Internet addiction among teenagers has become a difficult problem in today's education. It does great harm to teenagers, such as affecting health, neglecting studies, hurting family feelings and breeding illegal and criminal behaviors.
Addiction is a long-term accumulation of bad habits. The causes of Internet addiction come from social, school, family and other factors. Once addicted, you have to pay a heavy price to quit. Therefore, prevention is the fundamental way.
Many children's internet addiction has begun to show signs since childhood. Therefore, to prevent children's internet addiction, we must start early, and the most important thing is to rely on parents. Family education plays a vital role.
So, how can families effectively prevent children from indulging in the Internet?
Personal suggestions of "Sanwei":
Give and take, guide your interest.
1, appropriate "release" is the development trend of the times. Now is the era of network information, as parents, of course, we should not "talk about network color change". Using mobile phones or computers to surf the Internet is a "dividend" brought to children by the development of science and technology in the times, and parents can't take it away rudely. Giving children access to the Internet properly is not only their right, but also their confidence and "capital" to integrate into the times. Imagine: How embarrassing and awkward it would be if children's internet access was completely tightened and children lived in this environment of network information age?
2. Scientifically "harvesting" is an inevitable requirement for children's growth.
Children are naturally curious and have no fixed interest, but anything can be an interest. The network is a "hodgepodge" box, but children lack the standard and ability to distinguish right from wrong, have poor self-control, and have no consequence prediction and endurance. Everything is in the hands of parents.
The first is to monitor the trend of children's online content. It is beneficial to children's intellectual development and knowledge accumulation. Try to avoid unhealthy and addictive games such as registration, continuous upgrading, payment, violence and pornography. The second is to strictly supervise children's online time. You can't surf the internet without completing your study tasks. Say it's fun for half an hour, and then you have to quit. Third, it is best for children not to have private mobile phones until they graduate from high school.
3. Cultivating children's elegant taste in time can greatly reduce their tendency of "Internet addiction".
Nowadays, many parents, in combination with their children's interests, guide their children's "boring" time to places where children are interested, such as piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. Naturally, children don't pay much attention to "surfing the Internet". Of course, even if the child has no other interests, he should be guided from his "online interest" to his "elegant" interest.
What can the Internet give children? What psychological needs of teenagers have been met? It is found that teenagers' psychological needs are mainly met through the network: self-realization, satisfaction, compensation for the actual situation, acquisition of knowledge and information, interpersonal communication and team affiliation, achievement experience and so on.
Some scholars have also put forward the compensation mechanism for the psychological needs of Internet addiction: the compensation mechanism for the psychological needs of Internet addiction, that is, if the psychological needs of teenagers are not met in reality, they can be better met on the Internet to make up for the lack of reality; In reality, the more psychological needs are lacking, the greater the advantages of network satisfaction, and the more serious the trend of teenagers' internet addiction.
Here, from the family's point of view, give parents some suggestions to prevent their children's internet addiction: 1. When you are with children, put down electronic products such as mobile phones.
Example is better than precept. If parents spend their spare time on mobile phones or pads all day, children will learn to be only interested in electronic products and satisfy their entertainment needs through the internet, but not interested in other things.
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3. Encourage children to use the Internet reasonably.
Appropriate network can meet children's needs for entertainment, communication, knowledge and information. In modern society, the Internet has changed people's way of life and is affecting people's lives in a more profound way. If you don't use the internet at all, you may be unable to move in the future society. Children can be encouraged to get information online, learn new knowledge and make more use of the positive role of the network.
4. Try to use electronic products as little as possible to strengthen children.
For example, if you behave well, I will buy it for you ... when the child is crying and disobedient, let the child play games to save trouble. Especially in primary school, the self-control of primary school students has not been established, and parents can cultivate their children's interest in nature, music and art.
Modern society is inseparable from the Internet. Reasonable use of the Internet can bring convenience to our life, make our communication more timely and smooth, and get to know more about the outside world. Therefore, how to guide children to use the internet reasonably and meet their psychological needs properly requires parents to keep pace with the times, change the way they get along with their children, improve the quality of parent-child relationship and keep children away from Internet addiction.
