There are about 70% of the hosts/hostesses who use couch surfing to hook up, and there are also about 30% of the hosts/hostesses/families who are purely hospitable and really want to help others. Generally speaking, girls are very popular, because girls are generally cleaner than boys, and the risk of being stolen or robbed by hosting a girl is relatively small for the sofa owner, so the host/hostess/family is more willing to host girls traveling alone. It is more difficult for straight men who travel alone to find a host, unless the host is gay and wants to turn you in. Compared with solo travelers, it is more difficult for couples to find a sofa owner when traveling, and it is even more difficult for couples to take care of children. On the Sofa Guest website, there are very few female hosts, because a girl is generally unwilling to open her home to strangers, and there are more male hosts, so it is usually the male host who receives a girl who travels alone. If a male host accepts her, it is basically for her. She is interesting. But the decision whether to go to bed or not is still in the girl's hands. If the girl doesn't want to go to bed, the male owner won't force her. After all, everyone knows that rape is a serious crime. When choosing a male sofa owner, girls should try to choose one with more positive reviews. Such a male owner values ??reviews and will not risk you writing a bad review to force you to do something. On the Sofa Guest website, there is indeed a small group of people who sincerely welcome travelers without any other purpose. For example, a hospitable couple, a lonely old man who simply wants company, a family who wants to meet an exotic family, etc. So you are lucky to live in a home with such a sofa, but generally such homes are overcrowded. The couch that receives you might be a really dirty, cramped couch, it might be a sleeping bag on the floor, it might be a sofa bed, it might be an air mattress, it might be a guest room with a door and an ensuite and a large double bed, or it might be the master bed. The other half is empty. You have to be mentally prepared for these things. Compared to couchsurfing, airbnb is much more decent because it charges a fee and basically gives guests a real bed or a real guest room. Because the room fee is charged, the host is psychologically unbalanced. There is much less emotion, so I don’t have any expectations or obscene thoughts about the tenants. That's the beauty of money. If you are a girl who is very poor and wants to see the world, couchsurfing can save you room fees, but don’t ask for good sleep quality, and you will meet all kinds of people. As long as you're careful, the risk of rape is basically minimal. Rape is punishable by jail time, and most owners still have this common sense. If you and your host are in love and go to bed for physical and spiritual communication, you should be careful to avoid contracting sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy. If you encounter a lewd host who wants to do something to you, you must leave in time. Even spending money to go to a hotel is better than being raped. At the same time, report him to the website. I prefer staying in airbnb than couchsurfing. On the one hand, the quality of the accommodation is high, and the quality of the host is relatively high. I don’t feel like I owe the other party anything after paying for the room, and the other party truly treats me as a guest. So in terms of accommodation experience, airbnb It will be better than couchsurfing.