The way to organize communication.
Nowadays, there are many dating softwares. When two people are together, they will add more or less obstacles to each other and care about the dynamics of others. Common ones are Sina Weibo, mobile phone WeChat, QQ, Baidu Post Bar and Zhihu Q&A. According to the service platform we played together before, we can know whether others have been completely hacked. If there are one or two left, then _ silently care about it, without waiting for the release of information. If not, you can care about the other party according to a new account, think about the real-time dynamics of our other party and master its recent dynamics.
There is an extreme situation, that is, the other party blocks all methods of revealing information. Seeing this, we can "buy" his friends and get the information people need to know. To sum up, we should explore various ways to obtain each other's intelligence information and immediately grasp each other's dynamics. He is in the dark, and I am still in the dark, so I can observe it carefully.
Reduce the sense of demand
People with a high sense of demand think about each other all the time, as if they can't live normally without each other. Reducing the sense of demand is to twist the feeling back and let others have a higher sense of demand than you. So, from the beginning, you have to rebuild your life. You should pay special attention to your dashboard, the transformation from an otaku to a social media expert, your efforts, your courage to explore, and your choices. These are all elements that can attract each other. When the other person sees that you will no longer have her in your life, it will be more exciting and interesting, and will make more efforts than her current situation, which will cause some ups and downs in her heart and pay more attention to you. The more you care, the higher your sense of need.
You don't have to stop pushing dynamic information.
Although the other person has blacked himself out, no one can be sure that he will really stop paying attention to some of his life dynamics. Hacking is just a way, and it is not very likely that the other party will check himself quietly, so you don't have to stop pushing dynamic information on the network platform. The main content can be to write some feelings about a relationship or to release your thoughts about him. But some things must be adjusted: that is, changes in life. If you push the same life dynamics as in the past, it is certainly impossible to attract others.
After breaking up, everyone is curious, but the constant thing is to deepen each other's misunderstanding. Let him feel that he has changed and is getting better and better for himself. Some lifestyles I tried in the past are now being experienced, which make my life more exciting and interesting. It has also undergone great changes and development, and both the brand image and the gas field have been greatly improved. May I ask who doesn't like successful people? The use of visual effects and the change of means have a great influence on the psychological state of the other party, breaking the defense of the other party in one fell swoop.
Can we get back together after breaking up? After breaking up, you are blacked out by the other party, so you don't have to give up. You just need to grasp reasonable ways and means, recognize the objective facts of separation, improve your own style, and enrich your WeChat circle of friends at the same time, which is conducive to saving feelings.