Women cannot care too much about men.
Women cannot care too much about men. Women always rely on and care about men unconsciously. This is the nature of women, which makes them easy to love. Men always care about him so much, so is it good or bad for women to care about men? Let me share with you the knowledge that women should not care too much about men.
Women should not care too much about men 1
1. If it is too easy to possess, men will feel that it is not precious
In the sea of ??people, in the course of life , if two people are together, if they don’t put in too much effort, they will get together and fall in love with each other; then between two people, when they get it, it will be too easy, so the two people’s hearts will be filled with love. You won’t feel how precious it is; because one person is too easy for another person to get, it means that this person will love very humblely; he will always do things to please the other person in front of the other person; but the more this happens , On the contrary, in the eyes of the other party, this person became a worthless person.
If a woman cares too much about a man, then the man will not cherish it; the main reason is that if a woman cares too much about a man, she will definitely be humble in front of the man and give to the man without asking for anything in return; If you get together with a woman without putting in much experience, then in a man's heart, he will not feel how good and precious a woman is; in a man's heart, things that are too easy to have will always be lost. You will feel that it is not the best, nor is it the most cherished; because women love too humblely, it will naturally make people think that women have no personality and color.
2. If a woman doesn’t care, the more reluctant a man will be.
On the way to falling in love, if a person does not care about a person in his heart, then generally speaking, in the process of getting along, two people will not care about each other. , the other person will feel a lot of warmth and warmth, and taste the other person's lack of attention, indifference, and indifference; and at this time, the heart will feel particularly unwilling; because both people on the road of love hope that they can Get the other person's care and get the other person's love in return; if you have given a lot for a long time but failed to move the other person's heart, then you will feel particularly uncomfortable and extremely uncomfortable; then you will always think about conquering the other person. .
Women care too much about men, but men don’t cherish them; because in a man’s heart, after giving so much, he hopes to be rewarded by a woman; but when a man pays so much, he not only does not receive anything in return from a woman, but instead If a woman doesn't care, doesn't care, or doesn't take it seriously, then this is a very painful thing for a man. Therefore, if he is unwilling to accept it, he will naturally become more interested in women. In a man's heart, there is always I want to pay more so that one day women will care about themselves and truly fall in love with themselves; so I will care more about women and love them more.
3. Heart is difficult to own, but men think it is the most precious.
Two people who are together do not mean that they will give sincerely; many times, it is not a man. Ruthlessness means that a woman has no intention; if two people love each other, if one person's heart has never been given to the other person; no matter how much the other person has given, the other person has not been moved; then in this person's heart, the other person will feel that the other person is more precious; because The more you give and the less you get the other person, the more helpless and uncomfortable you will feel in your heart. That’s why you feel that the things that are hard to get are precious; then you will care more about the other person and cherish the other person. .
If you care too much about a man, he will not cherish it; because in a man's heart, if he loves a woman, he hopes to win a woman's heart; but although a woman is with a man every day, her heart is never with a man; In a man's heart, he has never been able to get a woman's sincerity, but he is always treated ruthlessly by a woman. Therefore, in a man's heart, he feels that a woman is the most precious, the best, and the most cherished. This is why it is so difficult to get. , so I feel that it is so precious and so hard to let go; if it is too easy to get, men will naturally not take it seriously.
If a woman cares too much about a man, the man will not cherish it; first of all, if it is too easy to possess, the man will feel that it is not precious; in the heart of a man, if it is too easy to get a woman, then the woman must love the man too much. Humble, doing a lot of things that make men feel inferior, so men feel that women are not important anymore. Secondly, if women don’t care, men will be more unwilling to do so. Because women don’t care, then men feel that they have paid so much but have not won women’s hearts, so they will naturally not be reconciled and treat women better. Finally, the heart is difficult to possess, and men think it is the most precious; if it is too easy to get, men do not cherish it. Women should not care too much about men 2
1. First kiss
Women pay attention to their first kiss, and many boys have said that the "first kiss" in their memory is It does not refer specifically to the first kiss, but the most beautiful kiss, which determines the future development of the relationship. Because the first kiss is inexperienced, it feels uncomfortable and difficult for men to remember. And a high-quality and passionate kiss can activate all the sensory cells of a man. This kind of kiss makes a man's life shine, and it will also affect his future views on mate selection.
2. The first trip
Some people say that if a man and a woman cannot travel happily together, they cannot be a couple; if a couple is not happy while traveling, their relationship will also deteriorate. Won't last. It can be seen how important the feeling when traveling is to love and marriage. Some people say that cohabitation or trial marriage is the best way for men and women to get close to marriage and understand whether they are suitable for each other. However, there are too many risks in cohabitation or trial marriage, and we have a more cumbersome way - traveling. Whether it's a long or short trip, or even a simple meal out, it can bring out the flaws in both parties' personalities. Traveling is the best way to understand each other. Your wife may be the girl you met on a trip and have the happiest time with.
3. Saying "I love you" for the first time
This sentence should come from the heart. It is a milestone in love life and clarifies that "this relationship is really that great." thing". But saying "I love you" too early will appear hasty; saying it too much will make the other person bored, so both men and women should cherish the opportunity to express love.
4. It was the first time I discovered that she was very humorous.
Today we all attach great importance to humor and regard it as a smoothener in life, which can mediate relationships and resolve conflicts. Almost every boy hopes to meet a funny girl and have a close relationship with her. Therefore, in daily interactions, you might as well show your optimistic and humorous side more, so that men can get along with you more happily and harmoniously. Please remember that men will remember your first humor. With a pair of keen eyes, they will dig out your first humor and bury it deep in their hearts.
5. Meeting her friend for the first time
"Birds of a feather flock together" is also how we make friends today. Most boys want to get to know their girlfriend's friends. If one of them likes to lie or behaves badly, most of them will break up with their girlfriend decisively. But some people argue against this. A small number of boys say that no one is perfect, so they don't care much about their girlfriend's friends and don't want this to affect their relationship. When a girl takes a boy to meet her friends, it proves that the girl has acquiesced in the relationship between the two. This will be an important milestone in the relationship between the two, and the man will miss him all the time.
6. Give her the wardrobe for the first time
Nowadays, many people often live together for a period of time before getting married to judge whether the personalities of both parties are compatible.
Guys often think that when a guy lets his girlfriend put clothes in his closet, that's a big hint that I'm serious about this relationship. Because in the eyes of boys, a neat wardrobe represents a sense of intention.
7. Say "I do" boldly for the first time
Many boys are very panicked when they get married, and are even afraid of making mistakes when saying "I do". They feel that It will make people regret it for a lifetime. A small number of boys are very afraid that when they get married, they will be thirsty and unable to speak, causing the bride to mistakenly think that he is not happy. So a few days before the wedding, they kept practicing this sentence in front of the mirror, until that day when they opened their mouths, they said the three words "I do" happily and loudly.
8. Becoming a father for the first time
There is no more exciting moment in a man’s life than being a father for the first time, and many boys will even cry with joy. Almost all boys say that life will be complete only when they become fathers. "The moment you see your child, you understand the value of life." Only when a man becomes a father can he truly grow up and truly become the backbone of your family.