Education means that one soul influences another. It is not terrible for children to be curious and interested in electronic products such as computers and mobile phones. The terrible thing is that parents have not found a good way of education. The following educational ideas for parents' reference, * * * is divided into four points:
1. Limit the game playing time from the beginning.
When children are very young, as long as they see their parents using computers and mobile phones, they will be curious about them. At this time, parents should tell their children the correct use of computers and mobile phones and the disadvantages of using electronic products for a long time. For example, it hurts eyes and affects vision, and playing games before going to bed will affect sleep. Telling these things to children in the bud is far more effective than telling them after their addiction.
Studies have found that when children use computers or mobile phones for more than three hours, they are at risk of addiction. Younger children should not use computers and mobile phones for more than half an hour every day; After primary school, children can control their time within 1-3 hours. When a child develops a relatively fixed time-limited habit from an early age, it is not easy to become addicted.
2. Use computers and mobile phones with children.
The most important thing is to guide children to do something with computers and mobile phones. For example, playing games, we can choose what games to play with children, and choosing an electronic game suitable for children and children is far better than prohibiting children from playing games or being led by others.
Using computers, mobile phones and other electronic products to read news, find information and participate in online tutorials are all strategies that can be taught to children.
Don't let children love nothing but electronic products.
To prevent children from relying too much on electronic products such as computers or mobile phones, it is necessary to cultivate children's more life and hobbies, such as painting, swimming, playing chess and playing ball games. More interesting and irreplaceable interactions and experiences in life can make children have more love in their hearts, and even if they play electronic products, they will not easily become addicted.
Electronic products are substitutes for parents' absence.
In fact, most children rely too much on electronic products because of lack of companionship. When children lack companionship, care and communication, electronic products are "small partners" that make children forget loneliness.
Therefore, as parents, don't start to worry after the inner world of children is completely occupied by electronic products. At this time, it is too late to wake up! Usually spend more time with children, let them get in touch with real life and make their growth more grounded.
Nowadays, children's internet addiction is a common headache, and solving this problem requires the coordinated help of social schools and families. Online games are children's spiritual refuge. In real life, they can't solve the problems of blindness, boredom, loneliness and great pressure, so they have to indulge in the network, escape from reality and look for a sense of existence and accomplishment from the network. Therefore, as educators, we must first find out the reasons, start from the source and prescribe the right medicine; Secondly, give children more education of affection and love, so that students have a warm sense of belonging; Finally, parents should take their children as close to nature as possible and feel the charm of natural life.
Nowadays, the Internet can be said to be an indispensable thing in modern society, and many things can and need to be done through this medium.
To prevent children from indulging in the Internet, it is better to let them know the Internet correctly and use it as a good tool.
Paying attention to a "degree" in everything is too much. First of all, let children have a space to explore themselves freely. Of course, parents should also give appropriate guidance. Absolute indulgence and absolute prohibition are not desirable. Basically, everyone has a limit to everything, and when he explores beyond this limit, he will get bored.
At the same time, the internet makes it easy for people to immerse themselves in virtual time for a long time, so that children can feel more irreplaceable things in the real world, and avoid the situation that children choose to escape or seek comfort and addiction in the network when they encounter some difficulties or pains in the real world.
To prevent children's internet addiction, parents should set an example first. If parents play mobile phones all day, children will be very interested in electronic products over time, especially after playing once or twice, they will not be interested in other things.
In addition, parents should formulate some rules and regulations to accompany their children to surf the Internet, encourage their children to use the Internet reasonably, and restrain their children from playing in the rules.
Why are more and more children addicted to mobile phone computer online games and Internet addiction?
1. In order to prevent children from indulging in mobile phones, many parents have adopted a simple and rude way of receiving mobile phones. What's more, I smashed my mobile phone and hit my child. After the last lap, the child was still addicted to his mobile phone.
2. Some parents don't really understand their children's needs, thinking that meeting their children's material needs is enough. If children don't get the family care they deserve when they grow up, it is easy to develop the problem of mobile phone internet addiction.
