Contents Method 1: Dressing Part 1. Wear more sequined clothes. 2. The colors should be bright and colorful. 3. Add a little drama. 4. Wear high heels. 5. Put your hair in a bun. 6. Stop listening to other people’s opinions on what to wear. Method 2: Be yourself 1. Show yourself. 2. Know yourself. 3. Be full of energy. 4. Express your emotions. 5. Wear flamboyant clothes. 6. Love yourself. 7. Get beauty sleep. Method 3: Participate in social networking 1. Let others like you. 2. Take care of those around you. 3. Attract others’ attention. 4. Don’t waste time on boring people. 5. Stick to your own way of doing things. 6. Date more. 7. Have a sense of humor. Method 4: The life of a social expert 1. Enjoy life. 2. Go on an adventure. 3. Lead the trend. 4. Surpass others. 5. Maintain the rhythm of life. 6. Make your home a base for experts. 7. Play for real. If you want to be a social queen and let everyone know you, or want to live a flamboyant life, but don’t know how, this article will tell you.

Method 1: Dressing

1. Wear more sequined clothes. Sequins are great, they make you sparkle and look like Mae West. Are you wearing sequins? Great, wear more. Sequined dresses are the best, don’t let anyone tell you you’re out of style.

2. The colors should be bright and colorful. Who wants to wear grays and tans all day? No one. Wear colorful clothes and dare to match them. It’s okay to wear two fluorescent colors at the same time.

3. Add a little dramatic effect. And by drama, I mean special accessories like feathers and (faux!) fur. This way you will look like Marilyn Monroe!

4. Wear high heels. The higher the better! Stop wearing those boring flats. If you want to be a social queen, your heels must be at least 9 centimeters.

5. Put your hair in a bun. Tie your hair up high and add some curls for a trendy look. You can even wear a wig. It would be even better if you dye your hair, but the whole point is to look like a super model.

6. Stop listening to other people’s opinions on dressing. Why do you always listen to others? The most important thing is to dress in your own style. You are born with great taste! In short, just wear the clothes you like and show your own characteristics. Even if you like to wear a tweed coat with elbow patches, that's fine. You can still be fashionable and don't let anyone tell you what to do.

Method 2: Be yourself

1. Show yourself. Don't think that your personality is not good enough or your body is not hot enough. Why bother? You are a social butterfly! You need to love your own innate qualities, such as wearing clothes that are tailored to fit you perfectly or that express your personality.

2. Know yourself. Don't let others judge you. Think about what you want to pursue and what makes you happy. Why pretend to be someone else and do something you don't like? What a waste of life! You should know yourself, find what really makes you happy, and forget about anything else. Don't worry, you'll find your place. A great way to learn about yourself is to volunteer. Go help those who encounter difficulties, and over time you will find some different shining points in yourself.

Another way is to travel. Go to a distant and unfamiliar place and experience the different customs and customs. You will have more thoughts about your life and it will also make you more confident!

3. Be full of energy. Social butterflies don’t just lie around on the couch watching TV all day, they get out and enjoy life! Grab a few cups of espresso and get out and party!

4. Express your emotions. A true social butterfly is not shy about expressing emotions. You can share some of your opinions with everyone around you and don't be afraid to speak your true mind. Human beings are born with rich emotions, and it is unhealthy to always hold them in.

5. Wear flamboyant clothes.

You should always wear bright clothes! Choose colors and cross-markets that can express your personality, the brighter the better! You want to announce to the world: you are ready to be worshiped!

6. Love yourself. If you don’t think of yourself as a social butterfly, others won’t think so either. You have to stop doubting yourself, you are the best, even if sometimes you don’t quite believe it. You can give yourself a hug, buy something you like, or go eat sushi alone, because you deserve it! If you don’t like something about yourself (there has to be a valid reason), then change it!

7. Get beauty sleep. How can you be a social butterfly if you look depressed? Beauty sleep can really make you look better, so you should sleep for 8 hours a day and have a good dream.

Method 3: Participate in social networking

1. Let others like you. If you really want to be a social butterfly, you have to love connecting with people. You need to spend time with others and make others like the feeling of being with you, so you need to go out more and participate in more social activities. Go to parties, family get-togethers, meet up with friends, go to bars, make more friends in various ways.

2. Take care of the people around you. As a social butterfly, you need to take care of your friends, family, and others you hang out with. Help others, support them when they are criticized, and help them become as confident as you are. You have to encourage them, that's what a social butterfly should do.

3. Attract others’ attention. You want everyone to notice you all the time. It's like a belief! No matter when and where you are, you have to attract everyone's attention so that you can take control of the situation and express yourself. This doesn't mean getting loud or throwing a tantrum, no, you have to speak appropriately, make lots of eye contact, and always appear confident.

4. Don’t waste time on boring people. A social butterfly like you obviously doesn't deserve to waste time on stupid ideas, negative remarks, or a bad attitude. If someone around you has a terrible personality and likes to make headlines, stop dating him. Not everyone has that much time, you have other things to do!

5. Stick to your own way of doing things. Your principles are the best, stick to them. Although this may sometimes seem stubborn, there is nothing wrong with arguing or persuading others appropriately. You have to be confident and your words and demeanor are important.

6. Date more. Don't be a slut (date, not fuck), and as long as you're single, feel free to date whoever you like. Why? Because it’s such a shame that a social butterfly like you doesn’t date! So go on a date and let people know you're outgoing.

7. Have a sense of humor. Another important task for a social butterfly is to keep everyone happy. Even when you are nervous, you should be able to joke with everyone to lighten the mood. You can practice a few quips in advance so that they are available when needed.

Method 4: The life of a social expert

1. Enjoy life. You need to be outgoing and do more. If you don't want to work a 9-to-5 job, find a job that suits you better. Go learn something you like and find a job you won't get tired of in 20 years. Go travel! Go see the world. The nightlife in Los Angeles, New York, Las Vegas, Bali, Milan, Berlin, London, Bangkok, Buenos Aires, S?o Paulo (Brazil) is great.

2. Go on an adventure. If you really want to be a social butterfly, you have to be fearless and try new things. Instead of doing the same chore every day, you have to do something more interesting and risky. Give up the same old stuff and try something new.

3. Lead the trend. Don’t follow the crowd, you are the trendsetter. That said, you have to have something original and don't be afraid. Share your adventures with others and be a unique leader.

4. Surpass others. As a social butterfly, you don’t need to apologize to anyone. So don't worry, you can do a few more things than the average person.

Only in this way can you reveal yourself to others and you will be happier at the same time. Life is short, don’t hold back!

5. Maintain the rhythm of life. Create a playlist of songs to listen to when you are happy, sad, angry, or what makes you feel the best. Some songs that are more suitable for social butterflies include: Natasha Bedingfield's "Still Me," Miley Cyrus's "We Can't Stop," Janelle Monáe's "Queen," and Beyoncé's "Single Girl."

6. Make your home a base for experts. You want your friends and loved ones to have the perfect gathering place, right? It doesn’t have to be big, but it must be ornately decorated. Spend the extra money and buy some beautiful furniture, or decorate it to emulate a nostalgic theme: it’s up to you!

7. Play for real. You don't have to be a jerk, but you have to be able to tell the difference between good and bad. Don't be too rude, but if someone does something bad, take action. No need to be polite to assholes.

Tips: Keep your posture appropriate.

Talk elegantly.

The grades must be good enough so that you can choose your ideal career.

Be confident, but realistic.

Witty and humorous.

Warning not to force yourself. It’s easier to be natural, just be yourself!