Text/Sen Xiaonan

There is a saying: "A thousand people smiling at you is far less important than one person understanding you."

I think this sentence What you say is very good. You don’t need to be friends with everyone. You don’t need to have many close friends. It’s good to have one or two people who understand you.

Entering college, you face complex interpersonal relationships, especially the dormitory relationship you face first. I suddenly discovered that dormitory relationships in college are far from as simple as middle school and high school.

My principle of making friends is that I will never deliberately establish a good relationship with someone. I just let everything happen and make friends as I please. Without any purpose or interest, I just want to be simple and pure.

If you can’t meet any good friends in college, it’s better to be alone. This is my true thought and my principle. I don’t talk to people casually, nor do I look for someone to partner up with just to have someone to eat and study with me. Aren't they plastic sisters? I admit that when I entered college and left those lovely girls behind me, I had too many discomforts. But I am also prepared to be alone for the next three years.

However, the god of luck still favors me. In the first few days of school, I followed the collective actions of the dormitory residents. Now, I do this and that with Dandan (the little girl across from my bed) every day.

Let’s introduce Dandan. A girl from Hebei who is silly, hard-working and studious. I call her "silly girl" all day long. She says that I look stupid at first glance. She says that I am the silly girl. So, she called me "Sha Ni" and I called her "Si Ni". I feel like our personalities are very similar and we share the same goals. When we were free, we made plans for the next three years. After planning, I felt that the next three years would be busy and fulfilling. But we like ourselves when we are busy and when we become excellent.

I hope that in the future, we can work together and make progress together. I also hope that the friendship between us can always be pure. Come on! I am very lucky to meet a like-minded and kind-hearted girl in college, which makes me happy.

At this moment, Dandan and I have just gotten up early and finished running, listened to English, finished breakfast, washed clothes, and are writing this article in the dormitory. A fulfilling and busy morning, a new day is about to begin.

Xiaoxiao said that she missed me. She really missed me. It was not a missing that could be resolved by starting a video chat, but she wanted to see me. The pure girl said that if she couldn't find the good friend she wanted, she would go alone. She was worried that I would not eat well like before, so every day she would send a message asking me if I had eaten, but we also regretted that we were not in the same school. The snack foodie said that I was going to a strange city and she was worried about me. She gave me a warning before leaving. Xue said that she was very worried about when I could take good care of myself and stop being like a child who never grows up. My lovely girls, I am so touched! I know how to do it, I will take good care of myself, and I will make myself more mature and independent. But in front of you, I am still so childish and naive, hahahaha...

The reason why I wanted to write this article was actually inspired by a roommate. My roommate is the kind of girl who is nice and enthusiastic to everyone. She seems to have a good relationship with everyone and seems to know everyone. If someone around her doesn't respond with the same enthusiasm and response to her, she will feel left out and will be frustrated and sad. I don't like making friends with others like this, but this is her way of making friends and I can't interfere. After all, everyone thinks and makes friends differently.

I don’t know if she likes this way of making friends, but I know she will be very tired like this. Moreover, the friends I make in this way are very few or even none. Sometimes she would ask me if I felt something was wrong in the dormitory atmosphere. I replied that she didn't feel anything was wrong in the atmosphere. Because I don’t get involved in many things in the dormitory, I just do myself. I don’t intend to deliberately improve the relationship in the dormitory, I’ll just let nature take its course. And the more you try to build a good relationship, the more chaotic it will be.

But she is different from me. She will deliberately improve the relationship in the dormitory, she will play this and that with everyone in the dormitory, and she will deliberately invite everyone in the dormitory to drink milk tea. By the way, there are some things that Dandan and I won’t get involved in, and I won’t get involved either.

Actually, I am not trying to say that my roommate is not a good person.

On the contrary, she is a pretty good person, a very enthusiastic and serious and responsible girl. I quite admire her for this. But a certain aspect of her personality has caused some people in the class to say that she is nosy. I think she may be too enthusiastic about people. Moreover, this kind of girl is not suitable for friendship, but she is still good as a good partner for study and work. By the way, we both work in the same department of the student union! I hope we can have a pleasant cooperation in study and work in the future!

Finally, thank you for all the encounters in the world. Meeting them is the best thing in this life. Cherish everyone who is with you now, because maybe one day they will leave you. Thank you for meeting me, cherish me for meeting you, it is not easy to meet me.