First, be yourself. Everyone holds the living water of his own life, and that is the "true self". True feelings are our innate wealth, which is inexhaustible. A Zen poem said: "Let go of the dust in the world, and there will be no competition between fire and ice in your chest;" Eliminate the contempt in your heart and a bright moon will appear in front of you. "To be true, to have an honest heart and treat your family, you can be close to your filial piety and affection; Treating friends can be indifferent and open-minded; Treat others, you can be generous to others and think less; When you treat things, you can get rid of your eyes, find your nature and enjoy yourself.
Second, to be a self-disciplined person is to "learn from sages, love the people and cultivate one's morality". If you don't learn from sages, you will be slaves to words; Being an official is not for the people, but a well-dressed robber; Talking about learning and not advocating practice is just like a monk chanting scriptures casually and not understanding the Buddha's heart; Achievements without moral cultivation are like an open flower, which will wither in an instant.
Self-discipline comes from a person's true love for himself and from a moral confidant. "Don't be ignorant of power, don't be tempted by the situation, there is a Great Wall in your heart, which can stop the trend." To be a self-disciplined person is to be honest with yourself, simple-minded, and make chivalrous friends; Is to be like bamboo, to be strict and upright; Is to be able to achieve talent first, virtue later, and benefit later; Is to be able to face the temptation of shape * * *, so that the heart is not moving, the eyes are not fascinated, the mouth is not greedy, and the hand is not stretched out. Self-esteem because of self-discipline, self-confidence because of self-discipline.
Third, be a quiet person. "Don't be surprised, just look at the flowers in front of the court, stay or not, and go with the clouds." Silence is a normal mind, a mind and a realm. Keeping quiet means keeping your ambition, your heart, your poverty, your integrity and your ambition.
To keep quiet is to be a leisure person with a quiet heart. If you are not tempted, you can stick to moral integrity. Only when you are not tempted can you protect your true self. Static, not static, exists in the dynamic balance, and it is an inner state of balance and tranquility through self-adjustment. A calm heart can jump out of secular jealousy; A quiet heart can kill greed and obsession; A quiet heart can have idle interests; A quiet heart can reach the indifferent state of "looking back at the bleak place and going home without rain or shine" in Su Shi's Ding Feng.
Fourth, be a person who dares to challenge himself. Laozi said, "Those who know others are wise, those who know themselves are clear, those who win others are strong, and those who win themselves are strong." A man who can understand others and know people with his eyes is a wise man, but a man who can be familiar with himself and know himself is a real wise man; He who can defeat others is a powerful warrior, and he who can defeat himself is truly powerful.
Difficulties are not terrible. The terrible thing is that everyone has lost confidence and fighting spirit. Life is a textbook. Many times, the environment around you is not as good as everyone hopes. In trouble, you need to learn to appreciate yourself, believe in yourself, affirm yourself and encourage yourself. In this way, you will find that your life will be full of new vitality, so that every day in your life can be a brand-new self, a self who dares to challenge, and a self who flies in the sky. Everyone is different and has their own unique beauty. Life is so beautiful and the sky is so clear. What needs to be changed is not the environment around us, but everyone's mentality.
Verb (short for verb) Be an introspective person.