About us

You are the most important person to me

Before you and I were independent individuals, one person can also fight monsters and level up. Now we are together and will spend the rest of our lives together. We are the most important people to each other. The order of importance in our little family should be: partner-parent-child. After having a child, we must not only focus on the child and forget to care about each other and the parents. We treat each other honestly, believe that each other is the most important person, and work together to create a warm family atmosphere and make the life of our little family develop in the direction we want.

We became each other’s backers. Whether mentally or physically, we have a foundation that each other can rely on. So no matter how tiring or stressful life is, we all need to pay more attention to our bodies. With a healthy body, let's see the outside world together and unlock all kinds of beautiful lives.

Let the other person enter their original family

In the past thirty years, we lived in our own homes. Suddenly one day, we walked into each other's family. We are willing to take each other into our original families and tell our respective families about each other's strengths and habits, so that their families can accept each other faster. Before living with their respective families, do not belittle each other and let your family respect each other. After all, if you go to a strange family, if the family members look at you with strange eyes, you will not be able to integrate well, and you may even be resistant to accepting the other person's family members.

We are not only marriage partners, but also souls who can communicate

? Walking alone can go very fast, but walking together can go far. After being together, we learn together, make progress together, and live the same life. Accompanying learning does not mean that you have to be by your side to learn the same thing, but that both people are learning and making progress in their own fields. When I looked back, I found that the other person was by my side, and found that each other's steps were in sync, encouraging me to move forward.

We will be list nerds, and at the beginning of every year we will make a dream list. In the coming year, we will all set out towards our common dream list, indulge and focus on our dreams. At the end of the year, we will tick off each of our dreams together.

Both of us have the strength to support a family

Our parents have set a good example for me. Even if we don’t have good birth conditions, we can rely on ourselves. The ability can still create a beautiful life. Our parents are such people who refuse to admit defeat, and we must also inherit their spirit of not admitting defeat.

We continue to enhance our abilities and slowly support our own small family. The conditions we have now are not equal, but we are complementing each other in different aspects. In front of each other, we are psychologically equal. In terms of economic income, we are relying on our own capabilities to continue to increase.

In the days to come, any of us will have times when we want to take a break or feel unsatisfied. When the other person wants to take a rest, or when his or her career is unsatisfactory, the other person can still support the family financially and mentally, allowing the other person to rest peacefully. When you have rested enough, you will immediately recover your blood and resurrect.

Life has a sense of ritual, and the corners of your mouth will turn up when you recall it

After getting married, we faced the daily necessities of life together, and even after having our own children, there were a lot of worries. Mao's thing. We will live together for more than 50 years. If there are no rituals in our life, the next 50 years will be repeated every day without any expectations for tomorrow. We add rituals to our lives, various different days, and distinguish each different day. Which days are spent with each other and have rituals, which days are spent with family members and which days have rituals. It was a ritual with friends.

The ritual I understand does not mean expensive items or large sums of money. Even if it is something purchased with care, a meal cooked with care, or a few lines of text written with care to the other party, it is all a ritual. feel.

About parents

Parents gave us life, tried their best to give us the life we ??have now, and cultivated such excellent partners for us.

In the days to come, parents are not obliged to do anything for us or give us anything. So we all have to be grateful for the little they have done for us. Even if the way they love us is not acceptable to us, we have to be grateful to them and not say or do anything that makes them sad. move.

There are only 900 months in life, and half or even two-thirds of our parents’ lives have already passed. This is a fact that we all have to accept. Companionship is more important to them than any material thing. We should go home often and make phone calls frequently. We also want to travel with our parents every year to see different scenery and eat different things. Give them a health check-up every year.

About children

Parents and children need fate. If we can really have the fate to have our own children, let’s give birth to a healthy baby. A child is a necessity, and a second child is a luxury. It is enough for us to have the necessities. Raising children is not to protect ourselves from old age. We have our own ability to provide for ourselves in old age.

Regarding the education of children, teaching by example is better than words, so we must first be ourselves, otherwise if we have shortcomings, he will also have shortcomings. Parents are parents for the first time, and children are children for the first time. Both children and parents need to learn, and you cannot think that I am your elder and everything I do is right.

About friends

We have our own friends, who are the witnesses of our youth. So after marriage, we still have our own independent space and our own friends. We trust each other deeply and will not do anything harmful to our marriage.

We encourage each other to make friends and accept each other’s friends.

About money

The economic base determines the superstructure. Although money is not everything, nothing is impossible without money. We try to make money to the best of our ability. Our goal is to own our own house and car in Huicheng District in 2023. According to our current status and plan, it will definitely be realized.

Maugham said in "The Moon and Sixpence": There were sixpences all over the ground, but he looked up and saw the moon. Although it is absolutely impossible not to have money, our money is obtained in a proper way and on the basis of ensuring our health, and we are happy on the road of making money.