Idioms mediate other people's relationships?

A. Idioms describing disputes

Corner jar collision is a metaphor for family quarrels.

Source: Qing Wenkang's Biography of Heroes of Children: "As far as the husband and wife are concerned, nature should be more and more integrated into a temperament, and with husband and wife, what happens at noon will turn into water milk."

Beating each other is a metaphor for family quarrels.

Source: Qing Pu Songling's Strange Tales from a Lonely Studio Volume 11 Frog God: "Besides, I sounded the horn, which was done by ministers, and my parents didn't participate."

Gossip: Pick and choose. Pass around other people's words, deliberately pick and choose, or talk behind their backs, causing disputes.

Source: "Zhuangzi Stole Foot": "Shake your lips and drum your tongue, make trouble." Li Yuan celebrated the first discount of "Five Yuan Blow": "He teased me about many things in front of everyone."

Sow discord. Right and wrong: disputes, words.

Source: "The Romance of the Jin Dynasty" Eight times: "I suspect that she is spreading right and wrong, so deliberately, Xu Tu retaliates."

Resolving disputes refers to mediating disputes or eliminating dangers for people.

Gather people to make trouble, gather people to make trouble everywhere and create disputes.

Eliminating troubles and disputes originally refers to eliminating dangers and solving disputes for people. This refers to the mediation of disputes between the two sides. In order to "solve problems and compete for profits."

Solving difficulties and disputes originally refers to eliminating dangers and solving disputes for people. This refers to the mediation of disputes between the two sides.

Source: "Warring States Policy Zhao Ce San": "Those who are more expensive than others in the world can solve doubts for others and get nothing. Even those who take things are businessmen, and Zhong Lian can't bear to do it. "

There is a storm on the flat ground. Metaphor suddenly unexpected disputes or accidents.

Source: Tang Yuxi's "Zhi Zhu Ci": "I often hate people's hearts like water and make waves casually."

People and I are right or wrong: disputes, disputes. Various interests disputes between people.

Source: Ma Yuan Zhiyuan's "The Dream of the Huangliangmeng" is the fourth fold: "A dream in eighteen years, seeing the sound and wealth, people are right and wrong, greedy and stupid, wind, frost, rain and snow."

Do good: do it well; Gan Xiu: I am willing to give up. Settle the dispute properly and don't create any more trouble.

Source: Cao Qingxue Qin's Dream of Red Mansions: Sixty-five times: "He thinks that his grandmother is more beautiful than him, and she is more popular than him, so she is willing?"

Let nature take its course, settle disputes easily, and stop it willingly.

Source: Cao Qingxue Qin's Dream of Red Mansions: "Grandma just let him go. When he sees that grandma is more beautiful and popular than him, will he let go? "

It is a misunderstanding or dispute caused by right and wrong words.

Source: Feng Ming Menglong's "Ancient and Modern Novel Teng Yinda's Ghost Broken Furniture": "If the brotherhood is broken in the field, although it is not as poor as red, it is clean and saves a lot of right and wrong."

Calm down: calm down; Ning: stable. At first, it meant not to cause trouble and disturb the people. Later, it meant to mediate disputes so that things can be solved and people can live and work in peace and contentment.

Source: "The Book of the Later Han Dynasty Zhang Diji": "There is a division in life, and there is no need to investigate the case if the crime is not fatal; Tell the official book, don't listen, hope to settle things. "

Brothers turned against each other: fighting. An argument between brothers is also a metaphor for internal strife.

Source: The Book of Songs Xiaoya Long Beach: "Brothers are arrogant inside the wall."

Xuan Ran Xuan Ran: The waves are rough. Surging waves. Metaphor is controversial or troublesome.

Source: Tang Hanyu's poem "Four Records of the Yueyang Tower": "The universe is awkward."

Making trouble is deliberately creating trouble and causing disputes.

A cold pot of beans is a metaphor for a dispute that has been settled, and your breath suddenly broke out again.

Source: The 43rd session of Yetang in Xia Qing Economic Zone revealed: "The poem on this wall was copied and folded into a case file by the master of this county, and I was afraid that it would not be found for a while, and the beans exploded in the cold pot, so I dare not uncover it."

It is difficult for an honest official to decide housework, and it is difficult for a just official to decide the merits of family disputes. Refers to things within the family, which are difficult for outsiders to figure out.

Source: Feng Ming magnum "Yu Shi Ming Yan" Volume 10: "As the saying goes, it is difficult for an honest official to judge family affairs. Since I care about your mother and son, don't expect too much. "

Honest officials can break housework. Family disputes are so complicated that outsiders can't judge who is right or wrong.

Source: Cao Shuhou's "Good Dreams Come True" Chapter 69: "People often say that it is difficult for honest officials to break housework. Ha, I did it this time. "

The dispute between right and wrong is because of talking too much.

B. Idioms describing the relationship between people

a nodding acquaintance

Refers to the friendship is very shallow, met just nodded.

