When men and women get along, women often call men brothers, which is sweet and close, and usually makes men soft in an instant. However, men don't have to get excited too early. If a woman often calls a friend of the opposite sex a brother, it is likely to contain a certain category and can't get along lightly. In fact, when a woman calls a man "brother", she also has some ambiguous elements in it, which is the easiest for a man to reduce his guard.
Many men are excited when they see a woman calling her brother. They feel that they can be ambiguous and develop into lovers, killing two birds with one stone. However, if a woman doesn't really want to get along with you, but has a strong purpose, it is likely to cause you to damage many costs, such as time, time and energy, economic development and so on. Therefore, what is the idea of a woman calling you "brother"? Men still have to find out, in case they blindly follow suit in their feelings. Generally speaking, women call you "brother" for three purposes, but they dare not admit it. I want to develop you into a boyfriend's best friend and fill her emotional vacancy
Women not only have expectations for feelings, but also have great hopes for heterosexual friendship, which is higher than ordinary friends, but not related to love, which makes women very excited. Therefore, when they get along with men, if they feel that they can chat with you and have a tacit understanding with each other, they want to develop you into a male best friend.
In the eyes of women, male girlfriends are more intimate than those of the opposite sex, but they don't develop into love, so it looks vague and feels romantic. Moreover, women always have emotional vacancies, and at this time they can find male girlfriends to accompany themselves in case of inner loneliness. Especially these women who are away from their boyfriends or husbands, love to let male girlfriends replace the other half to fill their emotional vacancies.
Miss Wang, a friend, has made a man's best friend. She has been together for three years, and the couple had a close influence before. At that time, not long after we met, Miss Wang felt that she hit it off with her boyfriend, but she already had a boyfriend, so it was not easy for her to develop further with him. However, Miss Wang intends to develop him into a confidant of the opposite sex, so she calls him "brother" affectionately, expecting two people to be girlfriends.
That's it. Miss Wang has always called her boyfriend her brother, and they have good feelings for each other. Whenever her boyfriend is not around, she will definitely find a boyfriend to amuse herself. Two people eat together, watch movies together, go shopping together, and go out to play together, which fills up the lack of inner feelings to a great extent. Therefore, a woman actively calls you brother, probably because she wants to develop heterosexual friendship with you and let you be her boyfriend's best friend, thus giving them more emotional waiting. Second, I want to attract your attention and get benefits from you.
A woman calls your brother for a practical purpose, which is to attract your attention, reduce your vigilance and get benefits from you. This kind of woman, on the surface, is your brother and sister, but in fact, she regards you as a spare tire, expecting you to invest in them, whether in feelings or in economic development. When they get along with you, they will be very gentle and talk sweetly, which can really melt your heart.
once you confirm this sister, you will easily fall into the emotional trap without being on your guard. After they get to know you, they will find many excuses, either asking you to pay for their consumers or asking you to give gifts and red envelopes. Even, there are some women who call you brother affectionately, but they have already regarded you as "most of the blame" in their hearts, and it is very likely that they will continue to ask you for loans, which will make you invest a lot of marginal benefits.
Therefore, when a man meets a woman calling you brother, don't be too careless. You feel that you have made a pure sister. In fact, she is likely to regard you as a completely free ATM. You are not easy to have all the influence in her heart, and it is not easy to talk to you when she doesn't need you. Once they have the need, they will ask you out. For example, if they have difficulties, especially in the case of high consumption, they will be more gentle and infatuated with you, so that you have no reason to invest.
Generally speaking, women don't call their friends of the opposite sex brothers. If they are not really tempted, they won't be able to get in touch with you at all. Therefore, when a woman actively calls your brother and intends to develop a further marriage relationship with you, it is likely that there is another plan. Don't neglect it. Their immediate purpose is to ask for money from you. If you meet them, you'd better avoid them. Third, I really like you, using the name of my brother as an excuse
If a woman calls you brother, there is a real purpose, that is, she really likes you, but she can't show it well, and she doesn't understand your mind, so she uses "brother" as an excuse. At this time, she has an excuse to ask you out, and she doesn't have to worry about being rejected by you, let alone that others will make irresponsible remarks. In the case of getting along with you, she will constantly test you to see if you like her, too. If you have a good impression on her and want to develop further, she will be very happy inside.
So, she will deliberately let you have a lot of hints, hoping that you will actively poke the window paper, and then successfully determine the relationship. On the other hand, you have no deep meaning to get along with her, and she will not expect anything. Instead, she will be your sister and brother again and always want your care, which will not harm her.
This is the case with my friend Miss Shen. When she likes her boyfriend, she is too shy to tell. What's more, she had a wrong relationship before, and she was worried about being hurt in her feelings and getting along with her boyfriend rashly. So, she deliberately tested her boyfriend, and in the case of communication, she kept calling his brother, which was very sweet. After listening to this, my boyfriend looks very happy and intends to develop a closer relationship with him, paying special attention to her and being considerate.
In daily life, her boyfriend always protects her and considers everything for him, and her feelings completely exceed those of the general opposite sex. As a result, Miss Shen is optimistic about her boyfriend's liking for herself, which implies that he will pursue perfection and constantly provide opportunities for him. Finally, her boyfriend confessed in a tryst, and the two quickly became lovers. Therefore, if a woman calls you brother, it may be that she likes it very much, but she is not very active and worried about being missed, so it implies that you should pursue perfection. If you treat her sincerely, she will be with you. Conclusion:
To sum up, most women call you "brother" for these three purposes, but they dare not admit it. I want to develop you into a male girlfriend and fill her emotional vacancy; Want to attract your attention and get benefits from you; I really like you, using the name of my brother as an excuse.
When a man gets along with a woman, he must find out her real purpose and how to prevent blindly following suit. If you find that a woman is not sincere and has a certain plan for you, you can't get entangled. Why not avoid it as soon as possible? Naturally, if you find that women really like you, you need to seize the opportunity. If you sincerely pursue perfection, you will surely get a perfect love. In a word, if you fully understand the deep meaning of "brother", you can clearly understand the woman's thoughts, so that you can advance and retreat.