Parents are very nervous when they see their children touching their mobile phones to play computer games. They are always worried about their children's internet addiction. Therefore, as soon as they find their children playing games, they use all kinds of extreme methods to stop them from playing games, such as confiscating their mobile phones, setting passwords for computers or stopping their home networks and canceling their pocket money.
Many parents dare not care about their children's addiction to mobile phones and computers. What is the reason?
When parents control the mobile phone computer, children don't get up for school, eat breakfast or eat at noon, and parents are too nervous to sit still. I only have one child. What if I'm hungry? Let's give the mobile phones and computers to the children.
What are the hazards of children's internet addiction and long-term addiction to mobile computer online games?
1. Overuse of the Internet makes teenagers have a strong dependence on the Internet. In particular, the adventure and excitement of online games, the convenience of making friends online, and the * in some unhealthy content in the network will make teenagers form "internet addiction" slowly, thus losing interest in their own life and study, and prone to problems such as lack of perseverance, decline in self-control ability and neglect of their studies.
2, there will be conduct disorders, which will induce teenagers to play truant, not associate with others, have a bad temper, and have offensive behaviors. Some people even slide into the abyss of crime.
3. Online game addicts receive stimulation for a long time during the game, and their attention is highly concentrated. The brain is tired and damaged due to the high-speed operation of the brain, which hinders the brain development of young players. After the game, their minds went blank, their attention could not be concentrated and sustained, and their reaction and memory declined. At the same time, long-term visual image thinking will lead to the slow logical thinking activities of addicts.
What should parents do if their children are addicted to Internet addiction and have been addicted to mobile computer online games for a long time?
1, improve the learning style. Provide children with a rich learning environment and let them contact with different toys, things and friends. In life, let children see more, listen more, move more, ask more and talk more. The freer you learn, the more you can cultivate children's interest in active learning.
2. Let children learn time self-planning. Many people can't extricate themselves when they touch the computer. They used to be addicted to mobile games, and all day long they were pictures of upgrades, tasks and equipment in the game. Teenagers and children have poor self-control. Once they come into contact with computer games, they often forget the time, are unwilling to move, and even reach the state of forgetting to eat and sleep. So later, I forced myself to strictly stipulate the online time. Once it's time to surf the internet, I consciously shut down the internet, both teenagers and children. Parents should help their children and educate them to learn to plan their own timetable.
3. Tell your child that you can surf the Internet. Most parents don't let their children contact the internet when they see that they have Internet addiction, which will easily lead to children's rebellious mentality and confrontation with parents; We should tell our children that surfing the internet is ok, but we need to make rational use of the internet and control the time of surfing the internet every day so as not to affect our study and eyesight.
Three ways to help children get rid of Internet addiction:
The first is unconditional acceptance. When the children have played enough, they will take the initiative to put down the mobile phone network;
The second is to send children to closed internet addiction schools to quit internet addiction;
The third is to help children establish boundaries, let children have boundaries, and use mobile phones and computers.
Why are more and more children addicted to mobile phone computer online games and Internet addiction?
1, children's addiction to WeChat QQ chat affects learning. In this case, parents should teach their children. Let children enjoy the convenience brought by QQ number without indulging in it. For parents, we should not let nature take its course, let alone stand by, because children's self-control and the choice of chat partners should not be overestimated.
Children need to take little risks in the game, in other words, they are not afraid of failure. It doesn't matter if the game fails. One more game is enough, so that the child will fall into a more depressed and brave state. In learning, we will not be given too many opportunities to fail. Failure is failure. He will be under great pressure with the evaluation of classmates, teachers and parents, so in contrast, children will choose the game with the least risk. Games can satisfy their sense of accomplishment.
3. Children lack self-control. In fact, it is often difficult for everyone to control what they are interested in, especially as a child who has not yet grown up. They can play with their favorite toys and things again and again. Playing mobile phones and brushing Tik Tok can make children more interested in the information and things that appear in mobile phones.
Many parents dare not care about their children's addiction to mobile phones and computers. What is the reason?
