People often say that the more self-discipline, the more freedom. Freedom is indeed an attractive realm. For this freedom, you need to make a lot of efforts to make yourself better and stronger, so that one day, you don't care about being bothered by trivial things, and all this depends on self-discipline. When you've cooked countless times of poisoned chicken soup, you find that if you can't have real self-discipline inside, no matter how hard you try, it's in vain. So, is self-discipline really difficult? Actually, it is not. When a person starts from the heart, is temperate and has a regular life, then his behavior can naturally be called excellent. All worldly things are often noisy and chaotic, which can often affect our lives. So some people, once they reach a high degree of self-discipline, will appear unsociable. In my opinion, in life, you can't have your cake and eat it. A highly self-disciplined person must be willing to spend time investing in himself. They don't want to fit in, and they can't. However, such people often succeed.

Set a small ambition, no one likes it since school. After all, he was studying while other children were folding the airplane. Later, in high school, many students fell in love, and he was still studying. Being a child of others' family since childhood, he was naturally disliked by other children, but he never cared since childhood. When he went to college, everyone else was enjoying the freedom from his parents, but he let himself have less time. There is no time for parties and meals. His schedule is so full that most people can't participate in his life. So no matter what he does, he always goes alone. A person runs in the morning, a person is busy with his own research, and a person goes to have a good relationship with the teacher. In this way, Xiao Zhi, who was "hated", jumped to a big company six months ago and got an enviable position. To tell his story, it can be summarized in one sentence. Self-disciplined people can certainly save themselves.

Why do I say that people with high self-discipline tend to be unsociable?

In life, the most common phenomenon is to be alone, certainly different from others, and the most important thing is self-discipline, for which there are no more than three reasons.

They make friends selectively. How do they get along?

A highly self-disciplined person, compared with ordinary people, naturally has great advantages, because they are willing to make progress and have a higher ideological level than others. If a group can be happy together, it must be because the group's thoughts are the same. So I think people with high self-discipline are not unwilling to integrate into the group, but some groups cannot integrate. Although it is difficult for them to find intimate friends in life, they are unwilling to get along with people who don't know themselves. We care more about being alone than being clumsy and gregarious. Therefore, people with high self-discipline are unsociable because they will make friends selectively and know who is more suitable for them and who is their fellow traveler, so they will not make friends casually.

They set out with a purpose and won't let the group waste time.

A person's life is only a few short decades. Once you miss it, you will never go back. Don't wait until you are old, and you will regret when you recall your youth. Whether you choose to fit in or not, make sure you have enough time to sprint for the future. A highly self-disciplined person always arranges his life in order. They do the right thing at the right time and don't want to change their life plans easily for others. However, most people in the group are content with the status quo of life. They want to change, but they are unwilling to take action, which runs counter to people with high self-discipline So I think many people have to spend a lot of time and energy to get along with others, which greatly slows down their progress. People who are highly self-disciplined can only choose to be unsociable in order to make progress.

They have their own personalities, and there is no need to change themselves in order to fit in.

There is a saying that our life is like a Rubik's cube. In the Rubik's Cube, if you get used to it, you disappear. Every second, countless people are born and passed away, but time is flowing. In the past year, only a few people can go down in history. In my opinion, most of us are born ordinary, and only those who are full of their own personalities have the opportunity to write wonderful chapters. When a person is alive, personality is particularly important. If he loses himself, he will be like a walking corpse in the street. A highly self-disciplined person is full of personality. If you blindly integrate, you can only make yourself in the group, obliterate your personality and become vulgar. So they have their own unique side and will not change themselves easily because of others.

Summary:

Everyone has different views on gregarious. Some people think that gregarious people are too heartless, while others think that unsociable people are too difficult to get along with. But in fact, in life, you can be what you want, and there is no need to change yourself according to others. As the saying goes, don't forget your initiative, so that you can achieve your ultimate goal. If you choose a high degree of self-discipline, you can reach the height of life you want, but for this, you must lose something. These things may be friends, but of course they are totally unsuitable for your friends. We are born as human beings, always afraid of loneliness, but you have to understand that only by adapting to loneliness can we live the life we want. This is the reality. That's why I say that a person is highly self-disciplined and often doesn't fit in. Because you don't fit in, you can be more self-disciplined and because of self-discipline, you won't fit in casually.