A strong and intimate friendship

Cross: Friendship. Rock-solid friendship

The friendship between gentlemen seems indifferent, but in fact it is pure as water.

Gentleman: A person of good character. Gentlemen's communication is as light as water, rather than drawing on each other.

Sworn brotherhood/sisterhood

Eight Worship: It originally refers to the etiquette for children of ancient family friends to meet their elders; Cross: Friendship. Old friends became brothers.

An acquaintance I have ever met

Friendship with people who have only met once. It means that friendship is not deep.

Friends in simple life days

B: civilians. Always referring to poor old friends.

real friendship

Pestle: a wooden stick used to beat rice; Mortar: stone mortar. Metaphor makes friends regardless of wealth and rank.

a nodding acquaintance

A friend I don't know very well

advisor

A mentor who can teach and help.

Someone who can teach and help.

Good: good; I dare say it. A good teacher and a friend who can be honest with each other.

unneigh borly

Describe not interacting with people.

Just like fire and water-they are incompatible with each other

Describe the incompatibility between the two sides.

A person is incompatible with water and fire.

Our own people are at odds.

fall out and become enemies

Turn face: Turn face. Turn against each other. Generally speaking, the husband and wife are at odds, the contradictions are intensified and they are opposed to each other.

Extreme opposition

The two sides stand side by side. Refers to the fact that hostile parties cannot exist at the same time. Metaphor is irreconcilable contradiction.

Swear not to coexist with sb.

Refers to the deep hatred between the two sides and cannot exist at the same time.

C. The idioms of victims and mediators appearing at the same time are as follows

I don't know if it's a three-court trial.

D. Idioms describing interpersonal relationships

This is still hard to find. Here are some idioms for your reference.

The lotus root is broken, but there are still many wires connected. Metaphor is not completely cut off More refers to the love between men and women.

Love and hate: Love and hate only because you care too much, but you have no ability not to turn the other person into what you want.

Crying and laughing: crying or laughing, I'm embarrassed to describe it.

Haunted by dreams: something touches the soul and haunts the dream. Describe the incomparable yearning; Also known as "Dream around", I miss you so much.

Care about the present and cherish the past: look at the present and think about the past. Describe your feelings about current things and your thoughts about past people or scenery.

E. Idioms describing the relationship between people

Be closely related to ...

xīxīxiāngguān

[Interpretation] Breath: Breathe. Breathing is also interrelated. The description is very appropriate.

[Language] Fu's On Salvation: "Both are closely related to camping."

[Orthography] stage; It can't be pronounced "xiànɡ". "

Close sense is closely related to adversity and * * *

[Antisense] Indifference is incompatible with water and fire

[Usage] refers to the close relationship between people or things. Generally used as predicate, object and attribute.

Subject-predicate type

[Discrimination] ~ and "unity"; Both have the meaning of "very close relationship with each other"; But there is still a difference. ~ wide application range; Can refer to people; It can also refer to things; The application scope of "unity" is small; It can only be used in the relationship between people, groups or countries.

[example]

(1) They are like brothers; ~。

(2) the older generation of proletarian revolutionaries; For the liberation of the people of China; Give your life to struggle; With the people ~; Life and death with the masses and * * *.

[English translation] becloselybounp

F. which idiom is used to describe a big dispute?

Unscramble Xuanran * * _ Idioms

Pinyin: xuān rán dà b

Interpretation: Xuanran: The way the waves are rising. Surging waves. Metaphor is controversial or troublesome.

Source: Tang Hanyu's poem "Four Records of the Yueyang Tower": "The universe is awkward."

Example: I didn't expect such a small matter to cause such a big response.

G. What are the idioms that describe the relationship between people?

1, Qi Xin cooperation [tó ng x and né xié li]

Interpretation: heart: thought; Lenovo: combination. Unite as one and work together.

Departure: Han Jiayi's On Qin: "And the world has made every effort to attack Qin, and those who are trapped in obstacles and cannot enter are brave but not wise?" "Biography of Cui Qian in Zhou Shu": "If we work together on the platform of Yuwen and fail to discuss the court by electricity, we will be the people of Huan Wen and revive on this day."

Example: As long as we can unite as one, Qi Xin will work together and take responsibility bravely, then any difficulty can be overcome by fighting.

Harmonious economy

Explanation: desire: inner heart; Ji: crossing. We are United as one, and we are in the same boat. Metaphor is to work together to overcome difficulties.

Language: "Mandarin Lu Xia": "The husband is not talented; * * * is only economic. " Also "Shangshu Hao Tao Mo": "The same yin respects sincerity."

Ex: * * and the democratic parties should be of one mind and one mind in the new historical period.

3. Share weal and woe [fēng yǔtóng zhōu]

Commentary: Through thick and thin, through thick and thin. Metaphor * * * has suffering.

Out: "Sun Tzu's Nine Places": "Wu Mi people hate the Yue people; When they are in the same boat; Meet the wind; Its rescue is like this; Right hand. "

The old couple have been through thick and thin for decades, and they already know each other very well.

