"Fu Lei's Family Letter" not only lets people know Fu Lei's thoughts, but also helps many parents educate their children. Fu Lei's teaching to his son was not only about art. He once advised Fu Cong to get rid of his lazy habit; "Everyone is somewhat lazy. If your laziness and bias cannot be restrained by morality, how can you achieve what we educate you?" Creed; "Be a human first, an artist next, a musician next, and a pianist finally?"
This is proof that a father works hard for his son. Fu Lei's love for Fu Cong and Fu Min is not The ordinary greetings are hidden in his sincere teachings to his sons and his strict requirements on their morals and art.
Fu Lei is both like his sons' friends and like them. The teacher is giving suggestions and opinions to Fu Cong and Fu Min. These unusual family letters spell out a father’s love for his son, a simple and sincere but great love.
, Fu Lei also warned Fu Cong, "Always maintain an innocent heart, and you will not be left behind when you grow old. You will always be able to embrace the innocent hearts of the world." From this sentence, we can see that Fu Lei not only educates children. Be open-minded, love the motherland, and contribute to the motherland. Fu Lei is not only a great writer, but also a good father.
Fu Lei’s teachings to his sons are always based on a certain attitude. On an equal relationship, he once said: "I am happy that I have another friend, and my son has become a friend. There is nothing in the world that can match this kind of happiness. When the child was in pain, he said: "Bitter tears are the wine that cultivates your soul. People who have not experienced sharp pain will not have deep and broad sympathy." He does not do everything for the child, but for the child's transformation. He was delighted with the process and encouraged him to have a more sincere heart in art, "Ignore the gains and losses, success or failure, just try to do my best, without any regrets." ?
A letter written by Fu Lei and his wife to their children Fu Cong and Fu Min. They worked hard to cultivate their two children, educating them to become adults first and then to have a family. They cultivated children to think independently and teach students in accordance with their aptitude. Successful expression, so I think Fu Lei and his wife are role models for Chinese parents in educating their children. ?Everyone has experienced the teachings of their parents.
Fu Lei is good at analyzing himself in his letters, admitting his mistakes in front of his children, and giving lessons and lessons from his own experiences.
Fu Lei is a very emotional person. He is very serious and has no original ideas in what he talks about. But he has a kind of fatherly care, and he truly teaches his children with all his heart, integrating his life experiences into a letter home. Between the lines of his words, I saw his awe and loyalty to learning and life, as well as his extremely upright values. I think such talents truly deserve our respect.
Fu Lei sent his son to study abroad. During this period, he wrote hundreds of letters to his family. Teach him how to behave, teach him etiquette, justice and integrity, and teach him to love the motherland.
"I hope you will put all your energy into studying knowledge, use more reason and less emotion. Of course, it depends on your strong confidence and restrain all worries. It is not easy, but it must be overcome. No. I have never had any opinions on your emotional issues. I think you are making progress in all aspects. You are a smart person and you will realize it. Since I am your mother and we are closely related, I have to say a few words. , to give advice." It is said that the mother is attentive. The father has good intentions for his son's future, while the mother pays attention to the son's emotional problems in the most subtle aspects and gives her son a clear direction. Tell him how to deal with his emotional and career issues, and let his son understand the key points.
We should also accept the lessons from Fu Lei’s wife. We should understand our priorities, our tasks, our path and direction, know what we should and should not do, and grasp the direction. This helps us succeed.
Fu Lei trained Fu Cong not only by providing him with an environment and guidance in knowledge and music, but also by taking great pains in his conduct and social etiquette. Presumably, a person has a good education, not only in In terms of knowledge, it is this person's excellent moral character that will impress others.
In Fu Lei's teaching method, he also attaches great importance to the cultivation and development of his son's art, because life can also be sublimated through art. This is also the ultimate goal of Fu Lei's teaching, to be a person worthy of the country and society. This is also meaning of life.
He is a good teacher.