The obvious characteristics of this period. Physically mature, they began to have a sense of self-independence, became a little dissatisfied with the discipline of teachers and parents, and even rebelled. They are eager to get rid of the big

People's constraints, solve problems independently, and handle things. However, the lag of psychological development makes them look at the problem incompletely and somewhat naive in some behaviors. Some don't even have enough ability to distinguish right from wrong.

And self-control. Therefore, it is necessary to carry out adolescent education among students.

What happened in class recently is really a headache. That Monday, as usual, I came to the classroom early and looked around.

"Teacher, someone is looking for you!"

Just wondering, a parent's figure came into view. "Miss Wu, you help me manage it! My Zhang Yong (pseudonym) stayed in the Internet cafe all night yesterday and didn't come back. This situation has been going on for several days. I really have no choice. He also asked me not to tell the teacher that if I did, I wouldn't go to school. ……"

"Of course not, this is his fault first. Don't worry, wait for me to tell him! "

"Teacher, thank you! Or do you say he is more useful, ... "

After my parents left, I called Zhang Yong to the office to talk.

"Zhang Yong, let's get down to business directly. Tell me about your surfing the internet during this time! How many times have I been there? How long have I been playing games, movies and so on? Make it clear! " I said angrily.

After a moment of silence, Zhang Yong murmured in a low voice. "What's loud! Make it clear Dare to do it! "

"Just a few times." Zhang Yong whispered.

"How many times!"

Zhang (surname)

Forever muttered without making it clear. "What's louder!" See no improvement, I also don't have the patience to continue with his consumption, "forget it! If you can't say clearly, then write clearly! Here are pens and paper. Take it and sit here and write. Write it to me in detail.

Yes From the first time I went to the Internet cafe, you know, including how many times I went, which Internet cafe I went to each time, what I played, and so on. "Say that finish, Zhang Yong writing at my desk.

origin

Come on, Zhang Yong started surfing the Internet in the summer vacation of sixth grade. The first time was when the landlord's son took him into the Internet cafe to play games. The last few times were brought in by the landlord's son. I don't know when he went in and out of the net alone.

All right. Since then, it has been out of control and the number of visits has increased. Up to now, in less than a month this semester, I have been there more than ten times, and sometimes even stayed up all night, obviously showing signs of internet addiction. Friends need to be cautious.

-cautiously making friends with classmates-classmates' theme class meeting. If it is not controlled, the consequences will be unimaginable. To this end, I asked him to write a letter of guarantee and help him make a recent study plan. I hope he can stop here.

exist

In this class, there are not a few people who have been to Internet cafes like Zhang Yong, but there are not a few people who are addicted to the Internet like him. This is of course directly related to his family education. I grew up with my grandparents.

Sorry, parents seldom discipline. In the process of growing up, I made some so-called "good buddies", playing ball, surfing the Internet, smoking, chasing girls and fighting in groups. Over time, learning is inevitable.

Some bad habits. Marx once pointed out: "A person's development depends on the development of all other people who interact with him directly or indirectly." In other words, what kind of friends you make is good for your physical and mental health and development in the future.

Play a very important role. I think if Zhang Yong had known how to choose his friends correctly earlier, maybe this would not have happened. Of course, Zhang Yong is not the only one who has a misunderstanding about making friends. With the development of society, children's spare time

From simple traditional leisure ways such as reading, watching TV and exercising, it has developed into modern leisure ways such as surfing the Internet, traveling and social practice, and has extended its reach to all parts of the country and even the world. Therefore, children

There are wider ways to make friends, such as QQ friends. However, due to their immaturity and lack of social experience and discrimination, they are prone to some bad phenomena when choosing friends. For example, some children make friends just for each other's home.

If you have money, you can eat, drink and be merry; Some children only look at each other's strength and make friends in order not to be bullied; Others are lazy to study and always want to copy other people's homework and make friends. Therefore, how to correct it?

Choosing friends is an urgent problem for our class.