1 A friend is another self.
These people are like a mirror. The light they reflect reflects our appearance and affects our thinking, knowledge and level.
In this life, the choice of friends is often the choice of life.
Work with reliable people.
In life and work, I occasionally meet people who are not at ease in doing things. Good things promised are always perfunctory; The agreed date is always postponed; Even if something goes wrong, it will only habitually "throw the pot" and blame.
In fact, doing things reliably seems to be an ability, but it is actually an attitude.
Think more about everything and do more. It's not impossible, but whether you are willing to be responsible for others, things and yourself.
Things go home, not unwilling, not perfunctory, not sloppy, but down-to-earth, beginning and ending.
How reliable a person's credit value will be if they face difficulties together and solve problems together.
With more experience, you will understand that it may not be the event itself, but who you cooperate with.
Cooperate with reliable people, get twice the result with half the effort.
A reliable person is not necessarily a person who can say beautiful words, but he must be a person who keeps his word; Maybe not the most capable person, but it must be a responsible person; Maybe not the closest person, but it must be someone who can give you enough security.
Make friends with kind people.
In life, too many people are smart, but they let themselves fall into the pit. There are too many things to calculate, but you make yourself suffer.
The communication between people is nothing more than caring for each other.
People who give you everything you want are not stupid and always reassure you; People who are willing to let you take advantage are not stupid, but feel that there is no need to care. People who take the initiative to pay the bill are not rich, but value feelings over money.
Don't always overdraw others' kindness to you and don't take others' kindness to you for granted.
If others are kind to you, you should also be kind to yourself and sincere to each other, so that friendship can last deeper and longer.
An optimistic person is approaching middle age, and there will be countless pressures and tiredness on him. As soon as something happens, he will have a low mood and need time to resolve it. It is more necessary to have a process of acceptance and adaptation, but don't indulge in emotions for too long. I will learn to adjust my mind in time and start over.
An optimistic person will regard all kinds of difficulties imposed on himself as experiences. They are not unhappy, but they know that instead of spending time worrying about the future and being dissatisfied with the status quo, it is better to adjust their mentality, respond positively and do what they should do.
A person with a bright mind, even if he is plain, can see and touch, and is unique among all people.
I like a passage very much: "how far a person can go depends on who he travels with;" How good a person is depends on who he is pointing to; " How successful a person is depends on who he is with.
If you want to be excellent, you need to get close to excellent circles and excellent people.
Please choose to walk with the right person and live the life you like.