Instead of racking their brains to purify the environment, it is better to cultivate children's ability to think independently and deal with people, which is a good educational power source for children's adaptability, flexibility and adaptability. Also, even what parents call "Xiong Haizi" has its own advantages. Teaching children the ability to think independently, distinguish right from wrong and get along with others is also a kind of growth and progress. Judging from the description of the subject, hasn't the child become more lively and outgoing and no longer addicted to games?
But most parents in China are different. Children are everything, first. Many parents in China are willing to give everything unconditionally for their children. For example, we often say that children must be allowed to do whatever they want. Most parents in the west will never sell iron pots and spend all their money on sending their children to schools that don't match their economic ability. Children will consciously choose low-level universities with low tuition fees according to their own economic strength.
At the same time, under the background of the only child, China has formed a "very 6+ 1" family education environment, which indulges children too much except for study and completely loses basic upbringing and rules. Xiong Haizi and the disadvantaged generation. In this context, parents should be more cautious in making friends with their children, and don't make friends with their children without principles and premises.
The relationship between children and parents is always one of social relations, and it is also a part of our relationship with other members of society. In this relationship, parents have the responsibility of taking care of their children, guardianship and education. As the saying goes, "children are not the father's fault." Therefore, parents have the right and responsibility to take various measures to fulfill their parenting responsibilities, including punishment. The relationship and orientation between parents and children cannot be equal, but there are naturally differences, even high and low. Absolute respect for parents is a matter of course in any country, and will not be respected or disrespected because what parents say is right or wrong. This is actually the epitome and refinement of social relations, such as respecting the old and loving the young, respecting the inferior and so on.
Of course, I don't emphasize unconditional obedience to my elders, I emphasize respect, which is different. We can disobey, but we must respect unconditionally. On some occasions, respect often means listening, even if it is wrong. We often say that for the elderly, it is not necessary to distinguish right from wrong, as long as they are happy. That's why. What's more, for young or even young children, it is difficult to understand the complexity of society, and they can only tell the explicit truth, but they don't know if they are wrong.