How to date a girl

How to date a girl. Dating is a process of getting to know each other and understanding each other. Therefore, boys must find ways to leave a good impression on each other during a date. Only in this way can there be subsequent development. The following will share with you how to date a girl. Come and take a look at how to date a girl 1

1. Create interesting and exciting conversations.

Don’t spend too much money on unknown girls. For example, you strike up a conversation with a girl in the supermarket. Under the premise that you are relatively familiar with the conversation. You can jokingly tell her that if you like me, you can let me cook, because you may not be particularly familiar with her, so she may be surprised. You can take it as surprise that you know she can't cook, and then you can say that many girls nowadays can't cook, that's fine. These are all great words to bring people closer together. Then the topic can quickly change to having fun chatting with you. As he was leaving, he turned around and asked her, "Hey, can you add me on WeChat?" Next, when I go back, I will send a message saying that I was very happy to meet you in the supermarket. Then give him the rice you cooked. Of course, cooking is just a small topic for chatting. Don’t focus on this topic every day. The topic still needs to be explored more and you have to play hard to get.

The premise for a girl to like someone is always because she is attracted, otherwise how could it be possible? Therefore, brothers who want to be single should work on their own attractiveness instead of kneeling down to please. A few months ago, I read a book on picking up girls—The Secret Technique of Picking Up Girls by a Stupid Boy

, and then I realized how important attraction is to picking up girls. Then I followed the instructions in it. The method is to completely build your own attractiveness. So far, I have successfully won 4 beautiful girls. In fact, I am a bit greedy. Now I am struggling with which one to choose! Brothers who are still single, I suggest you read it and study it. There are e-books online.

2. Grasping the heart

Grasping the heart is still crucial. Many tips and tricks for courting girls on the Internet are to strengthen the skills and methods of courting girls who look outside. For example, how to post to Moments and how to improve the appearance of photos? How to play hard to get and so on. In addition, we should also improve our inner self.

That is a difficult point in construction. Many people have difficulty analyzing operations because of a lack of knowledge and skills.

For example, I once knew a beautiful girl. I have always believed that girls with good looks are more attractive. Then my view at the time was: If I don't communicate with her face to face, then I don't know what she likes at all. So after thinking about it. I decided to ask her to have afternoon tea at Pizza Hut

. I wanted to prove with this afternoon tea that it’s more than just a pretty face that’s attractive. And my living expenses are limited, so I can't treat her to a big meal. But by accident, I felt that afternoon tea was more effective than a dinner date. This way you won't appear too eager, and you can learn more about the girls' interests and needs.

Attitude is very important. We must be calm and not be too eager. If a girl knows that you are not too naive to ask out, then she will not pay too much attention to you.

So what should I do? First of all, making an appointment for afternoon tea is an invitation. How should we make an appointment so that it doesn’t appear to be a deliberate appointment? You can say that you heard that Pizza Hut's snacks are great, do you want to try them with me? What you need to show is that you want to go instead of specifically asking him to go. Then when I pay the bill, it is just out of politeness, not to give other signals, such as that I am spending money to invite you to accompany me. Then there are art galleries to feel the atmosphere of art. You can also take her to the park for a walk or run to relax. Of course, if you have the opportunity, it is also a good choice to go shopping with her. You can also bring her with you when you get together with friends, so that she will feel that you are serious about her.

In fact, if we don’t really become boyfriend and girlfriend, we can’t act too deliberately when dating a girl. Always making an appointment to go out for dinner would seem too direct. A date does not necessarily have to be a meal date. We can do some other activities, such as afternoon tea, watching art exhibitions, walking, etc., are all good. I hope you can take good care of it and come on. How to date girls 2

Invite girls in advance

If you want to leave a good impression on girls on a date, you must send out invitations in advance and don’t ask girls out suddenly.

It is recommended to make an appointment with a girl three days in advance so that the girl can be prepared and free up time.

Watching a movie

When dating a girl, you can choose to go on a date in the afternoon, which will allow you to spend more time together. At the same time, you can also watch a movie before going on a date in the afternoon to learn about it in advance. Understand the girls’ preferences, and then choose the movies to watch based on the girls’ preferences. If you are not sure, just choose the more popular movies. At the same time, many theaters now have couples’ seats, which can be purchased in advance.

Eat

After watching the movie, if the other party has no intention of leaving, then you can ask the girl to have a meal. As for what to eat, it is best to think about it in advance. Okay, I suggest that if it is your first date, it is not recommended to go to the buffet or hot pot. It is best to choose a Western food. Make a reservation in advance and don't let girls wait in line at the door with you.

