I have no feelings for a long time! When I was a child, every time someone came to Guanli’s house, my parents always entertained them with good food and drinks. Bring souvenirs and buy train tickets when you leave! When there are weddings and funerals in my hometown in Shandong, my parents either provide money or things. When I was about 15 years old, my father told me that he would take me back to my hometown in Shandong! I was very excited, and my father was also very happy! After all, we are returning to our parents’ hometown! However, my old family members were not as enthusiastic as I imagined. Only my father's aunt, who was almost 70 years old, received us. She gave birth to 7 children, and none of them took care of her! My aunt lives on her own. We originally planned a one-month journey, but my father took me back north in three days. On the way back, my father was speechless and just looked out the window! From then on, my father never mentioned that he was from Shandong!

In fact, the folks from Shandong and Northeast China are related by blood after all, and the bitter years back then really made people cry. In fact, this feeling has gradually faded, but the descendants of the fellow villagers still have feelings for their hometown in their hearts.

Why do I say this? Due to climate reasons, the population of the three northeastern provinces has the tendency to migrate southward. Many descendants of fellow Northeasterners choose to buy houses in our cities in the coastal areas of Shandong. I asked them a few days ago, and he said that if you buy a house here, you can breathe the air of your hometown, the local accent, the living habits, and the seafood you love to eat. In fact, when any of us are in China, no matter which province we are in, our feelings about our hometown will not change. Although the environment has changed and people's faces have changed, there is one thing that is difficult for her to change, and that is blood relationship. Of course, since the reform and opening up, population mobility has accelerated. In fact, your hometown will always be in your heart.

When I heard this, I shed tears,

Said: It is the ashes that are hotter than the earth...

Of course, because they have the same roots and the same race. Nowadays, although there are many ancestors who came to Guandong and stayed in Northeast China for more than 60 years, there are still many family members in Shandong.

For example: My father came to Northeast China before liberation, but my grandfather’s two younger brothers are in Shandong. Although the elders are not here, they have always been in contact with each other. Now there is a WeChat group called a certain family. My mother has been in the Northeast for more than 60 years, my grandparents were in Shandong, and my mother and father went back many times. Now my brother and sister are all in Shandong. My brother, sister and I all went back to Shandong.

My neighbor’s parents are in Shandong. They are now over 90, and their family members come and go frequently. Kiss or not? Still from my hometown. My mother is willing to talk about people from Guanli. When I went out for a walk in the small square, when I saw me, I said: Who is from Guanli, who is a fellow countryman, and fellow countrymen see fellow countrymen.

We may not have close contact with the younger generation, but we still keep in touch with the elderly, brothers and sisters. After all, we are family members, and we will never forget our roots. Blood is the same and cannot be separated...

Sometimes, I ask my mother: Do you want to go back to Guanli? Because my grandfather was afraid of breaking up with my father, he took his marriage to the Northeast. My mother’s hometown is Qingdao, and now my uncle and aunt are living very well. My mother said: I won’t go back. I am used to living in the Northeast, and my children are also in the Northeast. There are also very few who go back. Habits become natural, but the family affection is still there...

I don’t know if the Guanli people in Shandong have feelings for the Northeasterners from Shandong, but the Northeasterners from Shandong have a lasting affection for their ancestral home in Shandong. . No matter how many generations the descendants of Guandong have passed through, their place of origin is always a certain city or county in Shandong. Even though their relatives in Shandong are no longer there, they always remember where their roots are! Everyone has a dream to go to their ancestral home to find out their roots and how their family developed. Remember the ancestors and create the future!

Take a three-dimensional view of society, and look at life vertically and horizontally; society is full of changes, and the world is hot and cold; the environment changes concepts, and reality determines life.

If you are poor in Wei City, no one will ask you.

If you are rich and live in the mountains, you will have distant relatives.

The young man left home and returned home in vain.

Who do you know the old boy has met? …

When parents are here, there is still a way to go in life;

When parents are gone, there is only a way back in life.

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The laughter and laughter of brothers and sisters gathered around the same pot to eat rice has become a childhood memory.

In today's environment where "everything is about money, and people laugh at poverty but not at prostitution," how could family, friendship, and nostalgia not have an indescribable flavor in different forms? ...

The veteran has been away from his hometown for more than 40 years, and visits his hometown in Shandong every now and then. He burns paper incense sticks and eats his head for his deceased relatives, looking for a psychological balance, and chatting from house to house. Recounting the past, talking about some old family stories, brothers, sisters, neighbors in the hometown, strong friendship, classmates and comrades are like a book. When you open it, you can see various stories. Together, they are memories of pure friendship.