However, I feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn

Explanation: For example, men and women in love are soul mates. Now it's not just a metaphor, both sides can understand each other's ideas.

Out: Tang Shangyin's Untitled Poetry: "Although my body does not have Cai Feng's wings; However, I feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn. "

Example: Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, but I think the harmonious heartbeat of Kirin in A Dream of Red Mansions can understand each other's thoughts.

5. Soul mate [x ρ n x ρ n xi ā ng y ō n]

Explanation: heart: mind, thoughts and feelings; Seal: Yes. You can get to know each other without speaking your mind. Describe each other's thoughts and feelings exactly the same.

Out: "Six Ancestors Magic Tanjing": "I preach Buddhism, but I dare to violate it." "The Method of Heart-to-heart Transmission of Huangmei": "Since then, I have been initiated with my heart, and my heart is the same. "

Although they live far away, they are soul mates.

H. Idioms and allusions mediate contradictions

Mediation: mediation: reversal and adjustment, extended to mediation of contradictions and disputes. Handle contradictions between the two sides and mediate disputes.

Bypass: Mediation of disputes, from the perspective of China, so that all parties can accept it, thus easing the deadlock.

Resolving disputes or difficulties: refers to mediating disputes or eliminating dangers for people.

Salted plums: salt, plums: seasoning. It is a metaphor for coordinating and balancing different forces and factors, and more refers to the responsibility of the prime minister. Later, it also refers to mediating family conflicts.

Let things calm down: rest: calm down; Ning: stable. At first, it meant not to cause trouble and disturb the people. Later, it meant to mediate disputes so that things can be solved and people can live and work in peace and contentment.

Liu Wei, Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, the third generation emperor of the Eastern Han Dynasty. He has made great achievements in history, especially his generosity. This idiom comes from an imperial edict issued by Zhang Han in Luoyang, from which we can see his management style.

Born in 58 AD, Liu Wei is the fifth son of Emperor Han Ming. He was tolerant since childhood, liked Confucianism, and was highly valued by his father. In 75 AD, Emperor Han Ming died of illness, and Liu Wei, who was 19 years old, inherited the Great System. As soon as he ascended the throne, he granted amnesty to the world and took various measures to support the people. He gave food to all the people who were widowed, widowed, seriously ill and poor, and each person received three corn for the Spring Festival.

At that time, domestic epidemics continued, and there were droughts in Yanzhou, Yuzhou, Xuzhou and Luoyang, the capital. Upon learning of this situation, Zhang Han immediately issued a letter to exempt the land rent tax in these places, allocated a large amount of grain from the state treasury to help the poor, and ordered local officials to go deep into the people, comprehensively check the number of the poor and weak, and distribute pensions to ensure that no one was left behind. Later, he took effective personnel to Yanshi and other places to inspect the agricultural situation, trying not to disturb the place, so that everyone could devote all their energy and financial resources to developing production.

During his reign, Emperor Zhang Han was very generous. In the past, if someone committed treason and other major crimes, not only the person concerned would be brutally punished, but also a large number of relatives of his father, mother and wife would be implicated. Emperor gaozu Zhang didn't do this. He abolished a large number of harsh provisions in the law, forbidding torture in prison, committing a crime by one person and prohibiting the participation of his three families. At the same time, he also reduced the crimes of all prisoners in the world and made them atone by donating money on the sidelines.

One year, Kong You, the 19th grandson of Confucius, went to imperial academy to study, and when he was reading Chunqiu with his classmate Cui Shang, he couldn't help discussing some gains and losses of Emperor Wu of Han Dynasty according to the history of wuyue's struggle. Unexpectedly, Liang Yuwen, their classmate next door, reported the matter to the government and sued them for "slandering the former emperor * * * in the present". Soon, Cui Yi was arrested and put on trial. Kono felt a catastrophe, and quickly wrote to Zhang Han to explain what happened. The magnanimous Emperor Zhang Han didn't pursue it again, but also worshipped Kono as the official history of Lantai, and put him in charge of the preservation and collation of national classics.

In the spring of Yuanhe two years (AD 85), in order to expand the population and promote the prosperity of the country, Emperor Zhang Han issued another imperial decree, and pregnant women all over the country were pregnant with three children. At the same time, he also warned the minister that spring is the season when everything germinates and thrives, and all favorable conditions should be created to adapt to the weather. For those who break the law, as long as their crimes are not enough to be punished, don't pursue them too much, try to make peace and respect the weather.

During the period of Zhang Han, the national political situation was stable and the society was peaceful and prosperous. He sent Ban Chao to the Western Regions twice, so that the Western Regions were renamed princes in the Han Dynasty. Therefore, people call the period when he and Emperor Han Ming ruled together "the prosperous time of Ming Dynasty".

First, idioms expressing reconciliation

The more common ones are as follows;

Fail,

Break the ice,

Back on the battlefield,

The sky is falling,

Tied together,

Kuangding Jieyi,

Take off your clothes and armor,

Self-explanation,

Take off your clothes, cover the fire,

Disintegrate the ice tray,