Jin Jin is a very special little girl who has been brought up by her grandmother at home. When I came to kindergarten at the age of three and a half, my neighbor said I couldn't send it. It is strange that she didn't cry in kindergarten for a month. Strangely, from the first day of kindergarten, she never cried and never interacted with people. She likes to sit quietly alone, showing a very introverted personality. I have been in kindergarten for two weeks and haven't said a word to anyone. No matter how active the teacher is, he just doesn't talk.
Seeing this, I went to touch her head and said with a smile, "Jin Jin, will you come to my class tomorrow?" She looked at me, but still didn't speak. After coming to kindergarten the next day, she stood motionless in the corridor. I know what I said yesterday worked. I took her to our class, introduced her to all the children, and told everyone: "We are all children who change classes, and Jin Jin is a little sister. We should all care about her and don't bully her. " Then I told Jin Jin that you can tell me anything. Every day after school, I will sit alone with her for a while and ask her some things at home. It doesn't matter if she doesn't want to talk. After two days, she became less restrained in front of me and sometimes laughed. Every time I see her smile, I will give her a bright smile.
When making friends, I always let other children play with her, and she is only with me every time. Every time I will arrange some relatively simple tasks for her to complete. For example, in the game of throwing balls, I let her get closer to me first, so that she can catch more balls and feel the joy of success. At the same time, I sometimes deliberately let the ball run away and let her know that failure is not terrible. Even if an adult fails, she can start over. The harder she works, the better her chances of success. I will give her appropriate encouragement after she finishes the task.
An accident completely changed Jin Jin. I caught a cold that day and recovered in the morning. At noon, I really couldn't hold on. I asked for leave with my children and slept for a while. Soon after I lay down, my door opened a little, a little head stuck in, and a pair of little eyes looked at me timidly. I can't believe my eyes. Xiaojin actually gave me a glass of water, and I smiled. She touched her head and said, "Jin Jin is really sensible. Is Jin Jin afraid that the teacher is ill and no one will play with Jin Jin? In fact, all the children want to play with Jin Jin. If Jin Jincan plays with the children and doesn't make the teacher so tired, the teacher will recover quickly. When the teacher is well, he can play with Jin Jin and the children again. " Later, Jin Jin really changed and slowly began to play with other children.
Now, Xiaojin has been in kindergarten for two years. Now she is a lively and cheerful, talkative and lovely little girl. Every time the teacher asks questions in class, her little hand is always the fastest. Last year, on Children's Day, she also performed a program alone.
From the growth of Jin Jin, I really understand the possibility of children's development and the true meaning of plasticity, and also understand how important it is to cultivate self-confidence in the process of children's growth. If I don't pay attention to the cultivation of self-confidence in Jin Jin's growth, letting her complete the tasks that she can't complete with other children will only make her lose confidence in herself even more, and she will think in her heart, "Why can't she complete the tasks that others can complete?" Is it because she is too stupid? " In that case, Kim wouldn't be like this now, and maybe he'll never see anyone else again.