Your boyfriend installed these softwares, and it is obviously the inviter's, and he definitely wants to meet and have sex instead of just chatting.

You can directly ask him what he wants to do with these softwares and warn him to break up as soon as he cheats. Don't give him room for bargaining, lest he push his luck.

If the relationship can't be maintained, there is no need to force it. Break up when it is time to break up.