Adolescence is a relatively carefree age, and adolescent children may have developed ignorance of the opposite sex. When we look at the students around us who have already started puppy love, most people think we should keep up with the pace. Moreover, puppy love has an impact on the mental health of adolescent children. How to deal with adolescent differences?

1 is broad but not narrow in the scope of transmission. Love is exclusive, but friendship is inclusive, so we should make extensive contacts.

2 in terms of spread, it is shallow but not deep. A faint friendship means not asking for anything, not expecting too much emotional contribution from the other party, and not asking for a single deep friendship. Because in middle school, all aspects are still unstable, and the understanding of things is still superficial, and it is constantly changing with the change of one's status. If the feelings are deeply involved, once they are interrupted, they will bring great harm to themselves.

3 communication, sparse and not far away. Sparse means keeping a certain distance between two people; Not far is to be friendly and easy-going in communication, and not to give people a feeling of arrogance and inaccessibility.

In a relationship, be energetic but not depressed. Energetic, that is, communication can give people energetic and positive motivation, and can promote people's determination, virtue and learning. Decadence is decadence, that is, depression and indulgence.

In the emotional interaction, I am happy but not crazy. There are good criteria for middle school students to choose friends, but the mentality they need to grasp is to make friends and establish healthy friendship, rather than being infatuated with "lovers".

Adolescent feelings usually don't blossom and bear fruit. On the contrary, after puppy love, adolescent children will be hurt internally, their studies will be affected, and even their mood will change. Therefore, adolescence must correctly handle heterosexual relationships and don't let yourself get hurt.