structures are the same, but once they enter the official career, they may suddenly change. Confucius said that people who have no friends are not as good as themselves. I think, first, it only refers to the study of taste, and second, it only refers to not making friends who are worse than yourself, not to say that we must go higher. Friendship needs two things. If both sides want to make friends better than themselves, they will never make friends.
As Oscar Wilde said, "There can be no friendship between men and women." Generally speaking, this is true, because if there is a deep friendship, it is easy to deteriorate. If it is not a soul mate, it is not a friendship. Too much and too little, it is difficult to grasp the boundary. It is possible to forget New Year's friends. Mi Heng is less than 20 years old, and Kong Rong is 50 years old, so he made friends. And the list goes on. But it seems to be limited to the same sex. And as far as I know, the formation of forgetting friends depends on the similarity and mutual appreciation of interests, but on the one hand, the elderly need to maintain a little childlike innocence, on the other hand, the young need to be significantly mature. Being old-fashioned is daunting, and being frivolous is unavoidable. It is easy for a single person to make friends, because he has no emotional sustenance, and he needs an accumulation object most among vagrants, but with children and tea, his mood is different.
"A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water", because it is light, it is not greasy, so it can last. "Make friends and respect for a long time." Respect is to keep your distance, that is, to prevent excessive intimacy. However, it is difficult to "respect it". Most importantly, don't overdraw your friendship, and keep some points all the time. Mark Twain said: "The sacred friendship is so sweet, stable, faithful and lasting in essence. You can stay forever, if you don't want money. " This is really generous. Friends have profitable friendships, but what a delicate thing it is! The hardest thing in the world is to borrow money, and most people think the worst thing is to pay back the money. When it comes to money, it's hard to settle grievances, and many growing friendships have been stifled by this blockage!
Persuasion is the proper meaning of friends, but it is easier said than done. In vanity fair, you are in cahoots, and it is difficult for you to tell right from wrong. How can you make efforts to convince others? On the other hand, it is a good medicine, but advice is hard to listen to. Who wants others to recognize his lamella? Don't do it in front of a third party so as not to hurt his face, and don't do it when he is upset so as not to make him angry. Confucius said, "If you remonstrate and do good, you can't stop." I always thought that persuading kindness and discipline were the negative effects of friendship. The happiness of friendship is positive. Only immortals and beasts like loneliness, and people want friends. "If a person ascends to heaven alone and sees the grand view of the universe and the beauty of the stars, he cannot be happy. He must find someone to tell him the miracle he has seen before he can be happy. " * * * enjoys happiness and suffers more than * * *, which should be a more normal interest in friendship.
(2) Motto _ _ _ _ Friendship is a kind of quiet and peaceful love, which is guided by reason and cultivated by habit. It comes from long-term understanding and recognition of * * * *, without jealousy and fear.
-Homer
Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity.
Gibran
True friendship is like wildfire-it is brightest in the darkest moments around you.
——D.M
True friendship is a slow-growing plant.
Washington
Goodwill brings happiness, and civilization brings harmony.
-Hugo
A good friend is like a different person.
-Aristotle
The best thing in the world is to have a few solemn friends with integrity in their minds and hearts.
-Einstein
You may forget the people you laughed with; But you will never forget the people you cried with.
Gibran
People who have no friends or enemies are ordinary people.
Lafat
Treat everyone equally, talk to a few people, and don't lose to anyone.
-Shakespeare
Among all kinds of loneliness, people are most afraid of spiritual loneliness.
-Balzac
One person may perish, and two people may be saved together.
-Balzac
Mochow has no confidant in the road ahead, and no one in the world knows you! Gaoshi
For an immature teenager, a bad partner is much more important than a good teacher. Aesop
Two people talk, one person can listen. However, three people can't talk to each other about the most serious things in the world that should be explored. Emerson
It is easier to forgive an enemy than a friend.
Mrs Dilg.
Friendship is like a bright light in my past life, shining on my soul and making my existence a little glorious.
Ba Jin
It is enough to know one thing in life, and the world should treat it with empathy.
Lu Xun
True love can inspire people and awaken their sleeping strength and hidden talents.
Bojiaqiu
No medicine can communicate with the soul except true friends.
bacon
When it comes to fame, honor, happiness and wealth, they are all dust if compared with friendship. ...
Darwin
Love endows everything with charm, but it should never be a flash in the pan. This brilliant light of life should not only shine in the period of exploration and desire, but in fact this period should only be equivalent to the dawn of a day. Although dawn is lovely and beautiful, in the following day, light and heat are much bigger than dawn.
Chernyshevski
Love should enrich people's sense of strength, and love is indeed enriching people.
Makarenko
The best thing in the world is to have a few serious friends with integrity in mind and heart. ...
[Name] Albert Einstein (Jewish theoretical physicist)
Friendship is really the most sacred thing, which deserves not only special praise, but also eternal praise. It is the wisest mother of generosity and honor, the sister of gratitude and kindness, and the mortal enemy of hatred and greed; It is always ready to give up for others, and it is completely voluntary and does not need others to beg.
