Your question is something that every LES will encounter. Open parents will think that only children are not sensible and will not go to extremes, but they will also want to drag their children back to the so-called right path. This road is not easy. You and your dear family should have the courage to face all difficulties. If your parents are more open and not very stubborn, you can choose a suitable opportunity to talk to them. But it's best not to show your cards at once, but to attack from the side. Talk to them about this problem first and test their attitude, and then what will happen if they do this? You are their own flesh and blood, and they will never be cruel to you all their lives. As long as you and your lover persist enough to influence them, everything will suddenly become clear. If your family is particularly unhappy for a long time, try to find a homosexual to help you ... good luck.