Walking and shopping

After dinner, you can ask a girl to go for a walk to eat or go shopping. This will allow you to spend more time together and get to know each other better.

Separate

During the date, if the girl intends to leave, then you have to send the girl to a nearby station and get the girl on the bus. How to date a girl 3

Part 1. Show your best self

1. Show confidence. One of the most attractive qualities when dating is confidence. If you seem to be in good condition in all aspects, such as being active in various activities, making friends, having your own ideas and long-term goals, then a girl will be interested in you.

Confidence can come from many sources. You don't have to be a basketball star to attract girls, just be involved in activities that bring out the best in you. What activities make you shine?

There is a big difference between confidence and arrogance. A confident person is admired not only for his talent, but also for his grace and humility. If you are confident, there is no need to brag about yourself.

2. Sincerely. Don't pretend to be someone you are not, girls can see right through you. There's nothing wrong with researching a girl's favorite bands so you have something to talk about. But don't pretend you know how to play guitar (unless you're going to play a song for her right away). Be true to yourself, you don’t need to lie.

3. Present yourself appropriately. Every girl has different preferences or types of boys, but don't worry too much. Don’t try to wear all the latest trends. You must dress appropriately for the occasion, such as not wearing a sleeveless shirt to a martini bar. Don't wear too much perfume. If you show up to a party wearing what suits you best, and as long as you feel confident, you will naturally act confident, and the girl you want to impress will probably forget about your original type.

Part 2. Get to know her better

1. Don’t pay too much attention to appearance. Everyone loves receiving compliments, especially when they've obviously dressed up to look good. However, don't let appearance become the main talking point. Give the girl you want to date a chance to discover a side of her that goes beyond cute dresses and heels.

When you are trying to date a girl, especially avoid making sexual comments about her appearance. Instead, you should make tasteful comments about her clothes, hair, or smile.

2. Be a sincere conversationalist. Avoid using cheesy pick-up lines as they may sound insincere. When talking to a girl, speak your mind. When she responds, don't just pretend to listen, but really listen and then continue the conversation sincerely.

Of course, the content of the conversation should fit the context. If you're in a noisy bar, the girl you're talking to may not be interested in discussing personal or philosophical topics. But you can still have meaningful conversations about the music, the people around you, or the feeling of the night to let her know you enjoyed your time with her.

3. Make her feel comfortable. If you've just met a girl and want to ask her out on a date, you first need to make her feel comfortable being herself with you. Appreciate her quirks and unique qualities and try not to judge.

If you say something critical, even if it's just a joke, it could create a misunderstanding and she may not want to talk to you again.

Ask questions and offer your own opinions to let her know that you are listening and paying attention to everything she says.

Make some jokes and keep the atmosphere fun, but avoid making fun of the girl, her friends, family, or anything that might hurt her feelings early in the date.

Part 3. Be a date expert

1. Work hard for the first date. Take her somewhere special. The place you go on your date doesn't have to be expensive, but it does have to be obvious that you put some thought into choosing the location. Share your favorite restaurant with her or take her to a beautiful scenic spot for a picnic. If you know she likes a certain team, buy tickets and watch the team play with her.

2. Don’t be too nervous. Don’t get too focused on scheduling the appointment. Instead, try to truly enjoy the process and get to know the person you recently met. Think about it, you need to know everything about her just as much as she needs to know everything about you. If you enjoy her company now, there's a good chance she'll enjoy your company too.

3. Physical contact. Physical touch can increase the intimacy you feel with your date, such as putting your hand on her back while waiting in line to buy tickets, or holding hands on the way home from a movie or dinner. However, you need to make sure that this is done with the consent of both parties.

Part 4. Be a reliable person

1. Do what you say you will do. If you say you will call her, then you must remember to do so. If you promised to call her on the first date, contact her within a few days.

If you think carefully about the date and you are no longer interested in the girl, you must treat her politely and tell her frankly that you think it is impossible for the two of you to develop a deeper relationship.

If you want to continue the relationship, don't play hard to get. Maintain consistent communication.

2. Introduce her to your friends. After a few dates, if you want to get to know the other person better, you can introduce the girl you are interested in to your friends. If she connects with your friends, you might be inspired to take her a step further.

3. Create surprises. It's important to keep dating consistently, but you should also throw in a few romantic surprises from time to time. The so-called surprise depends on the girl's personality. Maybe she likes you to cook her a dinner, send flowers to her company or plan a fun-filled weekend trip. Sometimes, if you change the way you date, the girl will be impressed by your thoughtfulness.