Boccaccio
Whether it's sentimental poetry, beautiful articles, or leisurely happiness, nothing can replace extremely close friendship.
Pushkin
Many people who look like friends are not friends, and many people who are friends don't look like friends.
Democrete
The so-called friendship, first of all, is sincerity, which is a mistake in criticizing comrades.
Ostrovsky
Friendship! How many people in the world say this word refers to a pleasant conversation after drinking tea and mutual tolerance for weaknesses! But what does this have to do with friendship?
Fadeev
A true friend should tell the truth, no matter how sharp. ...
Ostrovsky
True friendship is like health, the value of which is not known until it is lost.
Goldon
True friends don't talk about friendship. They don't ask each other for anything for friendship, but do everything possible for each other.
Belinsky
Kind words and promises are easier said than done. Only when we are in trouble can we see the sincerity of our friends.
Krylov
It is the connection of flesh and blood that gives one person the right to help another, not the connection of emotion and spirit.
tschaikovsky
People who don't share their luck will not become faithful friends in disasters.
Aesop's Fables
We will never know who we are dealing with; Even if you want to know your friends, you have to wait for a big moment, that is, you can't wait for more moments; Because only at this point, meeting friends will become the most important thing. Rousseau
It can't be installed well, but it's impossible to confess everywhere. It depends on when. When talking to friends, we can ignore them, but when facing the enemy, we must be prepared. You can take off your clothes when you are with friends, but you have to wear armor when you go to war.
Lu Xun
Young men and women should maintain a sincere relationship, that is, they should have such a relationship: they should not exaggerate or underestimate anything. If you don't cheat each other, if you respect yourself and others, at this time, no matter what kind of relationship you maintain-friendship, admiration, etc.-it is a sound relationship.
Makarenko
What does it mean to love someone? This means being happy for his happiness, doing everything that needs to be done to make him happier and get happiness from it.
Chernyshevski
It is always a beautiful thing to be attached to your lover for virtue.
Plato
Love gives wisdom, and it is often supported by wisdom.
Pesgel
In this special gift shared by only two people, there is a particularly sweet love that cannot be expressed in words.
Aleksandr Herzen
Life is a flower, and love is the honey in it.
Hugo
Love between the sexes is the most important part of life. We should keep him free, sacred and noble, and we should not force him, insult him, slander him or restrain him, so that he will lose his beautiful value in human society.
Li Dazhao
Love permeates their lives as a great factor, but it won't absorb all other factors. They will not abandon the common interests of civic spirit, art and science because of love; On the contrary, they want to bring all the flames of encouragement and love to these aspects, and in turn, the vastness and grandeur of these worlds have penetrated into love.
Aleksandr Herzen
Love is not a sweet talk in the shadow of flowers, a sweet talk in the peach blossom garden, a faint tear, or an unswerving compulsion. Love is based on the same language.
Shakespeare
Loyal love fills my heart, and I can't estimate the wealth I enjoy.
Shakespeare
We love a person because we think that person has qualities that we respect.
Rousseau
Only the god who urges people to love each other in a noble way is beautiful and praiseworthy.
Plato
True love is to drive away crazy or lewd things.
Plato
The same views and feelings can bring two people together more than contact. In this way, although far apart, it is also very close.
tschaikovsky
People don't just live for love; Is the whole goal of a man to control a woman, and the whole goal of a woman is to control a man? Never!
Aleksandr Herzen
We shouldn't keep our friendship at any cost. If friendship must be sacrificed for the greater love, there is no way; But if we can keep it up, then we can really achieve a perfect state.
Tagore
All the scenery on the road is irrelevant; The important thing is to meet your soul mate. Baorong
Many people who look like friends are not friends, while many people who are friends don't look like friends. Democrete
Compromise is not a solid foundation of any friendship. Tagore
It is the visiting friends who add luster to the family. Emerson
Father is the source of money, brother is comfort, and friend is both the source of money and comfort. Franklin
It only takes a little effort to make friends in prosperity; It is more difficult to find friendship in trouble than to ascend to heaven. Epictetus
Friendship is as valuable to people as alchemy often says that their gems are to people. bacon
The best friend is the kind of person who doesn't like to talk much, but can silently face you and connect with you closely. The original name of NIZHNI NOVGOROD in Gorky City
Friendship! You are the mysterious glue of the soul; You are the spice of life and the social bond! Luo Blair
A gentleman does not know his friends, but trusts them. Sima Qian
Apart from the concept of selflessness, mutual respect seems to be another key point of friendship. Mo Luoa
Making friends with non-sages will inevitably lead to love and hate. Meng Jiao
Good people in the same place will get better education day by day; If the wicked swim, they feel ill every day. Ye Fan
Choose your friends carefully! Authentic selfishness will put on the mask of friendship, but set a trap to trap you. Krylov's fable