During the Eastern Han Dynasty, there was a little man named Jubo Xun who liked to make friends.
Making friends is not a fashionable topic. From ancient times to the present, from China to other countries in the world, everyone has this hobby. However, it used to be difficult to make friends. After all, the traffic was inconvenient at that time and it was difficult to reach. It's really a heavy physical activity to run around with two feet pointing to make friends. Unlike now, registering a good friend will immediately attract "friends" all over the world. Friends are never "individuals", they are all divided according to "groups". Groups, which sound like cows and horses, gather bees and flies. However, if it is so easy to make friends, then "friends" will lose their meaning accordingly. I didn't know if it was the fate of two people making friends from generation to generation, so everyone attached great importance to friendship.
Jubo Xun's friendship is not aimed at "many friends, many roads", but people value the word "righteousness". This is obviously the poison of Confucianism. In the Eastern Han Dynasty, Confucianism was especially respected. Dong Zhongshu put forward the policy program of "ousting a hundred schools of thought and respecting Confucianism alone", which was actually implemented. This Xun Xiong naturally advocates Confucianism, so his understanding of those "loyalty", "filial piety", "chastity" and "righteousness" is naturally in place, almost engraved in his heart. I think, Jubo Xun must have heard the story of "Mountains and rivers under the nameless mountain at the mouth of Hanyang River in Yu Boya meet their children". Perhaps he also shed tears for Yu Boya to break his beloved lyre to comfort his dead friend. I think, even after listening to the rhetoric of "My parents gave birth to me, and the steamed stuffed bun knew me", I even praised Bao's generosity and kindness. So this little guy named Xun has set an example in his heart, hoping that one day he can become an example of faithfulness and friendship like the above two celebrities.
The opportunity will come soon.
Once, Jubo Xun trudged to visit a sick friend, but he happened to meet the Hu people who attacked the city where his friend lived. It is a coincidence that you say so, not to mention the speed of Jubo Xun's journey, not to mention his friend's illness. Just because the conference semifinals chose this city to attack Jubo Xun, which is doomed to success. (article reading network: www.sanwen.net)
Jubo Xun stood in front of his friend's bed, watching his friend in tears and dying, and his heart was full of sadness. A friend knows that he is seriously ill and can't escape. He doesn't care about doomed death. His only concern is the safety of his friends. A friend said to Jubo Xun, "Let's go. I am a dying man. There is no point in your staying here. " But this guy said, "I came all the way to see you, and you want me to abandon you." Do you think I am such a immoral person who lives an ignoble life? "
Soon, the enemy invaded the city and came in the direction of a friend's house. At that time, there were very few people left in the city, and everyone was in a hurry to escape.
Friends are helpless and panting, waiting for the arrival of bad luck.
After the thieves arrived, it was difficult to find anyone in the city. They were very puzzled that Jubo Xun stayed in this isolated city, so they asked, "When our army arrived, the whole city was empty. How dare you stay here? " Listen to what Jubo Xun said again-"If a friend has a disease, he can't bear to entrust it. He would rather trade my life for his friend. " When this statement comes out, it is righteous. It is difficult for us to study Jubo Xun's psychology when he said this sentence. We don't know whether he heard the song of flowing mountains and rivers and whether his ears echoed with Mr. Guan Zhong's heartfelt words, but what is certain is that this time he fulfilled his promise of friendship and interpreted morality. Therefore, the Hu people were ashamed of what they said, and they couldn't wait to hit the wall at once and accuse each other, saying, "It's a big mistake for us unjust people to join the righteous country." Therefore, only by consciously withdrawing troops can the whole city be preserved.
At first glance, I think the skull of Jubo Xun, the protagonist, may have been caught by the door, and I feel a little dizzy. Isn't he making the mistake of "Tang Youde"-he is just an ordinary man, but he is bent on being a knight, and as a result, he makes so many jokes. However, this story is not ridiculous. From Shi Shuo Xin Yu, Volume I, Virtue. The theme of the story is clear: it not only shows the meaning of "virtue", but also clarifies the truth of being a man.
It is difficult to judge the credibility of this story. For modern people, the probability of such a thing happening is almost zero, but in the Eastern Han Dynasty, as for the Wei and Jin Dynasties, such an elegant and chastity story definitely happened. The author may be suspected of exaggerating the role of "virtue" through the story, but this story is still instructive, especially in today's society where friends have no virtue, rules are difficult to restrain, benevolence and righteousness do not exist, and morality is decadent.