Some children come back from internet addiction school, which is more like a different person. They think that their parents sent him to prison for several months, and they hate their parents even more. And they can easily make friends with children who take drugs and steal things. They go to the bar to get tattoos every day, and their parents do it without paying them.
What are the hazards of children's internet addiction and long-term addiction to mobile computer online games?
1, affecting children's health. Many students go online hungry, stay up late to get online, and don't even eat. What's more, they are excited by psychological stimulation for a long time, which leads to mental illness and, in severe cases, sudden death.
2. Because online game addicts surf the Internet for a long time, it is very simple to sleep and eat, which is very different from normal people's life rhythm, that is, the life rhythm is disordered, there is no fixed rhythm of sleeping and eating, and the radiation generated by computer screens has an impact on the nervous system, which makes the brain nerve center of addicts highly excited continuously, causing a series of complex biochemical changes in the body, leading to autonomic nerve dysfunction, endocrine disorders, decreased immune function and inducing various diseases. For example, addicts often have symptoms such as headache, dizziness, tinnitus and insomnia.
3. Mental health. For a long time, I chatted online and played online games. Browsing unhealthy and violent content makes minors indulge in illusory environment and unwilling to face real life, resulting in psychological anxiety, bad temper, distorted personality and loss of interest in everything; When parents strictly control, it is easy for children to go to the other extreme, leading to the breakdown of parent-child relationship and crime.
What should parents do if their children are addicted to Internet addiction and have been addicted to mobile computer online games for a long time?
1, reason with children and explain the dangers of being addicted to mobile phones. And set an example, whether it is a father or a mother, when children are addicted to mobile phones, they need to tell them the truth and set an example for them.
For children who are addicted to games, you'd better not directly force them to stop their game addiction life. As parents, we should guide them to the right track from the depths, such as cultivating new interests, and the best thing is exercise.
3. Take time out to spend more time with your children. If there is a kindergarten or a place where children gather and play near home, parents may wish to bring their children. This will allow children to fully feel the fun of playing with other friends of the same age. The reason why children are addicted to playing electronic products is because there is no one to accompany them, or their parents have little company, or even their parents take the initiative to provide their children with "electronic nannies".
Three ways to help children get rid of Internet addiction:
The first is unconditional acceptance. When the children have played enough, they will take the initiative to put down the mobile phone network;
The second is to send children to closed internet addiction schools to quit internet addiction;
The third is to help children establish boundaries, let children have boundaries, and use mobile phones and computers.
Why are more and more children addicted to mobile phone computer online games and Internet addiction?
2. There is no sense of purpose and direction, and learning lacks interest and motivation, which has caused the problem that children are addicted to mobile phone networks.
3. The family learning atmosphere is not strong enough, and parents ignore the creation of family atmosphere, which leads to children's lazy learning attitude and more and more addiction to mobile phones.
Many parents dare not care about their children's addiction to mobile phones and computers. What is the reason?
When many parents nag their children to put down their mobile phones, the children are very angry and even yell at their parents. At this time, parents seem very helpless.
What are the hazards of children's internet addiction and long-term addiction to mobile computer online games?
1, excessive internet access will affect children's normal interpersonal communication. Students who invest too much in virtual networks will gradually lose touch with reality, while real interpersonal relationships will be more and more ignored and indifferent, and they will only live in their own small world.
2. The psychology and behavior of Internet addicts are dominated by the activity of surfing the Internet, and surfing the Internet has also evolved into their main psychological needs. The proportion of time and energy spent surfing the Internet has gradually increased, which has led to the disorder of individual biological clocks. When you can't surf the Internet, you will experience a strong desire, and even have irritability and anxiety and corresponding physiological and behavioral reactions. Things will get better after surfing the internet. Internet is dominant in his life, and his attention and interest are directed at it, which weakens his motivation to work and study and reduces his quality of life.
3. Gradually leave the group. This is also very terrible, if children indulge in the internet every day and lose their normal life. Then, he will wander in the online world, and in real life, there will be fewer and fewer friends.
