1. Students' interpersonal communication is generally good, and the proportion of people who have trouble with interpersonal communication is relatively normal.
The survey shows that the students in the College of Education have good interpersonal skills, but there are also some problems worthy of attention. According to the investigation and analysis, 64.7% students have strong communication skills and less trouble getting along with friends. 23.5% students have some problems in getting along with friends. However, there are still 1 1.8% students who are seriously troubled by friends' behavior. Through the analysis of these data, we can see that the interpersonal communication situation of contemporary college students is not very optimistic, so we should pay attention to improving their interpersonal communication ability. Interpersonal communication is extremely important in college students' life, so the results of this survey are not ideal. We should strive to improve their communicative competence and quality, and schools should also carry out more extracurricular activities to give students more opportunities to interact and exercise with others.
2. Students are troubled in conversation and can't express their feelings on their own initiative.
According to the survey, 3.92% students are not good at talking, 465,438+0.2% students have average speaking ability, and 54.9% students have high speaking ability and skills. The main problem of students in conversation is that they often avoid expressing their feelings, accounting for 27.6%, and 2 1.6% are speechless about their troubles. It can be seen that students will have some troubles when talking about their own problems, and it is difficult to express their thoughts and feelings, and it is difficult to express their troubles. However, unfamiliar people often feel uncomfortable when they confide their life experiences to gain sympathy, accounting for 2 1.6%. These data show that modern college students have some problems in conversation. This also reflects a drawback of our modern university education, which pays too much attention to learning and ignores the cultivation of students' communicative and conversational skills, so many students are not strong in this respect, which also directly affects a student's interpersonal skills and skills.
In addition, many students often feel lonely when they are with everyone, and 65,438+03.7% students find it difficult to keep talking, which shows that modern students lack conversation skills, can't express themselves correctly in communication, and feel lonely and can't communicate with others well. There are still 49% students who can't listen patiently when they are not interested in other people's words, and 1 1.8% students can't listen to all kinds of opinions and opinions widely, which shows that students lack skills in listening, and those who can't listen also have great troubles in communication and can't deal with communication problems better. From the overall data, the interpersonal communication of college students is a problem that needs attention, and the conversation ability of contemporary college students needs to be greatly improved.
3. Students' communication and making friends are not optimistic, and their communication ability needs to be improved.
Communication and making friends are very important in college students' life. The survey shows that 5.88% of students are troubled by their behavior in communication and making friends, 33.3% are passive in communication and making friends, and only 60.8% are sincere and enthusiastic, which reflects that the situation of contemporary college students in communication and making friends is not very good. Data analysis shows that 39.2% students are worried about what others will think of them when making friends with others, 33.3% students feel uncomfortable when meeting strangers, and 23.5% students can't update their appearance, which shows that students are not confident when interacting with others, worried about their image, and worried that they will not perform well in front of others and can't play their communication skills. The most important thing in interpersonal communication is self-confidence, so students' communicative psychology should also be exercised and improved. 2 1.6% students feel nervous in social situations, and 3.9% students feel extremely embarrassed, which reflects some problems existing in the social process of college students. Some students obviously can't adapt to social occasions, and can't express themselves and play themselves in social activities. Moreover, 13.7% students feel that no one can complain, which reflects the problems of college students in making friends. They don't have reliable people to talk about their troubles, and most people with serious communication problems can't vent their pain to others, and they can't get correct guidance and comfort. Generally speaking, college students have more friends and people to talk to, but according to the survey data, the situation is not optimistic, reflecting students' lack of communication skills. Therefore, students' communication and making friends must be taken seriously.
4. The degree of trouble for students to associate with friends of the opposite sex.
As a mature college student in adolescence, communication with the opposite sex is very important. However, according to the investigation and analysis, 5.88% students have serious troubles in communicating with friends of the opposite sex, 2 1.6% students have general troubles in communicating with friends of the opposite sex, and 72.5% students know how to correctly handle the relationship with classmates and friends of the opposite sex.
Data analysis shows that 15.7% students have little contact with the opposite sex, 17.6% students don't know how to get along with the opposite sex better, and 7.8% students feel uncomfortable with the opposite sex, which reflects that college students have some problems in contact with the opposite sex. As a college student who wants to mature and transition in adolescence, he is very attractive to the opposite sex, but students feel that there is too little contact with the opposite sex. It reflects the negative influence of early educational thought, that is, students should pay more attention to learning and not to fall in love early. Students regard communication with the opposite sex as a trend of puppy love, so they tend to avoid intimate communication with the opposite sex, so they lack experience in communication with the opposite sex. Moreover, some college students are mysterious and curious about the opposite sex, so they are estranged from the feelings of the opposite sex and cannot correctly handle the problem of communication with the opposite sex.
Through the investigation of college students' interpersonal relationship, we can see the advantages and disadvantages of college students' interpersonal communication, understand their interpersonal psychology and existing problems, and realize some measures we should take to deal with college students' interpersonal problems. Generally speaking, students have good interpersonal skills and skills, and can correctly handle communication problems. Comprehensive analysis shows that there are still some problems in college students' interpersonal communication. Interpersonal communication is very important to everyone, especially contemporary college students. Society should create a good environment for middle school students and pay attention to their interpersonal problems.