Human beings are not grass and trees, so how can they be ruthless? I love the family and friendship in my hometown. In the information age, we communicate with each other more and express our true feelings. Don’t forget the naughty boy in my later years: a wanderer from Qilu, a "blind drifter" and a veteran of the desert! …

Let me tell you what comes to mind. Before the reform and opening up, my hometown in Shandong was poor. All my relatives and friends from my hometown, neighbors, and people from ten miles and eight villages, both familiar and unknown, went to the Northeast every year. Came to seek refuge. They were in charge of food, housing and housing, and they had to ask for help from the door and the windows to settle down. In the first half of the year, I had to help them from time to time. After the reform and opening up, changes occurred in their hometown in Shandong. They gradually became richer, and they rarely went to the Northeast again. The Northeast is indeed getting worse year by year. A few years ago, relatives and friends in my hometown could still make phone calls. In recent years, with the death of the elderly, most of the Northeast is not prosperous, and there are fewer and fewer contacts. They have also forgotten how they helped them in the past. cough! Say no more, you are so ungrateful!

No, Shandong has few resources per capita and a great survival crisis. People struggle fiercely with each other, are calculating, harsh and exclusive.

Northeast has feelings for his hometown. The Northeast has abundant resources per capita and has a culture of urban state-owned enterprises that puts little pressure on survival.

Actually there is none.

On the contrary, Northeasterners from Shandong became more familiar with Shandongese’s speech. He will take the initiative to mention that his ancestral home is also Shandong.

In Shandong, if you speak Northeastern dialect, you will be labeled as a Northeastern person. The enthusiasm of Shandong people is relatively slow, and will only be released after getting familiar with it or having a relationship.

The soil and water support the people. The so-called hometown must be the place where you were born, and the so-called home must be the place where your parents are. And ancestral home is just a kind of genetic memory.

My grandfather has six brothers, four of whom are in Northeast China. They all traveled to Guandong. My grandfather also traveled to Guandong, but returned to Shandong for various reasons. The right and wrong of this cannot be explained clearly in one sentence. One of the grandfathers died when he was fighting against U.S. aggression and aiding Korea in Northeast China. Grandpa and the four Northeastern ones are half-mother. Around the early 1990s, when I was only five or six years old, one of the grandfathers returned to Shandong because of a quarrel with his son and lived in my house. This grandpa lived in my house for about a month. Maybe it was because of our blood relationship that the three of us, brother and sister, felt no stranger to this amiable grandpa. The image I still remember very clearly is of grandpa sitting in the yard, laughing and playing with us. When my grandfather left to return to the Northeast, there were no cars at that time. It would be great to have a donkey cart at home. On a drizzly day, my grandfather sat on my uncle's donkey cart. Our family watched my grandfather leave with tears in his eyes at the door of my uncle's house. Later, my grandfather also sent photos to me, but that grandfather passed away not long after I returned home. There is still a grandfather alive today. My father has always wanted to visit the Northeast. Once when I went to Dalian, I asked him if he wanted to go. He said he still didn’t want to go. Because we all belong to an ordinary family, in my father's opinion, only when he is living a good life can he be embarrassed to visit his uncle. Since he is not well-off at home, he is embarrassed to go. In fact, we all know that he really wants to go. We said you don’t need to consider the financial aspect, but he still backed down. In fact, I feel that my dad thinks too much, thinking that I may be a poor relative, and I am afraid that others will look down upon me. In fact, this grandpa’s son, who is also my uncle, once came to Jinan on a business trip and took time to return to our hometown in order to continue the family tree. After having a meal in the middle, I went back in a hurry.

My parents used to keep in touch with my grandparents in Northeast China every Chinese New Year, sending videos and sending special products. However, the economy has developed in the past two years. There is no shortage of anything, and I don’t send anything. I just make phone calls to say New Year greetings. My mother said she didn’t call her this year because she didn’t know if my grandparents were still alive.

I feel that although the distance is far away, the feelings are still there even though the bones are broken and the tendons are connected. Although we don't contact each other often, we still have feelings for each other. But as the old saying goes, if you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives, but if you are poor in the city, you have no one to care about you. Perhaps family ties cannot avoid this.

I went to Liaocheng for business the year before last and went to the park on Sunday. During the break, the 80-year-old man next to me started chatting. He asked: Where are you from? I said Northeast, but my hometown is also Shandong. He also asked if he heard that life in the Northeast has not been very good these past few years. I said it was okay, but not as good as here. He went on to say that now that he is back, don’t go back. [Face covering]