What should parents do if their children are addicted to Internet addiction and have been addicted to mobile computer online games for a long time?
1. For children who are addicted to games, you'd better not directly force them to stop their game addiction life. As parents, we should guide them to the right track from the depths, such as cultivating new interests, and the best thing is exercise.
2. Spending more time with children means educating children and playing with them. Some parents turn on the TV because they are afraid of their children crying, so as to divert their children's attention and push them to "care" in front of the TV, which makes the emotional distance between the two generations appear, which is irresponsible to the children. Therefore, parents should try their best to find time to play games, walk and visit parks with their children, so as to provide them with a broad space for activities and let them know that there are many interesting things in the world besides TV.
3. Don't blame your child for pursuing perfection. Being too strict with your children will hurt their self-confidence, which is often counterproductive. It is necessary to prevent children from degenerating after being frustrated in real life, easily escaping from the real world and indulging in the Internet.
Three ways to help children get rid of Internet addiction:
The first is unconditional acceptance. When the children have played enough, they will take the initiative to put down the mobile phone network;
The second is to send children to closed internet addiction schools to quit internet addiction;
The third is to help children establish boundaries, let children have boundaries, and use mobile phones and computers.
Now children are the key period to lay the foundation. Lay a good foundation for children and be a happy, sunny and useful person to society. To prevent children from indulging in mobile phones, we should start with the environment, children themselves, parents' education and communication. , and systematically. Parents must help their children get rid of internet addiction as soon as possible and establish the boundary of mobile phone network in order to guide their children to return to school.
How to help children quit Internet addiction for 30 days, the steps to establish the boundaries of mobile phones are as follows:
Week 1 week: Parents should understand the five evolutionary stages of children's addiction to Internet addiction, what are the seven commonly used ways to quit Internet addiction, what are the eight reasons for children's addiction to mobile phones, how to sign an agreement with their children to use mobile phones, and what should they do if they don't hand in their mobile phones in the end? Parents should first understand the whole process.
The second week: when parents want to help their children establish the boundaries of mobile phones, the children make a hullabaloo about, throw things around, threaten not to do homework, go to school, eat, run away from home, and threaten to jump off a building. What are our parents' preventive measures? Parents can't fight an uncertain battle, otherwise tragedy will easily occur.
Week 3: Parents begin to help their children establish the boundaries of mobile phone networks. At this time, the most difficult thing is that the child disagrees. What should I do? That is to say, when we make preparations in the first two weeks, new or unexpected problems will appear. Do parents insist on establishing boundaries or give up because of their children's scolding? This is determined by the parents' mind, and it also needs the guidance and support of professional and experienced teachers. As long as we can take this step, we can cultivate an excellent child with a sense of rules, boundaries and self-discipline.
In the fourth week, parents must help their children consolidate the boundaries of mobile phones and help them quit Internet addiction. Parents can't simply stop it. While establishing the boundaries of mobile phones, we should also guide children's learning goals, learning plans, learning methods and learning motives, improve children's attention, family environment, parent-child relationship and teacher-student relationship. As long as their children regain their self-confidence in learning, improve their academic performance and find a sense of accomplishment, they will no longer be addicted to Internet addiction.
Many parents don't know how to deal with their children's addiction to internet addiction, mainly for several reasons:
First, parents don't know what causes their children to be addicted to mobile Internet addiction.
Second, when parents control their children's internet addiction, they are afraid of their children's various noises and tempers.
Third, parents watch too many reports and videos of children jumping off buildings on the Internet because of mobile phone networks, fearing that their children will embark on this path.
Fourth, too many experts and teachers on the Internet say that they should unconditionally accept children's use of the Internet. When children have had enough fun, they will take the initiative to put down their mobile phones for online learning.
In fact, every parent knows that everything we do has boundaries, especially now that the Internet is so tempting, it is too difficult for a minor child to have such good self-control, so parents still need to help their children quit Internet addiction and establish the boundaries of mobile phone networks.
How to help children quit internet addiction within 30 days, establish the boundaries of mobile phones, and improve rebellious psychology and weariness of learning? Welcome to discuss and communicate.