It’s not normal. Everyone should have their own social circle. You can overlap, but you don’t even have a normal friend of the opposite sex. Will you stop talking to male colleagues in the future? What to do for a dinner party?

Try to communicate with your boyfriend, and if things go wrong, break up as soon as possible. If your boyfriend is the kind of person who is too controlling, that would be scary

You can see it Although your boyfriend loves you, he honestly doesn't respect you enough. Because if he really believes in you and respects you, even if he will be jealous because you chat with the opposite sex, as long as he knows that you are not ambiguous with the opposite sex, he will still know how to respect you and not interfere with your social interactions. And although his current behavior can be understood as because he loves you, it has obviously crossed the line.

I suggest you find a time to communicate with him in detail about the negative impact his behavior has had on you, and express your willingness to show him the chat history. If he is still unwilling to compromise, Then you can lose your temper and force him to compromise. Because if you indulge in something like this once, there may be a second or third time in the future. This time it will be a friend of the opposite sex. The next time it may be to say hello to a stranger or get too close to a best friend... thus interfering with your life. All socialized. Girl, you have to understand that some things are the bottom line, and you can't give in no matter how much you love.

On the one hand, he wants to control, but the woman thinks that her boyfriend may be worried that she will be taken away by others, which is a sign that he cares about her. Love is mutual respect. You can communicate with him. Effective social interaction is a must. Don't break off another plump wing because of love.

If he is completely insecure about holding you, he will restrict your friendship to some extent, such as not allowing you to talk to the opposite sex. Also think about whether you have done anything before that hurt his self-esteem, such as forgetting to reply to him when chatting with the opposite sex, or going out alone with the opposite sex without telling him. I suggest finding the cause first, and then deciding what to do about it.