Because I am quite busy at work and have many things at home, I may have had 3 nannies and 4 part-time aunts, each with their own characteristics and methods of doing things.

The one who does the best job may be the current aunt, but her speaking skills are a bit obvious.

In fact, employers all like aunts who have a bright eye, talk less, don’t gossip and make few demands.

My dad said that finding a good aunt is more difficult than finding a husband, which does mean something like that.

The aunt I hired before may be really average in her work, but she is not as talkative as this aunt. But "too much talk will lead to mistakes", and sometimes people can see their inner intentions when they talk too much.

Maybe it works for her to brainwash other employers, but it doesn’t work for me. As a picky and structured Scorpio woman, I don’t like to be fucked the most.

This set of rules has worked well for her with the old man, but it doesn’t work for me.

1. Like to compare

On the first day she came here, she liked to tell me that her hourly rate at her previous employer’s house was five yuan higher than that at my house, but the hours at my house were longer. Would rather work at my house.

I do the grocery shopping on a daily basis, and she likes to comment on which vegetables are good, which vegetables and meats her employer buys are delicious, and she says the meat I buy is not delicious.

Even the rice is required. I personally prefer Thai fragrant rice. She told me more than once that the neighbor’s Wuchang rice is so delicious that people can’t stop eating it.

Although I later switched to the rice she suggested, I felt a little uncomfortable because she tried to guide me to buy ingredients that she thought were good too many times.

2. Express that she uses the product well at home, implying that her employer will also give her the same type of product

She complained about my mop bucket countless times, and later changed it to a mop bucket. She didn't talk so much after the floor covering, but she often expressed that she also uses a certain brand of good products at home.

In addition, she took a fancy to the medicine my mother took and my mother-in-law's pajamas and asked them to transfer money to buy them.

I don’t like this kind of blurring of boundaries. I’m not paying you tens of dollars an hour to make friends. We are just an employer. Please don’t ask too much.

3. I like to chat and output wildly while working

I am a person who doesn’t like to talk much after get off work. If I want to talk, I just talk to my children.

I just want to take a rest when I go home, read a book, listen to music, and play cards with the children.

But she may like to chat. I was told before that my employer from another company is very nice and I like to chat with her after get off work every day.

Perhaps my personality is relatively aloof. Apart from our housework exchanges, I can’t think of anything else to talk about.

I also told her not to tell me about my neighbor’s affairs, I’m not interested, and please don’t tell my neighbor about my family’s affairs. This is the minimum professional ethics of being an aunt. Although there is nothing shameful about anyone, I don’t like to reveal my family’s whereabouts, behaviors, and daily life.

4. Summarize things done but also take credit.

This is an advantage in the workplace.

Housework is always done in an invisible place. Sometimes you wash the floor mats or sweep the bottom of the sofa, but you may not be able to see it.

She would take the initiative to tell me, "I saw...it was very dirty today, so I washed it very clean."

"I fucked under the sofa for a long time today. It was really dirty." It’s very clean. If you don’t believe me, take a look.”

“The handle I used to buy the detergent you bought today was corroded. It hurt, but I still insisted on finishing it.”

Of course it happened. In this case, she just wants to be "seen", and I would highly approve of it.

Compared with the previous aunt who couldn’t say anything, it is actually a good thing that she is good at expressing herself and can communicate well.

This is what my leaders have always taught me. When you do something, you must learn to summarize it and output it upwards, otherwise you may not be able to see it.

We should learn this from her.

Of course, the encounter between people is one in seven billion fate.

I am also very grateful to every aunt who has taken care of my children. No one is perfect, and life is full of flowers and trees.

Be kind to the people and things around you. These aunts are all passers-by in a long life. We help each other and we have gone through this short period of time together.