Personally, I think that Zhai Xinxin and Su Xiangmao are both in good condition in the current Beijing marriage market. Su Xiangmao owns a house, has a high income, and owns his own startup company, which looks very promising. After all, in secular concepts, male wealth is an important condition in marriage and love. If a person is rich, he has a higher chance of finding a good-looking spouse. However, money alone may only attract superficial and vain women, but Su is different from the rich second generation. As an entrepreneur, I believe there will be people who admire him for his talent. His ideal partner (perhaps also the ideal partner for most men) should be beautiful (a necessary condition), smart (matching his coder IQ and conducive to the IQ of future generations), gentle and cute, and with good family conditions (high probability A graceful and well-educated girl.

Zhai Xinxin looks like such a girl. She is beautiful, young (reported age, actual age is unknown), has a 211 double first-class master's degree in science and engineering, her parents are intellectuals, gentle and lovely.

In the subsequent relationship, when Su learned that Zhai Xinxin owned a villa under his own name, the balance between the two was broken. It is a lie to say that men don't mind women's financial conditions. The number of women who want to get into positions by becoming a son-in-law is probably more than the number of women who want to marry into wealthy families, expensive cars and BMWs. Su Xiangmao does not covet women's wealth, but falling in love with a rich lady at least shows one problem, and this problem is often the deepest fear of rich men, that is, she is not with you for money. , because she is rich enough on her own.

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Zhai Xinxin’s villa is an important thing, just like the million-pound note. Positioned one's worth. There is value here, whether to treat you to a meal or give a gift, you have to weigh it up at what level it should be.

So, there was that Tesla.

We are still looking at the Huotu Mountain period, and discuss the Jiu Bao Ji Hua in addition to the state of ginseng iron.

For Zhai Xinxin, this man was unusually generous. Given such a generous gift as soon as we met, it seems that we can expect more.

The same kind of plus moon has been treated by Tubu Inspection Committee, and the number is suitable for iron.

Su Xiangmao also has flaws. The most superficial thing is that his appearance is not outstanding and his height does not meet mainstream standards. It would be a lie to say that women don’t mind men’s appearance. When a woman buys a laptop, she has to choose its appearance, not to mention a living person that may have a longer shelf life. Without his financial background as an endorsement, but relying on photos, the passing rate among women will not be too high. The same must be true for Zhai Xinxin. However, Tesla once again broke the balance. It seemed that his various shortcomings could be made up for by his generosity and abundance.

Then it seemed like a good time passed, buying a house in Hainan, meeting her parents...

Later, Su Xiangmao discovered Zhai Xinxin’s flaw: her marriage history. He hesitated, but thinking of his sunk costs... From then on, the veil of their relationship was torn apart. Su was eager to get historical information about her, so Zhai Xinxin asked him to pay a financial price for the information. After checking his credit, his suspicions deepened and he became more uncertain about the marriage, which aroused Zhai Xinxin's dissatisfaction. According to Tesla's routine, this dissatisfaction had to be compensated with money. Su's investment became more and more intense, it became more difficult to escape, and her attitude became worse and worse.

In fact, Su Xiangmao felt cheated, and Zhai Xinxin also felt cheated. Tesla made her have a lot of illusions about Su Xiangmao's financial strength, but then she found that was not the case. He only has one property located outside the North Fifth Ring Road. Although that house is also very good, it is far worse than what she expected. At least, it should be better than her own house, right? Moreover, his cash ability was not as strong as she imagined, and he could only raise six million. Moreover, her "five-star boyfriend" image when they first got along also collapsed, and she behaved badly when she met her parents. Everything made Zhai Xinxin feel like she was at a disadvantage. What to do, she could only ask for more money to make up for her losses.

In the beginning, both of them tried to live a good life together. Needless to say about Su, as for Zhai Xinxin, I came to this conclusion through one detail. In the WeChat conversation between the two, Zhai Xinxin expressed objections to Su's financial support to his family many times.

This is clearly the position of a bad wife, a person whose goal is to deceive her into getting married. She plans to leave after the deception, and will take care of things like one hundred thousand or two hundred thousand a year to give to your family, which will not affect the core subject matter.

In the end, Su is of course the biggest loser. Zhai Xinxin also suffered heavy losses. She may not be able to keep the money she asked for, and she also became infamous. One thing is for sure, although Su Xiangmao dissatisfied her, the people she meets will only be worse than this.

So, what should you do if you meet someone like Zhai Xinxin?

Precautions should be taken before meeting this person. First of all, when looking for a partner, don't exaggerate your conditions, report your height truthfully, and don't show off your wealth everywhere. You won't attract people with bad intentions. Then, when inviting people to dinner and giving gifts, they must be consistent with your own strength. Don't try to impress others. Otherwise, you will whet the appetite of others and you will not be able to maintain the standards in the future, but you will be considered a liar. Finally, when you find that the opponent's path is wrong, you must cut off your strength and be brave enough to stop the loss, so as to avoid getting stuck in the mud and being doomed.