How important is positive thinking?
Almost everyone has friends. Many of my friends are excellent. Two of them, who didn't finish high school, borrowed some money to work, and finally became bosses and became rich.
I admire such friends, and I think maybe my experience is similar to theirs.
After appreciation, I think more: people are really different. This difference has lasted for decades, and everyone's ending can be described as a floating cloud.
Excellent and successful people must have a reason. So, what are they?
In the process of interacting with friends, friends who have been successful for a long time have some common characteristics. To sum up, I am optimistic, not picky, good at cooperation and persistent.
Excellent and successful people generally have these qualities. Successful people are all alike, and unsuccessful people have their own failures.
How important optimism is, I won't go into details. I wrote it the other day.
It is not surprising that you can be elected without criticizing others. People are social animals, destined to deal with society, and people also have nature: love themselves the most. Usually, even if he is wrong and you are right, he will not obey you if you criticize him or criticize him in public. Not serious, the relationship is at least not harmonious, and the heart is open; Seriously, bury the seeds of resentment in your heart.
Many people can't help others, and most people really rely on themselves. But he can destroy you. It is difficult to do sth. You have worked hard in all kinds of obstacles and challenges, and your ability is very strong. People secretly set you up. You fell.
Make more friends and fewer enemies, and your road will be much smoother. This concept is broad, friends, there are timely help, but also casual acquaintances, the enemy will not * * * wear clothes, and some are only secretly criticized and derogated.
Friends become enemies, maybe just because of your criticism.
People's consciousness is often either white or black. People who often love to criticize and criticize will never love to praise and appreciate others, while those who like to identify, appreciate and praise others will never criticize and criticize others easily. If you don't realize it, you will go to darkness on the road of criticism. Once you wake up, you will walk to the end on the road of appreciation and praise.
In fact, people who realize it have entered a higher level. People always dislike others, think or insist that they are on the right side, and it is almost instinctive to criticize others. Only by deeply understanding the disadvantages of criticism can we have strong motivation and consciousness to automatically put an end to criticism, slowly change our nature and get on the right track.
People who realize this feel that they have opened a new door and seen a new life scene. Similar to enlightenment.
Once enlightened, you will be reborn.
Not criticizing others is related to positive thinking. People who don't criticize others are more willing to cooperate. The first time I saw you, he showed initiative and smiling face, showing recognition and even appreciation for you. This is the essence of positive thinking: cooperation, * * * win. Your achievements are not my losses.
Carve cooperative thinking into the bone marrow and show cooperative spirit and attitude at any time. Through this, your strength will be infinitely magnified, and your opportunities will be infinitely magnified. Others' resources will be shared with you.
People who are good at cooperation will never have a bad life, a low ability and a lot of friends.
Perseverance cannot be ignored. Everything is made by people, and the simplest water can't be boiled. Plug in the plug, turn on the power, turn on the switch, and do this simple action to boil the water.
There is an institution abroad that studies what makes people different. They found winners and losers, started tests, and found that their intelligence was similar, even if some of them were unsuccessful. Until later, an experiment found a problem. Final experiment: Let them look for needles in a pile of toothpicks to see who can find them first. Actually, there is no needle in the toothpick. Therefore, unsuccessful people usually spend less time looking for needles than successful people.
Many times, persistence itself is very important. Liu Xiang hurdled again, didn't insist on training, and his level dropped rapidly. If you don't insist on training before you become famous, you can't be a champion at all.
Someone asked the writer how to write a good work, and the writer replied: Start writing.
People who have achieved something must have perseverance. Start and then stick to it.
Author: Pete
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